Take a look at the past century male sexual myths. Marlon Brando, Paul Newman, Cary Grant...
I talk about past century as I consider that those were truly male sexual myths, not gay roles like Cruise, Pitt (have you seen anything gayer (!!??) tha Achilles??), Orlando Bloom or whatever we seen today.
Im sure if you search enough female geared forums, sooner or later you will find a post titled "Why dont men look bad with large foreheads"
It all a matter of perception.