brent20
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Hey guys, i haven't posted on here in awhile but i do make visits to check out whats goin on, but anyway i feel like this is the best place to vent about things like this even though i'm really not sure what is going on right now. I'm gonna try to make this as short as possible but basically this girl i've known for over 3 years and worked with in the past but i don't hang out or see her very frequently but i still consider her a friend, so anyway st. patricks day she calls me because she ran into one of my buddies at a bar where her ex bf friends from 2 years ago were trying to start a fight with her and her friends so my buddy took them to a different bar and she wanted me to come out there so i did. Well i get there and they are dancing on the dance floor and she grabs me and we start dancing and she's all over me so i'm like ok this is wierd, so the night goes on and she keeps getting closer to me and eventually we end up making out hardcore and she tells me that she likes me a lot and its not the alcohol talking and that she thinks i'm a really nice guy so i'm like well this is random. So we leave and i hang out with her again 2 days later and i meet her parents and things seemed to be going well i thought, then about a week later we were suppose to hang out again and her sis was rushed to the hospital becuase of pregnancy problems and she had to watch her nieces so i was like ok thats understandable. Well we talked like every night and finally hung out again (this is like 2 weeks after the last time we hung out) and we pretty much act like we are dating and she tells me about how she caught her ex in bed with another girl and stuff and i told her thats terrible and that i was sorry so everything looks like its goin well so i decide to confront her about everything and tell her i'm sorry about ur last relationship and i tell her i want to show her not all guys are assholes cuz she told me she thought she would never date again and then i asked her where she thinks this might be going to see if she was looking for a relationship and she told me after her last relationship she read a book called the purpose driven life and it changed her perspective on life and that she now believes that what ever happens, happens so i'm like ummm ok that tells me nothing, so we keep talking and once again stuff happened with her sis preventing us from hanging out again then slowly she started to stop talking to me as much instead of everyday it turned into every other day up to now which is like once a week if that and i can never get her to hang out anymore. I'm completely confused and i think she might be talking to this other guy who keeps posting sh*t on her facebook and of course he has a full head of hair, basically what im getting at is im wondering if maybe my hairloss has something to do with everything because st. pattys day i wore my hat and after that i decided not to wear it and i noticed she looked at my hair a lot but i was hoping she didn't care or maybe its because i brought everything up to quickly about us dating but i don't know, so basicaly since she hasn't given me a reason for stop talking to me i'm drawing conclusions, i'm just really upset because we've been friends for 3 years and she is acting now like nothing happened. She is really busy because this is her last semester of college and she works at a hospital as a radiology tech so she has a lot on her plate right now but still doesn't explain her lack of communication recently. I was really shocked when all of this went down because she is a very attractive girl (when i had more hair i didn't consider any girl out of my league but now i do) and her last bf could have passed as an abercrombie model and he was a collegiate wrestler on his way to med school so he was pretty much perfect so of course i'm thinkin my hair has affected everything but i really don't know, it just doesn't make sense the way she is acting all of a sudden with no reason for it. I"m sorry this is so long but i really don't know what to do or think at this point and i know you guys have some good advise on this kind of stuff. Thanks in advance guys.
