How would you feel if you were the ONLY one?

Status
Not open for further replies.

DoneWithIt

Established Member
Reaction score
4
Put yourself in my shoes. How would you feel if you NEVER saw someone else balding than you? I mean I'm a young woman and no matter how hard I look I NEVER see other women balding. They ALL have full heads of hair. To make matters worse I see a lot of middle aged to old men with perfect hair too. They all have hair... Straight, curly, afro, frizzy, thick, thin... Doesn't matter cause they have a full head. Since I started balding I have been watching other people all the time to spot someone balding. In these 2 years I've been losing hair I've probably seen thousands of women, and only TWO out of them had signs of baldness. They were both past menopause, like 60-79 years old. I am ONLY 21. Yet I am losing my hair at a rapid pace. I read about baldness in women and everywhere it says that baldness in women is VERY rare before menopause. Most women get to keep theirs for life tho. But if you start bald is is 99% after menopause. And out of the unlucky that go bald as women, it is also VERY rare to lose your hairline. I am 21, balding FAST and my hairline is hit the worst. The last few weeks my volume products have stopped working and it falls flat no matter what I do, I can stand in front of the mirror teasing and back combing with like 5 products in and it does not look good even then... after 4+ months on rogaine my hair is only much worse than baseline... my scalp pain kills me... and I am ALL ALONE. At least you guys are not alone in balding. yes it is true that most guys do not go bald early either and it sucks anyway. but at least you must come across other sufferers every now and then? I see no one like me. NO ONE!! I am about to go crazy, suicide is not so far-fetched anymore. i tried anti depressants and therapy, but it can't give me no hair back?? and hair is all i ever want. I just wanna be normal, that's it. if there was a ****ing god why does he let me suffer like this? why does people suffer all over the world, die from cancer? there is no god, we are alone in this world. at the end of the day the only one you can truly trust in this world, is yourself. i am so done with this right now, i wanna die. i seriously wanna just give up and give in, eternal darkness must be a lot better than eternal torture like i have it now... bye
 

maher

Banned
Reaction score
68
it has to be treatable, your condition. cant believe it. ****ing doctors.. can't they figure something out? think positive..stay away from the dark side, may the force be with you. And you are not alone, you just think you are.
 

ChrisW1980uk

Experienced Member
Reaction score
49
First things first, take a good break from the forums. Being on here a lot does NOTHING for you in terms of perspective. When I was posting regularly, I found it made me depressed, and also confrontational :/

- - - Updated - - -

Anyway, DWI, if you are being serious as opposed to venting etc, you need to get your *** off here and speak to a professional. We can't help you, and endless threads like this get us nowhere. I'm closing the thread and recommend you seek the equivalent of Samaritans in your country.
 
Status
Not open for further replies.
Top