I Need To Change My Life!

[Hpower]

I am no longer going to care about hair loss. It has controled me for far to long now! I am sick of wondering what other people are going to say or think of me, over somthing I have no control over! This is bullshit! I'm scared of family and friends and what would be said behind my back, but if they are family and friends they should accept me and like me more? If they don't, there loss. If my sister got breast cancer I would love her more not less. My father is bald, and many people look up to him, he doesnt seem to care, he jokes about it. I can't avoid mirrors and sunlight forever!! This is no way to live! I must make a change! I must learn to accept who I am and who I will become. I'm 26, and if I keep letting hair loss control my life, I won't have a life, and I have a lot more to go. This is my prime, the best years of my life, and here I am, ashamed of my hair, ashamed of people thinking I'm ugly, ashamed of others talking behind my back. Why?? Why do I care? It's only hair on my head?
I think accepting who we are is very important, f*** caring about what product works, sheds, hair styles, ect. We must care about living our lives to the best of our abilities, getting married and supporting a family one day. Thats what should be in out minds, not hair loss. We can't help it!
My goal is to accept that one day I will be bald, and my hair will fall out. I can't stop it, only slow it down at most. I got to look in the mirror and like what I see, I have no other choice. I'll never be happy until I accept myself, and the fact that I'm going bald.

Thanks for reading...from a balding young man.

 

[Molecular Help]

I was sitting here, eating my eggs, replaying the incident in my mind, when I had what alcoholics refer to as a "moment of clarity"

 

[20sometingtoo]

Good luck, I think we should all aspire to the same thing.

I'm 22 now, hopefully I'll figure out how to accept my situation soon as well.

 

[The shedder]

Screw it man, at least you tried some FDA proven treatments and may at least slow your hairloss. Enjoy your life...

 

[viperfish]

I was thinking the exact same thing this morning. I was thinking that hairloss really has a strong grasp on my life and it is all I worry about and think about. This is not the way to live!!!!!!!! I constantly worry if I'm doing enough, etc, etc, etc. I'm not gonna get anywhere in life if I continue to let this thing control me. I think I am bordering OCD with this hairloss sh*t and so are most others on this forum. I am 25 and need to put other things ahead of hairloss! If I continue to worry about hairloss I will never get the job, dream girl, etc that I really want to have in my life and nor will anyone else who constantly worries about hairloss. In reality this worry about hairloss is really slowing me down.

 

[douggie]

It's funny, the other day I was watching TV and noticed a couple of guys looked cool bald. I mean, Bruce Willis looks better bald than with hair I think.

 

[viperfish]

It's funny, the other day I was watching TV and noticed a couple of guys looked cool bald. I mean, Bruce Willis looks better bald than with hair I think.

Yes if I could shave my head and it looked good I would not even be here! Bruce Willis does look good with the shaved head. He has a great head for it!