Most are mentally ill mate, you can see it from their post histories, it's full of them on the internet, their under anonymity and they can say or do whatever, it's not like somebody actually knows them or could see them, in reality is harder for them to express it because most of them never leave the house anyways...
And also keep in mind that 99% of them are virgins, have never seen an actual real women and never had a relationship, and will all of that look at all of their writing about the subject trying to pretend through it that they actually know sh*t about something...It's amusing at start but after it turns into a tragedy when you see their "real faces"/mental illnesses and that they never stop and that this is what they do daily, some even for years now...
It's just an echo chamber, just like any other incel forum
You got it. I think a lot of them actually love living this "woe is me" lifestyle and even get off in some sick way to their misery.