i feel so alone because of baldness

[paulie72785]

Me too. It makes it a bit draining to function in the real world, and professionally. I have to put on an act. Of being a normal guy.

The only thing which is getting me through life, and thank heavens for this, is that I am able to lose myself in TV shows. Periodically I will binge on shows like "The Mentalist", imagining myself to be the protagonist. For a few days every year I just stay home all day and watch shows every waking minute. For these few days, I am in a world where I am sexually desirable. For a few days, I don't have to face the reality of being incel for life. My drug of choice. Thank heavens for the internet. I have these "mental breakdowns" 2-3 times a year. I don't do physical drugs - I am sure that if I tried, I would not be able to avoid overdosing.


I remember in my early twenties, I was in a deep deep depression (without realizing it). The thing that made life bearable was the weekly telecast of Smallville. I would be in Tom Welling's shoes for that hour. I would be tall, with hair, handsome, with a great voice.

God damn i feel the same, just one thing that im the deutronganist like robin to batman learning and correcting myslef from the experience.I love Arrow and Dragon ball z, i kinda like it when something out of standard happens.On Arrow im the babbling but ferocious Felicity smoak(Nope not gay for me) and on DBZ im gohan.

 

[uncomfortable man]

Of course, looks matters! And I wouldn't say its only confidence..Its how you carry yourself. It is more of unconscious cues... like body language, non-verbal conversation that goes on parallel to the verbal one, and typically a split second before the verbal one..
All these "unconscious activities" have effect on other people.. Most of us are "damaged".. in one way or another, just dont let them(society) smell the blood.

But when you are bald that becomes your primary cue, because you have no other choice but to wear it on your sleeve weather you like it or not. It is a beacon that drowns out any other said or unsaid, consious or unconcious signals. For a bald man it is more about how you respond/ carry yourself in response to how others respond to you.... instead of some other ephemeral reason which becomes moot when faced with an obvious bald head. You can exude all the passion and confidence in the world but it wont change the minds of the baldists.

 

[Exodus2011]

i dont even care about confidence or getting b****s right now . . . . . i just want someone to chill with that i can actually RELATE to . . . . . . .

this is actually one of the most soul sucking aspects of baldness . . . . how ****ing LONELY of a trial it is. not only are we in prison but we are in solitary confinement