Is Headshape Too Wonky To Keep Buzzing/shaving (w/ Pics Provided)?

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Sup guys, so I've posted before and been told that I don't need freak out, but I'm losing sleep over the dimensions of my wacky dome and since I buzz the rat's nest off now (I'm like diffuse NW3V at 21) these things become highly relevant. I've gotten super used to my buzzed head from the front, and even like it, but any time I catch my side profile I worry that I'm well on my way to alien freak territory, despite rocking a beard. I even have something of a college girlfriend these days, but my mental health is seriously screwed up from losing my hair. Point is, I'm at an all-time low here and nobody close to me is aware. Any and all feedback is welcome. Btw I know I need pack on some more muscle, but I had shoulder surgery recently so this is what I'm working with for now (6'0" 170lbs).
 
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Hi, I looked at your photos dude and with all my honesty I seriously think your head shape and side view of your head shape is normal. I do not see anything abnormal at all. You are likely being very critical and self conscious because the new hairstyle is a shock to you. As someone who is very critical myself and analyses way to much on myself too, I promise you you look fine. It does suit you.

If you continue to stress and worry I would recommend you get someone to talk to about this.
 
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Jake94 said:
Hi, I looked at your photos dude and with all my honesty I seriously think your head shape and side view of your head shape is normal. I do not see anything abnormal at all. You are likely being very critical and self conscious because the new hairstyle is a shock to you. As someone who is very critical myself and analyses way to much on myself too, I promise you you look fine. It does suit you.

If you continue to stress and worry I would recommend you get someone to talk to about this.
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I think it's body dysmorphia or something from the stress of intense college classes, losing hair super quickly, etc. I've posted before and ppl told me I look fine/masculine, but I LITERALLY would see an alien when I looked at those f*****g pictures lol. Happy to chat if you're struggling too, man. We're all in this together.
 
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You are your biggest critic, we all are.... one is always himself’s harshest critic, don’t worry bout it, looks fine... i just buzzed mines and took a while, months to get used to. I was harsh on myself.
 
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sunchyme1 said:
f*** sake. Not this moron again

How many threads are you gonna make about your f*****g head shape.

Someone ban this clown.
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LOLOLOLOLOL I can't even argue with you bro. But..........................whatcha think of my dome?
 
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Also I refuse to believe that my overall reaction to balding is really all that absurd given my age. I know a couple other fairly bald dudes at my college. Never seen without a hat of some sort. At least I walk around like a shaved headed criminal and own the f*** out of it (outwardly, at least).
 
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sunchyme1 said:
Options right now are alcoholism or suicide

I prefer the second one. At least then the rest of us will be saved from these stupid threads u keep making
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Lol how are the threads stupid if we are in agreement that I have an offensive deformity? Asking for advice in such a situation seems entirely rational.
 
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sunchyme1 said:
Not when you've asked a thousands times in several threads.

Now it's just f*****g annoying.
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If you care to look around I'm getting mixed messages, so that makes the matter a bit more complicated. Deciding whether I have BDD or a legit wack dome is the goal here. Like how have I been hooking up with a cute girl? None of it makes sense.
 
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Bro im sorry you look like a lightbulb.

Or a bald testicle

sh*t bro u r fucked get a wig
 
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Firstly, it looks good (if you still had hair and buzzed it I would think it was a good decision) and secondly you have to remember that these things are just not what people think about; think about how self-involved you are with your head shape, almost everyone else will have something like that that they're worrying about so no one has time to notice your insecurities because they're too wrapped up in their own. Honestly, man, you look good and no one you meet thinks about your head shape, try get that into your head.
 
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FJKJK said:
Firstly, it looks good (if you still had hair and buzzed it I would think it was a good decision) and secondly you have to remember that these things are just not what people think about; think about how self-involved you are with your head shape, almost everyone else will have something like that that they're worrying about so no one has time to notice your insecurities because they're too wrapped up in their own. Honestly, man, you look good and no one you meet thinks about your head shape, try get that into your head.
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Yeah I've picked up on that same phenomenon about insecurities. Several of my close friends asked why I decided to buzz my hair, not even noticing I'd been balding, even though I'd been thinking about this for the past year or so. The girl I'm currently seeing is super insecure about her "belly", meanwhile she's a D1 rower and extremely fit. I don't think she even knows I buzz my head cuz I'm balding. If you guys honestly say I'm cool, I'll take your word. It definitely helps balance my dome out when I grow the beard out a bit longer like this.
https://imgur.com/kmOq8Zu
 
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