hair loss is the ultimate buzzkill at any given time

[Exodus2011]

i freaking hate how i can be in a good mood and then someone jokes about it like it doesnt mean anything and the whole day goes to ****

im just very very very very tired of feeling like im 50 in a 20 year olds body

i just told off one of my friends for joking about it, i told him if he ever mentions it again i never wanna talk to him again or see him

even when i just shave my head it looks weird. ive been told i looked like a pedo so many times with a shaved head its not even funny.

your screwed if you grow it out and you are screwed if you shave it.

i have to admit shaved head can be okay style if you are tall, manly, or muscular, but as a 5 foot 6 pathetic bodied individual it sucks ****ing giant dick

 

[gravesen]

You're a brave guy, not like these pathetic guys on here who stays with friends who jokes about their hairloss and are proud that they got "sense of humor".

If any of my friends jokes about my hairloss (wich they'll never do, i'm not a victim), i will never talk to him again after one and only warning.

I understand what you're saying by the way, it goes the same way with me when i see a movie or a soccer match where everybody have a friggin' good hair.

 

[DannyBoyy]

You're a brave guy, not like these pathetic guys on here who stays with friends who jokes about their hairloss and are proud that they got "sense of humor".

If any of my friends jokes about my hairloss (wich they'll never do, i'm not a victim), i will never talk to him again after one and only warning.

I understand what you're saying by the way, it goes the same way with me when i see a movie or a soccer match where everybody have a friggin' good hair.

How is it pathetic? you must be one boring person if you cant joke about life etc.

 

[Exodus2011]

yea exacty man, i dont wanna be a second class citizen

yep, same here.

yea about the third part too, once you have hair loss you start noticing how rare it is and how no one appreciates their hair lol

 

[gravesen]

How is it pathetic? you must be one boring person if you cant joke about life etc.

When you see a fat guy, do you keep joking about how fat he is ?

I'm not boring, but i'm not pathetic either, i will not laugh about the cancer of a friend, his hairloss, or him having a freakish head etc. There is something called respect. I don't see where is the humor in this very painful subject, sorry.

You can laugh about a looooot of things in wich your friends had a choice and made a pathethic decisions, maybe yeah, but mocking him for his genetics, nor me nor my friends would do that.

 

[Exodus2011]

yea, and pretty much right now ive stopped caring about trying to get girls and am just using meds hopefuly to where my hair loss isnt that noticeable

once it isnt too noticeable i can apply for jobs where you dont have to wear a hat and work towards the future, girls are an afterthought

 

[DannyBoyy]

When you see a fat guy, do you keep joking about how fat he is ?

I'm not boring, but i'm not pathetic either, i will not laugh about the cancer of a friend, his hairloss, or him having a freakish head etc. There is something called respect.

You can laugh about a looooot of things in wich your friends had a choice and make a pathethic decisions, maybe yeah, but mocking him for his genetics, nor me nor my friends would do that.

Dont say things about "being fat" here i tried to say what you said about being fat here before but got nothing but grief and CANCER thats a TOTALLY different thing its DEADILY cause i wouldnt joke about that i understand that YOU dont like "jokes" about hairloss but it dont mean its "pathetic" if others do it when me and my friends joke about things that all it is...a JOKE nothing more do you watch a comedian and think what a tosser? no cause you know he is JOKING he/she means no harm...same with my friends they wouldnt do it if they know i didnt like it...if they did it WELL KNOWING i didnt like it then yes...yes i would be pissed.

 

[gravesen]

I consider hairloss as deadly as cancer, mental health and having a sexual life is as important for me than life in itself.

 

[DannyBoyy]

I consider hairloss as deadly as cancer, mental health and having a sexual life is as important for me than life in itself.

Wow...just...just...WOW.

 

[Exodus2011]

and ironicallly THE worst aspect of cancer is the loss of hair according to cancer patients themselves

[h=1]“That was the worst part about having cancer, sometimes: The physical evidence of disease separates you from other people.”[/h]
― John Green, The Fault in Our Stars

http://jamespoppell.hubpages.com/hub/A-Candid-Interview-With-a-Cancer-Survivor

here there are plenty of other examples too just look it up

 

[DannyBoyy]

Anyway the uncomfortable man explained in a different thread what IM trying to explain right now about friends who jokes...me and him dont see eye to eye here but im sure even him can agree with me on this one not saying some friends cant be tossers but my friends arnt like that.

 

[HairGuru22]

Hair loss may not be deadly but it certainly kills your self-esteem especially when you are young. God/intelligent designer/nature or whatever you want to call it is cruel for letting this happen to many young sufferers.

 

[Exodus2011]

yea thats if you believe in a god in the first place, but dont discuss that, it will get this thread locked

 

[DannyBoyy]

Lets talk about god

 

[gravesen]

God is bald.

 

[Scarred4Life]

How is it pathetic? you must be one boring person if you cant joke about life etc.

Same can be said about a woman who lost her breast(s) to breast cancer. It is just good old fun for her friends to make fun of her.

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Hair loss may not be deadly but it certainly kills your self-esteem especially when you are young.

It gets worse as you get older because then you have other factors like lines and wrinkles on top of the hair loss to make you look more and more repulsive.

 

[DannyBoyy]

Same can be said about a woman who lost her breast(s) to breast cancer. It is just good old fun for her friends to make fun of her.

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Totally different thing but yeah whatever.

 

[slipy]

i freaking hate how i can be in a good mood and then someone jokes about it like it doesnt mean anything and the whole day goes to ****

i can't even stand people mentioning the word ''hair''. brings me even lower than my regular state each time.

ive been told i looked like a pedo so many times with a shaved head its not even funny.

by friends or other people too?

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Totally different thing but yeah whatever.

i could just as well utilize your position here: ''hey b**ch, you've only lost your breasts, you still have both arms, legs, you still can walk and do whatever. what's the matter, can't take an innocent joke? don't be such a bore.'' thus justifying verbal abuse towards her the way you justify bald jokes. the final sequence is identical, both the woman and the bald guy wind up permanetly loosing a part of their body.

 

[DannyBoyy]

i can't even stand people mentioning the word ''hair''. brings me even lower than my regular state each time.



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i could just as well utilize your position here: ''hey b**ch, you've only lost your breasts, you still have both arms, legs, you still can walk and do whatever. what's the matter, can't take an innocent joke? don't be such a bore.'' thus justifying verbal abuse towards her the way you justify bald jokes. the final sequence is identical, both the woman and the bald guy wind up permanetly loosing a part of their body.

Dude you are comparing hairloss to CANCER you know? an DEADILY DISEASE? dont matter if its the breast hand leg etc etc etc its CANCER you know you could DIE and also losing your hair (you know something what would probably happen when you are old anyway) or losing a breast (you know something women ACTUALLY need) yeah good idea to compare >_______> theres some things you DONT joke about its common sense like you know CANCER....people shave there head ALL THE GOD DAMN TIME (here comes but they have a good hairline blah blah) yeah you really see women choosing to lose a breast dont you? >______> *waits for the you just dont get it blah blah you ment to be depressed like us because we gone through **** that must mean everyone must have blah blah*

 

[slipy]

so going by your logic if i were to loose my hair permanetly due to some kind of disease a joke about it could be considered an offense, as oppossed to loosing it to male pattern baldness which makes it a fair game?

right? just as long as it's not a disease everythings justifiable?