Hairloss, insecurity and girls...

[souldoctor]

some quick background, i'm 23 now, first noticed the thinning in about december (see My Story), faffed around waiting for it to miraculously come back, nothing happened, so ordered some dermmatch which i've been using since then... and i've just started propecia too recently so fingers crossed that'll work for me...

anyway the point is, i used to get a few girls before my hairloss obviously when it was all nice and thick and i could do whatever i wanted with my hair etc, but i was always a bit shy and also quite picky with girls and didn't really *need* to pull every time i went out cos my confidence was just generally pretty high anyway...

but now since my hair's thinned out and it's harder to get it to look good, every time i go out clubbing i feel i kind of need to be sure that i'm still looking good...(i know all this sounds so shallow but bear with me) and the only way to do this is to try it on with every girl in sight, so funnily enough i'm getting a lot more action now since my hair loss then i ever did before.. weird huh??

has anyone else experienced this, or is it just me.. since the hairloss,you feel like you're not quite as attractive as you used to be, so you spend a lot more time running after girls than you ever did before, and suddenly you're pulling birds left right and centre, and you think damn if only i'd been like this before my hairloss , lol...it's obviously just my own insecurity that's making me dedicate so much more of my time to getting drunk and pulling girls to convince myself that i'm still attractive...but was just wondering if anyone else was in this situation!

SD

 

[Trent]

complete opposite over here. i used to pull *** a decent amount, but never really cared if i did or not cause i always thought i looked money and could just get it if i really wanted to. since my hairloss started being noticeable, i don't even try anymore. i haven't hit on a girl once since this all started, and i don't even point out hot girls on the street to my friends or on tv. its weird, its like I don't want to get them, then let them down when they find out i'm just gonna go bald when i get older. Why go through all that heartache. a sad sad world that i live in now. oh well.

 

[Mickey]

I did laugh the other night i was in a bar and this girl was stood by herself she was stunning all the blokes was trying to get her attention.Then this bloke aged roughly late 20s had stubble but he had the full horseshoe he wasnt the most attractive bloke.went up to her and it was her boyfriend.I did feel better seeing this.

 

[Guest]

Hairloss, insecurity and girls...
SD

Well, at least I have 2 out of 3.

 

[Petchsky]

I've not really noticed any difference and i'm still too picky. I just think most women are stupid, shallow and boring. Last weekend when i went out i got talking to a pretty fine girl and me and my mates followed then to the next pub...anyway one or two hours later we got talking again and she was really drunk, she had her hands all over me but it felt more like i was being mugged. Pulled the old 'gotta go to the toilet' excuse, got my mates and got the hell outta there.

Going home for a spliff just seemed like more fun. Pulling women when on the piss just does nothing for me and most British girls are f*****g animals when drunk.

 

[Johnny24601]

re:

"I just think most women are stupid, shallow and boring."

I only thought American woman were like that. One thing you cannot deny, women are so friggin attractive. It is a cruel little trick God played, he made them almost unbearable to deal with at times, yet impossible not to want.
Lately I have also had a few times in which I just said to myself "I know I could get a little poon tang from this little baby, but I simply do not even want to deal with the hastle of seeling the deal and would rather go home and chill out".
I find woman of all shapes and sizes attractive. However, it sounds harsh but I would have almost no interest in them if they did not possess a vagina because they offer so little socially. Maybe I just am not meeting the right women?

 

[wangho75]

gotta agree with all the above. Most girls are really lame. My fakeness meter just runs into high gear around them and especially when I see some biotch riding around in her daddy's spiffy new car with a dumbass cell phone in her hand. Im sorry, but things like that are just real barriers to me. Then you have things like American Idol and Real World which makes them lose their lustre in my eyes even more. What happened to girls that don't have to pretend and have more in their fuckin mind than shallow lame thoughts??

 

[doubleplay]

Re: re:

lol wow I thought I was one of few who felt like this but theres many more of you. I consider dates more as "hassles" than anything. Act like your interested all the time, keep her entertained, it's exhausting to the point that the pussy's not even worth it. Unless it's some notch then of course i commit.

"I just think most women are stupid, shallow and boring."

I only thought American woman were like that. One thing you cannot deny, women are so friggin attractive. It is a cruel little trick God played, he made them almost unbearable to deal with at times, yet impossible not to want.
Lately I have also had a few times in which I just said to myself "I know I could get a little poon tang from this little baby, but I simply do not even want to deal with the hastle of seeling the deal and would rather go home and chill out".
I find woman of all shapes and sizes attractive. However, it sounds harsh but I would have almost no interest in them if they did not possess a vagina because they offer so little socially. Maybe I just am not meeting the right women?

 

[drinkrum]

gotta agree with all the above. Most girls are really lame. My fakeness meter just runs into high gear around them and especially when I see some biotch riding around in her daddy's spiffy new car with a dumbass cell phone in her hand. Im sorry, but things like that are just real barriers to me. Then you have things like American Idol and Real World which makes them lose their lustre in my eyes even more. What happened to girls that don't have to pretend and have more in their fuckin mind than shallow lame thoughts??

You do know that women can in fact earn a living, buy their own cars, and sometimes even use cell phones to make _important_ calls! I ain't shittin' you ...

You all can justify not meeting any decent women anyway you want. But the fact is, while there are a lot of wretched b****s out there, there are also plenty beautiful, smart women. The trick is to not get wrapped up in each bad seed. Not to sound trite, but there are indeed a lot of fishes in the ocean. Swim a bit deeper boys.

D.

 

[Cornholio]

Things I have learned on this site...

1) women are shallow, dependant and superficial
2) estrogen causes people to age quickly "like a woman"
3) finasteride and low DHT makes people fuzzy-headed "like a woman"
4) I can learn things about women by watching MTV reality shows

 

[VWdude]

Dally... Dally Don Dally...

 

[beast]

i recommend you go for older women and some with a few extra pounds. The old women are usually more understanding about hair loss, and the overweight women have no room to talk about your hair. Young women are very materialistic and put most value in "looks". This is why you see hot young women with complete jerks. It is shallow and it wont last , but its a fact.

 

[wangho75]

i recommend you go for older women and some with a few extra pounds. The old women are usually more understanding about hair loss, and the overweight women have no room to talk about your hair. Young women are very materialistic and put most value in "looks". This is why you see hot young women with complete jerks. It is shallow and it wont last , but its a fact.

that's not even a problem, because I still look better than 95% of the male population even with a receding hairline and thinner hair. I can have the shallow young women if I REALLY want to, but I can't fake it long enough to actually show that I like them that much

 

[landon]

I have two sisters and I pity you guys who have no sisters, I've learned so much sh*t from eavesdropping conversations. The way they b**ch about one another and talk about how they used some guy to get something.

My sisters are spoiled c****, my father spoils them buying them cars, clothes, fake tans, holidays and f*****g handbags. I'm treated like a dog that just wandered in one day. But its a mans world, and its sexist, so I win.

 

[MidnightFlyer]

My sisters are spoiled c****, my father spoils them buying them cars, clothes, fake tans, holidays and f*****g handbags.

They sound awesome. Do they have boyfriends? I'm interested.

Do they like guys with balding heads? I have millions of dollars. I will spend a lot of it on either of them. Will that count for something?

 

[Axon]

If you pick up a woman in a club, there's a significant chance that she's nothing more than a sperm depository.

 

[Guest]

If you pick up a woman in a club, there's a significant chance that she's nothing more than a sperm depository.

LOL thats random as hell. Random fact.

 

[beast]

If you pick up a woman in a club, there's a significant chance that she's nothing more than a sperm depository.

i agree, but the problem is clubs are meat markets where looks count for everything. The balding guys arent first on the females list. We do get the let overs and drunk fat ones though LOL

 

[Trent]

screw that, i'd rather just go out drinking and having fun with my buddies, than to spend the whole night talking to some unattractive chick for hours about how great Monster-In-Law was.

 

[Thinning]

Yeah Im not too high on women myself. Growing up with sisters does that, teaches you what they are really like behind the act they put on to attract men.