If the hype in society was being bald & if girls loved that would u accept baldness?

[kirk]

It's because ginger hate is also a social construct. I had this talk about gingers with my girlfriend and she doesn't understand why they get so much hate.

She also see no problem with bald men. To her, there are just hot bald men and ugly bald men, like there are hot gingers and ugly gingers.

But yeah, the mainstream media wants to push these ginger-hate and bald-hate narratives.

You know how I feel about this, yes baldness makes you less attractive, but it never should be a deal breaker.

Yet it has become for the women in our culture, so much that even if they find a bald guy very attractive, they would say no simply because "get your crap together Sylvia, he's bald!"

And these situations can happen. How else would I have still gotten girls while being a slick NW5 in his early twenties? These girls were obviously attracted to me.

Even hellouser admits that there are hot bald men, and I mean in our everyday lives.

But the push from the media to hate bald men is so strong in our society that these men will lose opportunities with women.

It can go further, for example, there is also a push in the media to make women drool over men with dark hair and brown eyes. The famous tall dark stranger.

If you check Hollywood movies from the 80's and 90's (Top Gun, The Karate Kid, even Terminator 2): the bad guy always has blue eyes and blond hair.

I've heard girls say that a blue-eyed blond guy was just out of the question for them. How can they even claim that? What difference does it make?

This shows how much the mainstream media and Hollywood culture can influence women's preferences, or should I say women's demands in a man.

Yep. From my experience it's one of the socially acceptable things to make fun of, just like being bald. For me, it was worse when I was younger and just wanted to be like everyone else.

Even the teachers would get in on the jabs sometimes. I hated the whole 'red headed stepchild' ****. As I got older, I started feeling like it was a badge of honor. You can imagine the identity crises that ensued when I started going bald. As I Imagine we all feel to some degree.

Social constructs are brutal for some us and at certain points of my life I was only able to have 'red pill' type friends that could see thru the BS. One positive thing that comes from being messed with all the time (at least for me) is you don't do it to others. I never made fun of my bald uncle even though my brothers did as children. I learned that there are just issues too sensitive to bring up.

I also have a weird confession to make. I hate it when I see people dye there hair red if it's not there natural color. They did not do their time dammit! Anyways that's another story.

 

[Exodus2011]

idk op. thats a great question i always ask myself

i guess its like if i was all of a sudden granted a decent girlfriend. i wud care about baldness a lot less, but it wud still **** my identity

however if it was the "in" thing somehow than i guess it wud improve my identity instead of **** it

i wud still stand out, but in a good way, like being 6'3.

this thought experiment requires too drastic a change. its like asking what wud happen if you replaced all pleasure with pain and vice versa

since baldness is entirely negative and ur asking for us to imagine its entirely positive

 

[uncomfortable man]

The difference between shrute bucks to the us dollar is the same as the amount of leprechauns to unicorns. Thats how I've alway felt about threads like this. Because balness has never in the whole fvcking history of humanity been popular, let alone accepted and never will be. Stupid hypothetical. You want to be constructive then isolate the reason that baldness isnt accepted in the first place, like I am.

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And hype is just so fvcking stupid anyway eh? Just a bunch of sheep following the herd. Oh, you hear the trolly comming? Better put on your keep calm and carry on shirt you twat! Fads always end anyway. I can hear everyone saying, hey you all remember when we thought being proper bald was actually cool!? what were we thinking? Yeah, no thanks pal.

 

[swingline747]

You want to be constructive then isolate the reason that baldness isnt accepted in the first place, like I am.

Because women dont like it.
Theres your answer.

 

[VeprSuper]

It would not matter at all to me. I dont care for it.

 

[billybob mcdougal]

Because women dont like it.
Theres your answer.

I will rephrase that. "Because society doesn't like it, and I don't blame them.

 

[Wolf Pack]

And women don't like it because society doesn't like it. They're way more than men herd creatures.

Let's face some truth here, if women truly didn't mind balding at all, this forum would have 0 members.

Lol Fred, that's not true. Okay there would be less members but certainly a few people on here are more concerned with loss of one's image. Even if every girl wanted to lick a norwood 7 like it was a circumsised penis, lets not pretend that some of us find a bald head repulsive ourselves. Personally I would find it horrible to see myself in the mirror like that, devoid of what makes me look like a real man.

 

[billybob mcdougal]

Lol Fred, that's not true. Okay there would be less members but certainly a few people on here are more concerned with loss of one's image. Even if every girl wanted to lick a norwood 7 like it was a circumsised penis, lets not pretend that some of us find a bald head repulsive ourselves. Personally I would find it horrible to see myself in the mirror like that, devoid of what makes me look like a real man.

Spot on.

 

[Nadester]

Spot on.

Im with you guys

 

[VeprSuper]

Exactly. Women ain't my concern other than my wife and I still don't want it. I have 0 guarded it twice and I looked ridiculous.

 

[Wolf Pack]

That's probably right dude.

 

[billybob mcdougal]

Fred you have hair now(or enough to not be labelled as bald), and have a girlfriend. So by youre own statement, why are you still pi**ing and moaning. Life should all beer and skittles for you now, no?.....

 

[billybob mcdougal]

You should of took youre punishment and endured like I have to.

 

[bilboswaggins]

Fred you have hair now(or enough to not be labelled as bald), and have a girlfriend. So by youre own statement, why are you still pi**ing and moaning. Life should all beer and skittles for you now, no?.....

There is unbelievable trauma involved in losing your hair at a young age. Even if a cure came out and restored your hair you can't simply pass off the experience as a bad dream and go on living life forgetting how you were treated (especially by women).

 

[billybob mcdougal]

Yes, I was fully sly at 24. Most weeks, there is not a day goes by where somebody doesn't make an offensive comment about my appearance, so I fully understand the implications of being bald.

 

[doublebatman]

I don't think it would really change things for me. My girlfriend is fine with it anyway.

Baldness is more about how its affected my identity. I always liked being the surfer guy with the long curly hair. To go from that to bald is quite a change. I guess I also associate having hair with happier times as well (not related to hair but family etc)

 

[uncomfortable man]

Yes, I was fully sly at 24. Most weeks, there is not a day goes by where somebody doesn't make an offensive comment about my appearance, so I fully understand the implications of being bald.

And this is how I can tell you are a real bald guy and not some nw2 who talks as if he is already bald. I would rep you but im on a tablet and not all the buttons are on my version.

 

[billybob mcdougal]

Without sounding too feminine, I understand youre internal pain U.man. We are both rotting from the inside, and nothings going to change. We have to just endure until we are worm food.

 

[uncomfortable man]

Yup, at least we have eachother to vent about this with. I was thinking of a motto or slogan to pitch for a hair loss charity for a cure. "hey, you find baldness unsightly and disgusting? Tired of seeing bald heads wherever you go? Want to make the world a prettier place? Then donate for a baldness cure today!

 

[billybob mcdougal]

Just might work, nobodies made the effort yet...although everybodies too busy on theyre mobiles checking out whats happening in some z list celebrities meaningless life, or at the mall buying s**t they don't really want or need, just to "fit in".