I don't think a women can love you for you unless you're good looking?

[Ourkes]

i think i just have a really fucked up view because
- went from.ugly no attention to chad then to ugly
- only relationship was with a mentslly sick ghetto trash
- only dating experiemce low value dating app women
- watcj black pill vidoea dialy

Your biggest issue right there mate "watch black pill video daily"

I have the same problem with other aspects of my life, I have severe health anxiety and have at times, spent too much time reading and watching stuff repeatedly that has slowly dragged me to a bad place.

Now I don't entertain any content online that does not benefit me.

In the nicest possible way, the online community is not real and I believe it is destroying the mental health of many.

Get out there and live in the real world. Do whatever it takes and leave all the online theory behind.

All the best to you Feels Bad Man - there is a better life out there for everyone if they truly go after it.

 

[Timii]

I used to be a bit bitter about women too

In the month leading up to meeting my girlfriend I changed my approach to not giving a f*** and all of a sudden I had more success than ever lol

Yeah, exacty, "blackpilled" people overthink everything, "I went outside and got heightmogged", "I went outside and it's full of Chads, how do I compete", "I will have no success with women because of x", "Women don't want me" and so on and on, a never ending cycle of mental masturbation
Meanwhile normal people just don't think about negative things, they are chill, don't take life too seriously, have a idgaf attitude and do well

 

[Feelsbadman]

Yeah, exacty, "blackpilled" people overthink everything, "I went outside and got heightmogged", "I went outside and it's full of Chads, how do I compete", "I will have no success with women because of x", "Women don't want me" and so on and on, a never ending cycle of mental masturbation
Meanwhile normal people just don't think about negative things, they are chill, don't take life too seriously, have a idgaf attitude and do well

this is a bit stupid imo
many guys who are ugly are insecure and think bad of themselves but only difference they dont care as much as blackpillers

 

[Feelsbadman]

Feels Bad Man

Seriously though looks do matter but it's not "supermodel or nothing"

I know some short guys who do well with chicks but they aren't ugly

If you look like The fking Hunchback of Notre-Dame then yeah it's gonna be harder to get a girl

see this is where i disagree its not so much super model or nothing but in my experience women either want to f*** with you ans be with yoi or not
and it seems LOOKs is what determines mostly do this
dont have to be a super model but still.need the genetics

 

[DoctorHouse]

Accurate in many degrees.

However I will tell smth. Although I live by the blackpill in my on way I've also found out how crucial is having a good mental state. My looks have been more or less the same all long BUT somehow with my drug overdose induced new brain chemistry I am a magnet and can connect with nearly anyone now... I am starting to have more success, be smarter, even look better. Really it's night and day.

You have people to look up on this forum and you have all resources not to give up and get something close to that lifestyle that you want.

Descending Dog

I am so proud and happy for you, Dog! Seems like some people can escape the BDD ghetto.

 

[Feelsbadman]

so what is the solution?
as a former chad who experienced women approaching him in clubs and also sleeping with girls on the first night off dating apps
also i experienced so many thinga for example women making conversation with me at work or out
its like you get treated as a different person based on my face and hair
please dont say ohh it was because you felt more confident no this is not true.

so now im uglier i get way less attention. it seemed the only time women were interested in me was when i had looks

but then everyine is ssying you just gor to keep trying or be cinfident with a good mindset but i still got laid and a gd when i was suicidal?

i dont know whats reality anymors..

 

[Feelsbadman]

sorry cant spell my mobile phobe os broken

 

[DoctorHouse]

@Feelsbaman, I think just need to hang out with a good looking confident wingman who will have your back and help you. You would probably be more successful in real life situations then just "pounding" on you phone. The biggest problem I worry about is you will exude too much negativity when you are out with the wingman and eventually ruin it for the both of you. I know a very attractive girl who left her very good looking tall NW1 husband for a short, ugly, balding older guy. So stop sniffing glue and go and make an effort to change.

 

[INT]

so what is the solution?
as a former chad who experienced women approaching him in clubs and also sleeping with girls on the first night off dating apps
also i experienced so many thinga for example women making conversation with me at work or out
its like you get treated as a different person based on my face and hair
please dont say ohh it was because you felt more confident no this is not true.

so now im uglier i get way less attention. it seemed the only time women were interested in me was when i had looks

but then everyine is ssying you just gor to keep trying or be cinfident with a good mindset but i still got laid and a gd when i was suicidal?

i dont know whats reality anymors..

Literally on the previous page you said you were short and had an ugly face and now you say you used to be a Chad and that women threw themselves at you. This means that you are exaggerating one wat or another (probably both) to dramatize your own situation.

 

[DoctorHouse]

Literally on the previous page you said you were short and had an ugly face and now you say you used to be a Chad and that women threw themselves at you. This means that you are exaggerating one wat or another (probably both) to dramatize your own situation.

The problem is he has such a captive audience. He can dish out any kind of bullshit and everyone will still eat it up. No one has any proof he is actually telling the truth. At least, every poster in the past proved their situation with a photo to a forum member they can trust. And most were considered above average in looks. This guy has everyone so stuck up his *** without a single evidence of proof of what he is saying is true. Can you imagine what would happen if we ALL put him on ignore for one week. Bump! Bump! Bump!

 

[Oknow]

The problem is he has such a captive audience. He can dish out any kind of bullshit and everyone will still eat it up. No one has any proof he is actually telling the truth. At least, every poster in the past proved their situation with a photo to a forum member they can trust. And most were considered above average in looks. This guy has everyone so stuck up his *** without a single evidence of proof of what he is saying is true. Can you imagine what would happen if we ALL put him on ignore for one week. Bump! Bump! Bump!

nobody has seen me

 

[DoctorHouse]

nobody has seen me

You don't have a problem so it's irrelevant. But you have shown some photos to me before. I don't know if they had your face in them but I remember glasses.

 

[Pacho]

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Like yeah if this guy goes on a PUA session in the city he isn't gonna walk out with a phone full of new contacts

But hey at least he's NW0, blue eyes too right?

he has hair so he has more appeal to women then @doubleindemnity

@doubleindemnity is a man in good shape, millionaire, athlete, sculped modelface, 6ft5, 6pack, 8 inch dick but he still has no chance against the hunchback because of his lack of hair

 

[Ourkes]

I also really doubt that any of these threads are going to help Feelsbadman. What would help? Not sure. A better bet would be therapy, religion, or a role model. Something like that.
Or some attitude change that comes from a different source.

All three are great suggestions, for me role models are extremely important as you navigate life and I'm 42, but still need people to inspire me and look up to

 

[DoctorHouse]

Idk what to say lol. I wont ruin the moment

LOL. Thanks!

 

[doubleindemnity]

he has hair so he has more appeal to women then @doubleindemnity

@doubleindemnity is a man in good shape, millionaire, athlete, sculped modelface, 6ft5, 6pack, 8 inch dick but he still has no chance against the hunchback because of his lack of hair

I am none of those things but yes if there were such a bald person, then what you stated might be true. Hair loss really is a deal breaker.

I am saying that the standard advice that the pickup gurus give you of: work hard on your career and intelligence, hone your social skills, dress well, be in good shape... is all only applicable to guys with hair. For bald guys the best advice is to give up and know when you're beaten; spend your efforts on other stuff instead.

 

[Feelsbadman]

Literally on the previous page you said you were short and had an ugly face and now you say you used to be a Chad and that women threw themselves at you. This means that you are exaggerating one wat or another (probably both) to dramatize your own situation.

ive said this before and made a thread on this im naturally very ugly but through obsession figured out a way to significally improve my looks
i noticed women act entirely different around me
but now im back to being ugly

 

[Feelsbadman]

You cant bet naturally very ugly as a MALE and turn into good looking. High maintenance is the word ur looking for lol. The more you age, the more high maintenance we become.

i disagree youd be very surprised how a lot of slight changes can add up and lead to significant changes
body fat loss in the face
haircut
teeth
skin colour change etc

 

[Feelsbadman]

That doesnt mean u naturally ugly lol. But being attractive can be more work for some... I relate a lot with most of ur posts I believe we are in the same position in that way

well naturally im unattractive
but doing all those things women treat me so different

 

[DoctorHouse]

@Feelsbadman who do you trust the most on this forum?