How can I not be a b**ch ? Broke down and cried

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Feelsbadman

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Why am I such a b**ch? Is it finasteride?

The truth is i broke down and cried before ....I just felt so sh*t. I miss my hair. I miss when I used to have sex. I miss going on fun dates. It feels like a life time ago. Finasteride seems to affect my memory. My memory is poor. But i did have a flash back to the time I had a girlfriend. When we would hang out, laugh, have sex. God i miss that so bad.

People always say you need to move on and get over it. But there is nothing for me to move on to? I go on apps and the matches are real really bad. A normal guy can just get another girl or girlfriend after some time. But not an ugly guy like me.

Working a new job, gym and all that is good but f***.. f*** i miss those times.

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Feelsbadman said:
Why am I such a b**ch? Is it finasteride?

The truth is i broke down and cried before ....I just felt so sh*t. I miss my hair. I miss when I used to have sex. I miss going on fun dates. It feels like a life time ago. Finasteride seems to affect my memory. My memory is poor. But i did have a flash back to the time I had a girlfriend. When we would hang out, laugh, have sex. God i miss that so bad.

People always say you need to move on and get over it. But there is nothing for me to move on to? I go on apps and the matches are real really bad. A normal guy can just get another girl or girlfriend after some time. But not an ugly guy like me.

Working a new job, gym and all that is good but f***.. f*** i miss those times.

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sorry bro
 
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Feelsbadman said:
Why am I such a b**ch? Is it finasteride?

The truth is i broke down and cried before ....I just felt so sh*t. I miss my hair. I miss when I used to have sex. I miss going on fun dates. It feels like a life time ago. Finasteride seems to affect my memory. My memory is poor. But i did have a flash back to the time I had a girlfriend. When we would hang out, laugh, have sex. God i miss that so bad.

People always say you need to move on and get over it. But there is nothing for me to move on to? I go on apps and the matches are real really bad. A normal guy can just get another girl or girlfriend after some time. But not an ugly guy like me.

Working a new job, gym and all that is good but f***.. f*** i miss those times.

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Hi - I'm sorry you're feeling so bad. It's good that you go to the gym and you have a job you're enjoying. There's more things you can enjoy in the future as life has so much to give.

I doubt it's the Finasteride that's giving you these negative feelings and memory loss though. If you're worried it is then see your doctor for advice.

Keep your chin up and focus on the things you've got going for you. You're a great guy, remember that. We all come in different shapes and sizes and no ones perfect, not even the ones who you and I think are perfect.

Seek some help via counselling or therapy, or talk to someone you can trust about the way you're feeling. There's always better days and none of us are akways on a high and happy. Life's a series of ups and downs, successes and challenges.

Take care buddy and remember there's always someone who'll listen and advise.
 
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Your best bet is diet and exercise. Exercise will release dopamine and will make you feel happy for no reason at all. Eating healthy will also make you feel light and energetic. It will also help you look your best.

I am not saying anything that everyone doesn't already know but it's the simple truth.

I am in my late 40s and alone with no family of my own (still close to brother and sister and elderly parents). Life can still be fun. But I have to workout everyday and really watch my diet or I begin to feel depressed.

Best of luck to everyone out there!
 
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Faraday said:
Your best bet is diet and exercise. Exercise will release dopamine and will make you feel happy for no reason at all. Eating healthy will also make you feel light and energetic. It will also help you look your best.

I am not saying anything that everyone doesn't already know but it's the simple truth.

I am in my late 40s and alone with no family of my own (still close to brother and sister and elderly parents). Life can still be fun. But I have to workout everyday and really watch my diet or I begin to feel depressed.

Best of luck to everyone out there!
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i eat healthy and exercise daily
 
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Faraday said:
Your best bet is diet and exercise. Exercise will release dopamine and will make you feel happy for no reason at all. Eating healthy will also make you feel light and energetic. It will also help you look your best.

I am not saying anything that everyone doesn't already know but it's the simple truth.

I am in my late 40s and alone with no family of my own (still close to brother and sister and elderly parents). Life can still be fun. But I have to workout everyday and really watch my diet or I begin to feel depressed.

Best of luck to everyone out there!
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Just tagging in a senior @DoctorHouse who may strike a bond with you as he'll relate. Perhaps you can help him become productive, get in shape and diet, energetic and accept certain aspects once more. It's great your disciplined with working out, it really is proven to help in several ways. I can imagine the depression as yesterday I was talking to one of my favourite members over PM yesterday and we discussed Christmas plans of our families and I was thinking how life can be hard without this, not to mention every day feeling so good in their company. However, the plan was also to invite extended family, as you mentioned having siblings and parents, it goes a long way towards beating true loneliness and having a social network. It may not be the same but it's much better than true isolation and they do love you like family.
 
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