Making the perfect the enemy of the good

[templerecess]

What makes us meloncholy is being subjected to a lesser life through no fault of our own and with little to No means of recourse or reconsiliation.

Look, no matter what I say or seem to be implying, I only wish you and everyone else on this board the very best. If I could snap my fingers and give you back every follicle you ever had, I would and would be happy to do it. What I am saying is that you could have a BETTER life than you had before, EVEN in the looks department. I think this talk of a lesser life is way too extreme. From what I remember from earlier posts I've seen of yours, you're around my age (24 or 25ish?). I know that it feels horrible. In fact, I'm sure it feels like the worst. I'm only trying to argue that feeling is just that, a feeling, and not a reality. It is a perception, rather than a reality. But of course, what only matters is how you feel. I would assume you're trying to make the best of it, but I would argue having a, dare I say it, sunny disposition would enable you to truly make the best of it.

 

[uncomfortable man]

Look, no matter what I say or seem to be implying, I only wish you and everyone else on this board the very best. If I could snap my fingers and give you back every follicle you ever had, I would and would be happy to do it. What I am saying is that you could have a BETTER life than you had before, EVEN in the looks department. I think this talk of a lesser life is way too extreme. From what I remember from earlier posts I've seen of yours, you're around my age (24 or 25ish?). I know that it feels horrible. In fact, I'm sure it feels like the worst. I'm only trying to argue that feeling is just that, a feeling, and not a reality. It is a perception, rather than a reality. But of course, what only matters is how you feel. I would assume you're trying to make the best of it, but I would argue having a, dare I say it, sunny disposition would enable you to truly make the best of it.

I can understand and maybe even apreciate your sentiment on what constitutes reality and what I choose to let effect me. Are laws real? Only if they are are enforced and despite the fact that you cannot see, touch or taste a law it doesn't cease to detrimentally effect your life if you break it. If you are asking how something as intangible as an idea can make or break someones existance then you need only to look to our own history of greed for power. Adopting a sunny disposition will not de bug the populace from THE IDEA (there it is again) that bald people are inferior thus relagated to second class citicenship.I am literary powerless to all of those people who look down on me everyday and WHY might you ask?!! Because just like an effective law, it is heavily reinforced in the peoples minds and then enforced in their actions and behavior back onto me in an unrelenting cycle of bull**** you simply can't nor won't comprehend. And like any law, I don't have much of a choice to follow it or not because it is enforced, caps FORCED!

 

[paulie72785]

This was a good post but I AM BORN WITH MY HAIR AND ILL DIE WITH IT feeling just sort of makes me depressed about it all.....