I thought with time I'd accept this...

CaptainForehead

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cenarius

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actually most other men WILL want to be around you since you will now make them look better by comparison.

Do men really do that? Thought thats a women thing. I hang out with people because they are fun and not because they are ugly (lol)
 

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i dont visit these forums as frequently, but here im nw5 i guess ( nw4-6 for sure) and i want to tell you that it really depends on a personal view, yes ofcourse no one wants to be bald and we all want our hair back, but its a given fact that we are bald\ing and some people will hate us for it, some (very little tho) would love us for it, and manny wont give 2 ****s because majority of people dont walk around Norwood-spotting, because guess what... people have lives to live, kids to feed, worries to worry, and they have thier own **** so why would some random person waste his\hers time thinking about your bald head!?....
as for women, its true, a lot of girls dont like bald guys, some girls do like it, and some dont care... if you constently going for superficial girls ofcourse you'll get rejected constantly... go for "normal" girls. your chances will increase.

get some perspective guys. really.
 

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Pretty decent post. I agree.
 

lkm370

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i dont visit these forums as frequently, but here im nw5 i guess ( nw4-6 for sure) and i want to tell you that it really depends on a personal view, yes ofcourse no one wants to be bald and we all want our hair back, but its a given fact that we are bald\ing and some people will hate us for it, some (very little tho) would love us for it, and manny wont give 2 ****s because majority of people dont walk around Norwood-spotting, because guess what... people have lives to live, kids to feed, worries to worry, and they have thier own **** so why would some random person waste his\hers time thinking about your bald head!?....
as for women, its true, a lot of girls dont like bald guys, some girls do like it, and some dont care... if you constently going for superficial girls ofcourse you'll get rejected constantly... go for "normal" girls. your chances will increase.

get some perspective guys. really.

no offence but its not just superficial girls. Lets face it...unless a girl has a bald guy fetish, NO WOMAN wants a bald guy
 

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i dont visit these forums as frequently, but here im nw5 i guess ( nw4-6 for sure) and i want to tell you that it really depends on a personal view, yes ofcourse no one wants to be bald and we all want our hair back, but its a given fact that we are bald\ing and some people will hate us for it, some (very little tho) would love us for it, and manny wont give 2 ****s because majority of people dont walk around Norwood-spotting, because guess what... people have lives to live, kids to feed, worries to worry, and they have thier own **** so why would some random person waste his\hers time thinking about your bald head!?....
as for women, its true, a lot of girls dont like bald guys, some girls do like it, and some dont care... if you constently going for superficial girls ofcourse you'll get rejected constantly... go for "normal" girls. your chances will increase.

get some perspective guys. really.

That's the thing, no once stops to think about your hair loss. It's a given, a fact. When someone sees a bald guy is like seeing a sign that says "loser" or "creep" or whatever other misconception that person already has on male pattern baldness sufferers.

Generally speaking, the girls argument is also invalid because of that , I'm afraid.
 

Ori83

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but im bald.. and poor (computer tech) and dating an attractive woman for two years now (she's not fat, ugly, divorced or something) im not saying this to brag or bring you down, but you cant tell me a bald guy cant get women....u guys are trying to date superstars or something.
 

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but im bald.. and poor (computer tech) and dating an attractive woman for two years now (she's not fat, ugly, divorced or something) im not saying this to brag or bring you down, but you cant tell me a bald guy cant get women....u guys are trying to date superstars or something.

how many kids does she have?

also attractiveness is relative. What you consider good enough for you might be pretty LOW for regular society. Depends on your standards and how decent you are. You may not see her as overweight (comparative to your own build) but she may actually be. Not poking fun just seeing how it relates.
 

Ori83

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. What you consider good enough for you might be pretty LOW for regular society.

yeah either this or your definition of "regular" is twisted....it is still a matter of perspective hombre.
 

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because majority of people dont walk around Norwood-spotting, because guess what... people have lives to live, kids to feed, worries to worry, and they have thier own **** so why would some random person waste his\hers time thinking about your bald head!?....

get some perspective guys. really.


Its a reactionary thing. They see you and they react. Just because people have their own lives and problems does not exclude them from taking the time to put a bald man down if they are prone. In fact, for them making fun of bald guys can even serve as temporary relief from their own problems ie. "Boy, im sure glad im not that bald guy, ha ha." At least that is the perspective that I have personally whitnessed. People are more perceptive than you give them credit for.They dont have blinders on... everyone notices and more than you think care or at least have a negative opinion about it, which of course effects the way they interact with you. That is the primary problem with baldness is dealing with others pervasive prejudice.

But I suppose you just think that is crazy, huh?
 

lkm370

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but im bald.. and poor (computer tech) and dating an attractive woman for two years now (she's not fat, ugly, divorced or something) im not saying this to brag or bring you down, but you cant tell me a bald guy cant get women....u guys are trying to date superstars or something.

I'm not saying its not possible. Its just that most women don't really picture their future husband as being some bald dude unless they specifically like bald guys. Most, not all, just settle for a bald guy when the options run low or they needa placeholder boyfriend.
 

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yeah either this or your definition of "regular" is twisted....it is still a matter of perspective hombre.

that was the point of my entire comment.

Most of you guys might think my GF is pretty attractive.
I myself find her weight gain awful and not what I am used to getting in the past (even with her).
 

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post a pic

i remember fred was going out with a legit 8-9 blonde french woman.

get it fred!!
 

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Welcome to the wonderful world of misconceptions regarding hairloss. In this case, that once you reach a certain age you stop caring about hairloss.

Sometime what some young folks say over here is just misinterpreted also.

For example, i could say that when i grew up if there is a cure it won't make any difference for me. What i mean by that is not that middle-aged man won't/shouldn't care about hair, but that having missed my prime years, having a ****ty past, ****ty memories, lot of anger and bitterness, my futur life would suck with hair or no hair. Not that i would be okay with it.
 

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Who wants the hairloss in this world. Nobody wants to see himself as a bald headed person. But, some people face this problem due to some abnormalities and other problems. So, please don't be worried, have patience and you will recover soon.

WTF!? You really have no grasp of this baldness thing do you? Wait and it will get better.... wow. Do us a favor and break your internet!
 
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