I Have No Libido And Can't Orgasm From Intercourse

[Chefcurrywts]

I'm 32 years old and my libido is pretty much non-existant. I went to get my hormones checked and the Dr said everything is normal. I work out and have a lean/muscular body and attract a lot of girls physically, but I developed a fear of getting intimate bcuz of my lack of wanting to have sex. It's difficult to achieve an orgasm from intercourse or by hand.

Will a relationship not be successful without the guy being able to achieve an orgasm? Will a women be disappointed if I can't ejaculate during sex? BTW.. I have no issues getting erect it just the inability to achieve an orgasm that is the problem. What can I do?

 

[Captain Rex]

I'm 32 years old and my libido is pretty much non-existant. I went to get my hormones checked and the Dr said everything is normal. I work out and have a lean/muscular body and attract a lot of girls physically, but I developed a fear of getting intimate bcuz of my lack of wanting to have sex. It's difficult to achieve an orgasm from intercourse or by hand.

Will a relationship not be successful without the guy being able to achieve an orgasm? Will a women be disappointed if I can't ejaculate during sex? BTW.. I have no issues getting erect it just the inability to achieve an orgasm that is the problem. What can I do?

are u taking finasteride or is it happening on it's own?

 

[jimmyjonas]

Are you on finasteride?

 

[rclark]

I'm 32 years old and my libido is pretty much non-existant. I went to get my hormones checked and the Dr said everything is normal. I work out and have a lean/muscular body and attract a lot of girls physically, but I developed a fear of getting intimate bcuz of my lack of wanting to have sex. It's difficult to achieve an orgasm from intercourse or by hand.

Will a relationship not be successful without the guy being able to achieve an orgasm? Will a women be disappointed if I can't ejaculate during sex? BTW.. I have no issues getting erect it just the inability to achieve an orgasm that is the problem. What can I do?

It can be a lot of problems with nervousness, which every man goes through in life.

Sometimes we fear we cannot preform, or fear rejection.

Just replace negative experiences with positive ones with females. Even if it's not sexual at first (and I'm not
saying you don't).

Also, consider oral sex.

I find oral sex to be better, but every guy is different. Sometimes though, I just need to f***. And I think it
trains are dicks to be stronger, and it's often more satisfying.

But with oral there is a trade off. More often than not, women respond better to having their vagina licked.
There's a lot of nerves in their "zone", so to speak. And it warms them up, especially if you're large in bed.
There more lose downstairs.

Also, I like getting blow jobs. Sometimes even more than intercourse.

 

[Chefcurrywts]

No I do not take propecia .. I just don't get any feeling /tingling sensation from intercourse or oral..

It sucks because girls do show sexual interest in me bcuz I'm in good shape but the fact that I have delayed orgasms causes me to push these girls away or I just act like I'm disinterested .

 

[jimmyjonas]

That will pass I'm sure man, that's psychological maybe some counselling could help with that, I took finasteride and physically cannot feel being touched down below, you will be ok, I had something similiar years ago when I first dated my gf but she was cool about it and it happened because I knew it didn't bother her, thats years ago and I'm still with the same girl.