I know there are way bigger problems in life such as cancer , poverty , etc, but hair loss is one of those things where u just can’t control it and the anxiety of it all makes me feel suicidal. Like I don’t know who to blame .. is it gods failure to make his own creation to have hair to a certain age? Or if there isn’t a god, what fucked up sh*t did I inherit . My dads not even that bald and here I’m starting to recede at 22. It is gonna ruin my chances of finding a girl , getting a job , and bring my self esteem lower than it already fkn is. Some people say life is a gift , but I really don’t see it .. just bad sh*t happening to me time and time again.
if there's a god,then f*** him for playing this cruel joke on usThis is a hair loss forum so I don’t want to bring all my other life problems into this, but I honestly have had this deep feeling of pure burning anger in my core for a long time now . It’s like I overcome one thing and something else fkn shows up . I’ve not lived with peace for 5 years I’d say.. and I’m at the point now where I keep blaming god for making us humans go through such bullshit everyday, and then in the end we all fkn die so what’s the point of the suffering? I’m just confused with life in general man. I don’t wanna be here anymore , but I can’t kill myself because I don’t have it in me to carry it out . I’m just living as a depressed zombie everyday hoping some how I fkn die .I know man.. I totally understand how you feel. I just wanna tell you that I totally empathize with you and feel everything that you're feeling right now. You're not alone in this struggle. Even I feel that is it that hard for nature or god to keep the hair throughout ones life?? We aren't asking for money,wealth or anything evil that will hurt anybody else. All we are asking for is to have hair that we had while we were young throughout our lives. Is it that big a thing to desire?
What really bothers me is not hair loss per se, because it's a f*****g normal thing almost every man has to deal with, but that society doesn't accept baldies. I mean I'm 18, if I go bald now the only p***y I'll see is 2d on a monitor
Don't feel guilty about bringing up other problems that are seemingly unrelated to hair loss. I'm sure most of us fully emphasise with you on that. Hair loss can literally affect every aspect of your life and that isn't something people who aren't suffering with it understand necessarily.
It's kind of true. Of course it's possible to look good in your 30s, but it's not quite the same as looking good when you're in that 18–24 bracket. Having hair when you're young brings about so many possibilities. You're fresher when you're young, you're at your sexual peak and experiences are more stimulating. You get a bit older and you're expected to behave maturely and hang around with older people who typically have moved on in their lives and have a wife and kids etc.
But taking medication means spending a sh*t load of money constantly that I do not have , and risking serious permanent side effects that will ruin life even more . In my mind it’s a lose situation either way . This life makes me fkn sick that all I gotta say
