Hair Systems And Intimacy, Stories Welcomed

[CrownBalding]

Hi everyone, I’m a young guy (almost 22) and my hair has been thinning RAPIDLY within the last few months. I’m thinking about getting a system before it’s too late so I can make a smooth transition without people noticing.

But as a young single guy, how do you deal with girls trying to touch your hair? I plan on having my hair down below the hairline so I’m not too worried about visual detection, but I am concerned about someone trying to touch my hair.

I’ve been told that a Swiss lace system bonded with glue can be undetectable by touch, but I’m curious if anyone here has any stories they can share with me.

Have you had girlfriends for longer periods of time without them finding out?

How’d you do it?

Are there any go to excuses you’ve used? I like the “extensions” but are there any other you’ve used? I’ve read a story about a girl saying she thought her boyfriends hair system was just a metal plate the whole time! Maybe some kind of surgery?

All stories are welcomed, even the embarassing ones.

Thanks

 

[CrownBalding]

I’m going to have to bump this, come on guys. I know you have stories.

 

[Eseera29]

Hey man,
If it'd be a one night stand or something in that matter - just tell her you don't like your hair being touched.

For someone who you wanna meet regularly, just tell them you wear. You just gotta be confident with it, for example, ask her about your hair "look at it, do you see anything weird with it?" and then tell her some of your hair is real, some not. And then say it's a system that makes your hair fuller, whatever. I think that comes off much less weird when you'd say "I wear a wig"

I see why some people wanna hide it, (I keep it a secret from almost everyone, to avoid endless questions and talks) - but a gf is usually a separate person from your family and close friends. What I don't get is... are you planning to be with someone, maybe for years, and lie for so long? Or maybe scared that if you reveal it, the girl will dump you? No girl will care, unless you gonna make it awkward and act like you are insecure about it.

 

[CrownBalding]

Well my plan would be to have a few flings and nothing serious for a while. I’m only 22 and unfortunately people are very superficial at my age. If I get really serious with someone then I’ll trll them eventually after we have been with each other for a while and I know I can trust her.

I plan on maybe just getting a partial crown piece. These are less detectable right?

 

[Eseera29]

I'm 25 and yeah I get what you mean. But even then, I think you can counter it easily with the fact that you just wanna take care of your looks, and are way too young to be bald. Even if you look decent bald (not balding) you can ALMOST always look better with a full head of hair. Anyways, can't tell you much more about how to "cover" it, maybe other members can.

And yes, the smaller the partial the less detectable it is. But when you touch the lace, you can always feel it - so it has to be well fit around your bio hair, mine isn't perfect but I don't care that much.

 

[CrownBalding]

I'm 25 and yeah I get what you mean. But even then, I think you can counter it easily with the fact that you just wanna take care of your looks, and are way too young to be bald. Even if you look decent bald (not balding) you can ALMOST always look better with a full head of hair. Anyways, can't tell you much more about how to "cover" it, maybe other members can.

And yes, the smaller the partial the less detectable it is. But when you touch the lace, you can always feel it - so it has to be well fit around your bio hair, mine isn't perfect but I don't care that much.

What kind of lace do you use? From what I understand, a Swiss lace is almost undetectable to the touch

 

[Cue Bald]

i would find telling a girl "i don't like my hair being touched" especially if it looks really good, would be very suspicious. plus it makes you look very vain and girls don't like that so much.

i wouldn't mention it. i doubt any girl will notice a system as a) they associate systems with something men in their 50's wear, they would never suspect a young guy of wearing a wig
b) when girls run their hands through a mans hair, they are not feeling the scalp for evidence of a system. if the girl doesn't suspect anything she won't be feeling the scalp, she will be running her hands through your hair. but of course if you tell her "i don't like my hair being touched" and you fall asleep next to her in bed, she will be wanting to find out what is going on.

you will need to tell her if the romance develops to the point of her moving in. no way would you be able to hide all the products, the hours spent putting it on, the mysterious parcels arriving every few months, etc. i've heard stories though of wearers who have been married 30+ years and their wives have never seen them without their unit (they know their husband wears)

 

[CrownBalding]

i would find telling a girl "i don't like my hair being touched" especially if it looks really good, would be very suspicious. plus it makes you look very vain and girls don't like that so much.

i wouldn't mention it. i doubt any girl will notice a system as a) they associate systems with something men in their 50's wear, they would never suspect a young guy of wearing a wig
b) when girls run their hands through a mans hair, they are not feeling the scalp for evidence of a system. if the girl doesn't suspect anything she won't be feeling the scalp, she will be running her hands through your hair. but of course if you tell her "i don't like my hair being touched" and you fall asleep next to her in bed, she will be wanting to find out what is going on.

you will need to tell her if the romance develops to the point of her moving in. no way would you be able to hide all the products, the hours spent putting it on, the mysterious parcels arriving every few months, etc. i've heard stories though of wearers who have been married 30+ years and their wives have never seen them without their unit (they know their husband wears)

Thanks man I think you’re right. Especially if it’s just a partial system, I’d like to think she wouldn’t feel it. I don’t plan on having anyone move in with me for a while anyway but I would like to have someone around /: I really want to hold onto hope that I’d be able to manage to keep a girl around without her finding out. At least until we’ve established that we’re going to stay together.

 

[matt0135]

Thanks man I think you’re right. Especially if it’s just a partial system, I’d like to think she wouldn’t feel it. I don’t plan on having anyone move in with me for a while anyway but I would like to have someone around /: I really want to hold onto hope that I’d be able to manage to keep a girl around without her finding out. At least until we’ve established that we’re going to stay together.

From experience. Girls love hair. I don't think they'll care if it grows off your scalp or not lmao!

 

[Eseera29]

Yeah I do agree that the sentence "not like it being touched" can have that effect. That's why I wouldn't even care to lie to that person, would tell almost straight away. I feel like coming up with some stupid ideas like scars etc are even worse.

If a girl doesn't like that you wear your system, she can find someone else who doesn't if it's such a big deal for her. Once again, they won't care if they like how you look with it and you are not insecure about it. You can even joke and be very lighthearted about it, even if she's "mean" (she might just wanna see how you react).

To answer your question, my first was French, now I got the Swiss - I can't feel it when I run my hand through the hair - it's definitely a bit better than french in terms of touch, but if it won't last me as long, I will go back.

 

[BaldBearded]

Most guys prefer me with a shaved head, so I remove the system before sex, it's also easier, and makes for less possible damage.

 

[n1zza77]

Age:23 Regardless if it is a one night stand or a steady girl, they tend to know i don't like my hair touched within the first time they try to touch it and that sets boundaries. I'll move my head a bit or pull their hand down or just tell them straight up I dont like it (even when i was balding i wouldnt let them touch my hair). If they ask, make up something small (accident, scar, sensitive hair etc) and change the conversation.

To comment on the others who say girls don't like it when you say don't touch my hair,
How much was she actually into you in the first place that a small thing like not letting her touch your hair will turn her off.

Overall-
Don't tell anyone and if they find out, you're not required to explain yourself. If she's actually into you, she won't care, if she does, you dont want to be with someone that shallow anyways.

 

[CrownBalding]

Age:23 Regardless if it is a one night stand or a steady girl, they tend to know i don't like my hair touched within the first time they try to touch it and that sets boundaries. I'll move my head a bit or pull their hand down or just tell them straight up I dont like it (even when i was balding i wouldnt let them touch my hair). If they ask, make up something small (accident, scar, sensitive hair etc) and change the conversation.

To comment on the others who say girls don't like it when you say don't touch my hair,
How much was she actually into you in the first place that a small thing like not letting her touch your hair will turn her off.

Overall-
Don't tell anyone and if they find out, you're not required to explain yourself. If she's actually into you, she won't care, if she does, you dont want to be with someone that shallow anyways.

With that being said, do you think you can manage a relationship for a few months without the other person knowing?

I have heard of stories of people being married for years without the wife knowing until she noticed while he was sleeping.

 

[n1zza77]

Of course! If you glue it on correctly, its really tough to see/feel it. My barber who's never seen a hair system had no idea it was my fake hair when he was cutting my hair until I told him 3 months later. I get my cuts every 2 weeks for my side hair.

Noah was the first person I talked to when i got on these forums, and when i showed him my system, he told me what he saw while also adding that only a person who knows will see it. Its very true. People around you will have no clue. I've had girls that have been around for months and they had no clue.

 

[CrownBalding]

Of course! If you glue it on correctly, its really tough to see/feel it. My barber who's never seen a hair system had no idea it was my fake hair when he was cutting my hair until I told him 3 months later. I get my cuts every 2 weeks for my side hair.

Noah was the first person I talked to when i got on these forums, and when i showed him my system, he told me what he saw while also adding that only a person who knows will see it. Its very true. People around you will have no clue. I've had girls that have been around for months and they had no clue.

Thanks man. Really glad to see another young guy going down this route. I still have a bit of time left, I’ve only started finasteride 2 months ago. But by the look of it, finasteride has done nothing but accelerated my loss. If I don’t regrow back to baseline this is my
next option.

The back of my head is completely flat so bald is not an option...

 

[n1zza77]

Thanks man. Really glad to see another young guy going down this route. I still have a bit of time left, I’ve only started finasteride 2 months ago. But by the look of it, finasteride has done nothing but accelerated my loss. If I don’t regrow back to baseline this is my
next option.

The back of my head is completely flat so bald is not an option...

So I know this is an intimacy thread but just to give you a little tip from someone who's been through the process, you want to do the hair before its noticeable by the general public, a time where your close friends are able to notice. A smooth transition is key.Wish you all the best!

 

[disfiguredyoungman]

Most guys prefer me with a shaved head, so I remove the system before sex, it's also easier, and makes for less possible damage.

You gay guys have it too easy.

 

[BaldBearded]

You gay guys have it too easy.

Yeah, it's a picnic, every day. Especially when it comes to things like, rights and things (or being executed), ask my friends who live a couple of hundred km to the north, east and south of me!

 

[AnxiousAndy]

Yeah, it's a picnic, every day. Especially when it comes to things like, rights and things (or being executed), ask my friends who live a couple of hundred km to the north, east and south of me!

No disrespect baldbearded but why do you continue to live in Israel if you can be executed for having consensual sex just because you prefer guys? I would get out of there, way too risky in my opinion. Come to the UK! We are very accepting of gay culture and pretty much give away citizenships to anybody that wants one.
To OP sorry I have nothing to contribute to this thread but I will be wearing a system myself when my hair gets bad enough!

 

[disfiguredyoungman]

No disrespect baldbearded but why do you continue to live in Israel if you can be executed for having consensual sex just because you prefer guys? I would get out of there, way too risky in my opinion. Come to the UK! We are very accepting of gay culture and pretty much give away citizenships to anybody that wants one.
To OP sorry I have nothing to contribute to this thread but I will be wearing a system myself when my hair gets bad enough!

Israel is not the problem, but everyone else in that region, my blissfully ignorant American friend.