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I was thinking back to a couple years ago when I was studying in the UK. I took a weekend trip to London (I studied in Coventry which is only about an hour or so away) with some friends courtesy of 1 pound megabus tickets. Being students we stayed at the cheapest hostel we could find in East London. There we met 2 guys from Spain and another from Italy. They were all recent uni grads looking for work in London and had been living at this hostel for a few months. All 3 of them were losing their hair. They had been able to find decent work and were living off pasta and mcdonalds cheeseburgers all while drinking heavily and partying all the time. Basically living like students.
This struck me as odd because each time I went to Spain I rarely saw people with hair loss and they were always middle aged or older, never in their 20s like these guys.
So I began thinking of my own lifestyle. When I was growing up I used to pride myself on being the small kid who kid eat those giant burgers from fast food places and not get fat. My diet sucked and consisted of fatty fried foods and lots of simple carbs. I also got addicted to p**rn from about 13 when I caught it on cinemax accidently one night when everyone was sleeping. By 16 I was noticeably receding. I tried to mask it by bleaching my hair thinking that being closer to my skintone it wouldnt show up as much but I think in the long run it made it worse.
Skip ahead 8 years I'm about NW4 with a good amount of thinning on top. I've been on the big 3 for about 6 months and was having some great results. Then..I got laid off from my job about a month ago. I started feeling depressed, stayed in my apartment all day, didn't even have the will to go grocery shopping and would eat once a day something like a bowl of lentils or pancakes and syrup. Basically garbage, I would feel like sh*t and my sleep schedule got bizarre I would go to bed at 2pm wake up around 11pm and repeat for days. My face looks like sh*t, acne which I haven't had since early college all over my face, eyes swollen and bruised looking and I noticed my hair on top has thinned back down. It's still better than 6 months ago but definitely worse than it was a month ago.
I guess my point is I definitely think things like stress, diet and overall lifestyle have impacted my hair and overall appearance. I honestly believe watching p**rn everyday throughout high school fucked up my hormones because I was about the only 16 year old I knew that had to shave everyday. This stress from losing my job has really put me in a rut and it's been extremely difficult finding another one. Monday I'm filing for unemployment which is totally embarrassing but its only a temparary solution. Nobody in my family on either side is bald or even balding which leads me to believe I had some play in this outcome.
On a positive note. Yesterday I forced myself to get out of the house and buy some real food. I walked 15 blocks to the produce stand that had extremely cheap prices and walked back. Later I walked 8 blocks to the grocery store and bought the rest of the things I needed to make an actual meal. It's funny how just eating fruits, vegetables and real food actually boosted up my mood, gave me energy and helped me sleep better. Today I'm actually meeting up with friends and going to a drum and bass party, tomorrow I'm going out to dinner with some people I recently met and I feel much better. Will this have an impact on my hair, I don't know but what I have noticed is the people on this forum who have had good success also had extremely positive attitudes and seemed to have active lifestyles so I think it may play a part in the grand scheme of things.
I don't know if anyone will actually read all that but it feels good to tell someone. There's no way I could talk about my hair problems with my friends.
This struck me as odd because each time I went to Spain I rarely saw people with hair loss and they were always middle aged or older, never in their 20s like these guys.
So I began thinking of my own lifestyle. When I was growing up I used to pride myself on being the small kid who kid eat those giant burgers from fast food places and not get fat. My diet sucked and consisted of fatty fried foods and lots of simple carbs. I also got addicted to p**rn from about 13 when I caught it on cinemax accidently one night when everyone was sleeping. By 16 I was noticeably receding. I tried to mask it by bleaching my hair thinking that being closer to my skintone it wouldnt show up as much but I think in the long run it made it worse.
Skip ahead 8 years I'm about NW4 with a good amount of thinning on top. I've been on the big 3 for about 6 months and was having some great results. Then..I got laid off from my job about a month ago. I started feeling depressed, stayed in my apartment all day, didn't even have the will to go grocery shopping and would eat once a day something like a bowl of lentils or pancakes and syrup. Basically garbage, I would feel like sh*t and my sleep schedule got bizarre I would go to bed at 2pm wake up around 11pm and repeat for days. My face looks like sh*t, acne which I haven't had since early college all over my face, eyes swollen and bruised looking and I noticed my hair on top has thinned back down. It's still better than 6 months ago but definitely worse than it was a month ago.
I guess my point is I definitely think things like stress, diet and overall lifestyle have impacted my hair and overall appearance. I honestly believe watching p**rn everyday throughout high school fucked up my hormones because I was about the only 16 year old I knew that had to shave everyday. This stress from losing my job has really put me in a rut and it's been extremely difficult finding another one. Monday I'm filing for unemployment which is totally embarrassing but its only a temparary solution. Nobody in my family on either side is bald or even balding which leads me to believe I had some play in this outcome.
On a positive note. Yesterday I forced myself to get out of the house and buy some real food. I walked 15 blocks to the produce stand that had extremely cheap prices and walked back. Later I walked 8 blocks to the grocery store and bought the rest of the things I needed to make an actual meal. It's funny how just eating fruits, vegetables and real food actually boosted up my mood, gave me energy and helped me sleep better. Today I'm actually meeting up with friends and going to a drum and bass party, tomorrow I'm going out to dinner with some people I recently met and I feel much better. Will this have an impact on my hair, I don't know but what I have noticed is the people on this forum who have had good success also had extremely positive attitudes and seemed to have active lifestyles so I think it may play a part in the grand scheme of things.
I don't know if anyone will actually read all that but it feels good to tell someone. There's no way I could talk about my hair problems with my friends.