how does everyone here get dates?

[dark_one]

My advice is get to the gym and stay there for a year. Forget about looking for women... They'll be looking for you when you're finished...

Well, they will look at you, but that still won't mean they are unattached.
If they leave someone for you, because you are very fit, wouldn't you think the reverse could potentially happen sometime down the road?

Remember, it always best to avoid those who are attracted to you superficially. If you are handsome now, your looks will eventually fade. If you are muscleman, you can keep that up longer, but there is a limit. If you tan yourself heavily now, your skin will age much faster and you will look terrible later in life. Just work hard, enjoy your life, eat as much as you want, get chubby and flabby. The latter two is what most women do anyway after age 30. And the competition for the 10% who aren't like this is fierce.

 

[Guest]

and that sir is why you have no hope with those 10%...way to be ambitious

 

[iamnaked]

I think all of this gym stuff isn't great advice. You need a female friend to pimp your game. Nothing beats information straight from the horses mouth. So next time one of the sexi girls says they like you, but just as a friend, take them up on it.

One useful thing to know is how you rate. This is for obvious reasons not something you can get with ease from your friends. What you need to do is to go to some bar, and get one or more female friends to rate the girls in it from 1-10. Remember what they score each one for. Then ask them which ones they think you have a chance with. This is an indicator, albeit an imperfect one, of your own rating.

 

[Guest]

My advice is get to the gym and stay there for a year. Forget about looking for women... They'll be looking for you when you're finished...

Well, they will look at you, but that still won't mean they are unattached.
If they leave someone for you, because you are very fit, wouldn't you think the reverse could potentially happen sometime down the road?

Remember, it always best to avoid those who are attracted to you superficially. If you are handsome now, your looks will eventually fade. If you are muscleman, you can keep that up longer, but there is a limit. If you tan yourself heavily now, your skin will age much faster and you will look terrible later in life. Just work hard, enjoy your life, eat as much as you want, get chubby and flabby. The latter two is what most women do anyway after age 30. And the competition for the 10% who aren't like this is fierce.

You attract the woman superficially the first time she look at you.

After that, you can make her get in love with you. And if she does, she doesn't care if you get fat after 10 years. She will be in love with you and accept almost anything (except things like being unfaithfull)

 

[ronaldkia]

me, i do go to the gym, but i really dont dig fit girls. i like the big breasted ones, chubby instead. im ive always been too shy to approach them ever when they were interested.

 

[ronaldkia]

Begin from the bottom and work yourself up to the top
Step by step.. U need to get warm before going for the best chicas man!!
When you get more self confidence, then you can kick´in some nice sharm!!

somehow, i cant do that bro! im too soft i think. i cannot just go out with date/ specially sleep with someone i dont like/ or am not attracted too, i find that wrong, and just cant do it. ive tried it.

 

[DaSand]

Well, I just go and talk to them that's all there is in my game.

My co-workers annoyed me to death last year over going out with a co-worker with who I had no interest in but fun to talk to. They insisted we love each other and I got annoyed by it. It's just talking to them being a friend.

It seems like all the women my friends and co-workers hook me up with and try to be a buddy to me I can't click with.

 

[Aplunk1]

me, i do go to the gym, but i really dont dig fit girls. i like the big breasted ones, chubby instead. im ive always been too shy to approach them ever when they were interested.

Very weird, I have very similar tastes. I don't like a "fat" or "chubby" girl, per se, but I DO like a girl with some meat on her!

Big breasts are important... f*** FAKE boobs. I need a girl with some REAL boobies.

 

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