Lost All Confidence With Girls: Looking For Ways Out

[yetti]

When I was in Nagasaki the rate of balding Japanese men more or less matched those of their Western counterparts.

Yep.
Gorgeous city by the way. Hills, a lot of nature, great food.

 

[meetjoeblack]

After some instrospection, I found out that I actually have not enough confidence to bond with women anymore.
A little background: my hair loss started to get noticeable in 2014, at 19 years old. I was already in a relationship, which ended just a few months ago. Now that I'm again ready for the sexual market, I realized that hair loss completely scarred me psychologically. The trauma I endured was so deep that I now feel that no woman wants to hang out, nor deserves to hang out with a balding 23 years old. I have low social self confidence because of hair loss.

I have no drive to actually go and try because I think no woman deserves a NW3 to approach her. I also fear I might be rejected and eww-ed to oblivion. Any of you boys went through this? How did you get out of this state?

You need tough love at this point.

No kidding your gf left. You act like a sissy. No gf wanted to be mounted by a sissy.

Shave head. Grow beard. Go get girls.

Watch rsdtyler. Yes, it's marketing. f*****g it. Be delusional. Approach. Swipe right. Repeat.

What I see happening? I run into a ex gf or date or fling from yesterday year. She is fat, she is a single mom, her life is crappie. I realize how fortunate I am.

You can always date younger. Yes, most women don't like bald. I had a barber butcher my haircut. I showed up reluctant to date. She loved me. I get in my head thinking about hair loss, things go south. I lose number and go find more girls.

It's not an easy life. The thing is, you aren't living your dream obsession over hair.

I smoked dmt once. I swear it was like I watched the creation story. I came back like I was showered in love and gratitude and awe.

I approached more women in a day then most do in a life time. I have nothing to lose. Everything to gain. One day, I will be dust. f*****g it.

If I lose hair, I shave grow beard, go get jacked, and get a bae.

Post back after you approached a thousand women.