Hi im 57 and my confidence is zero im depressed,feel alone and know no-one (female)who has hair-loss.My hair started thinning on top in my 20s.A hairdresser told me to see a tricologist which i did (for 2 years) and wasted a lot of money.In my 40s i was sent to NHS hospital and was told it was ,male pattern hair-loss, that it was inherited and that Minoxidol "may" help.I used it for well over 10 years and was scared to stop it as they say all your new hair will fall out (although i was,nt actually sure if there was any) i,ve stopped it now for 6 months and see no difference.I live in Wales and made an appointment months ago to see about a hair transplant,i cancelled it last miniute when i read that the new implanted hair can SHOCK your own hair and some may fall out never to return.I also knew i would get upset and have to come home on the bus red-eyed.I had ovarian cancer 9 yrs ago and cannot take HRT although to be honest my hair started thinnining well before then.For the last 20 odd years i have worried how my hair looks and how people see me,like another lady who posted i saw the complete make-over on UK tv where a lady with less hair than me was given a head full of thick shiny locks (although by having a good look on their web-site it requires shaving the front of your head to stick the new natural looking new hair on.)This i could face but it required going back to have it stuck back on as often as the growth of your own hair made it lift.Going out for a night on the town would be a nightmare to me. Im so glad i happened upon your web-site today reading others stories and knowing that they too feel like i do.I too feel people are talking to the top of my head not me.So badly i wanted someone to talk with i sat by a lady on the bus (about my age) who had thinning hair, i plucked up the courage to ask her if it bothered her at all and she said that it did,nt, how i wish i could be as confident.Please reply if you feel the way i do and if you dont feel the way i do please tell me how to think the way you do.Thanx