Ray777,
Believe me, I understand what you are feeling. It can be all consuming. Listen my friend, I have worked with lots of young guys in their late teens but I could only consult with them with parental consent. And Cassin makes a very good point in that many docs may not want to prescribe you finasteride at 17. You are still fulfilling puberty. Some may want to start you on minoxidil but remember, this is all elective and your parents or legal guardian will have to also consent. But the point is, get in to see one. Stay away from hair transplant surgeons, and I mean STAY AWAY from them. Also, I highly recommend that you "do not" start buyng drugs online. :freaked:
Find a board certified dermatologist who is "experienced" in treating hairloss. That way no one unethical can talk you into doing a hair transplant. BTW, not all derms are real knowledgeable in treating hairloss. :roll:
Listen Ray, most of the real young guys tell me that their friends make fun of them because their early signs of male pattern baldness is noticable. Don't let them get your goat! That's exactly what they are waiting to see. They are looking for how you react to their teasing. That's what guys do to each other, right? 8) I remember a buddy of mine in high school who started losing his hair at 16. His brothers, father, everyone lost hair in his family except the women. His dad was a real advanced class 7, and I mean advanced. His name was Merle, and so we started calling my friend Kevin by his dad's name and it became his nickname, which he hated. But we knew that and that's why we kept calling him Merle. We were never cruel to him, just teased him. There are some individuals who can be very cruel with intent to hurt you as much as possible. But always know that those types are shallow and let them destroy themselves if they so persist. Later in life my friend Kevin accepted his hairloss, but it was when he was in high school that it bothered him the most. Why? He felt out of pocket with the rest of us. Sound familiar?
My buddy Kevin was a wrestler and he did pretty good in it. In fact he became the team captain in our senior year. Then the chicks got interested in him. He may have lost hair, but he gained muscle and the girls loved it.
My point is find something in the interim that you can get involved with to improve yourself and?or make you feel better about yourself. Something constructive for Ray. Believe me, that will help you cope until you can also start Propecia when your doctor deems appropriate. Don't let this get the better of you. Whenever those feelings of lower self-esteem come, get your mind immediately involved with something else to get it off the negative. Don't sit idle and brew about it. That's the worst thing you can do. Obviously you are smart enough to find these hairloss sites, so you are being pro-active right? Get involved with a routine activity that has nothing to do with hairloss.
So my friend, don't worry. There's still a bright future for you because no one, and I mean NO ONE can ever take your intelligence and integrity away! Only you can do that. Remember Ray, behind every dusk is a new dawn coming. There is hope!
One last thing. If your parents or legal guardian wish to contact me with some general questions, I would be more than happy to help you further in that regard. I do not charge anyone anything for any of my support as a patient advocate. :wink: Take care my friend.