s.a.f said:I want to see a pic of this Dude.
One thing that you dont seem to realise is its not just about height. People are built in proportion. When Sarcozy is wearing his 3.5" shoes people still see him as small, same with Prince who always wore 3/4" heels. Take a good look at a 6' guy and a 5' 4" guy theres more difference in size than just height. The 6' guy will have wider shoulders, bigger head ect just plain bigger altogether. Even with longer legs you'll still be the same small guy just brought up to a taller level. And women will still choose the natural tall guy over the elongatedly legged small guy.
monty1978 said:Confidence is a bullshit arguement. I didn't have much confidence even when I had amazing hair but I got laid a hell of a lot.
I'll agree that if you are not amazing looking but you have confidence that enables you to really shine, you're not ugly either mind, that under this circumstance you can score hot women through confidence. But the fact of the matter is that if you are butt ugly and not rich you will not get attractive women, confidence or not! FACT!!
jijijijiji said:monty1978 said:Confidence is a bullshit arguement. I didn't have much confidence even when I had amazing hair but I got laid a hell of a lot.
I'll agree that if you are not amazing looking but you have confidence that enables you to really shine, you're not ugly either mind, that under this circumstance you can score hot women through confidence. But the fact of the matter is that if you are butt ugly and not rich you will not get attractive women, confidence or not! FACT!!
True but I guarantee there is a % of women who give 0 weighting to how you look to decide whether they are attracted to you or not. This is probably 10-15% of women. Again, dating is a pure numbers game and just approaching enough women should be able to exploit this.
jijijijiji said:monty1978 said:Confidence is a bullshit arguement. I didn't have much confidence even when I had amazing hair but I got laid a hell of a lot.
I'll agree that if you are not amazing looking but you have confidence that enables you to really shine, you're not ugly either mind, that under this circumstance you can score hot women through confidence. But the fact of the matter is that if you are butt ugly and not rich you will not get attractive women, confidence or not! FACT!!
True but I guarantee there is a % of women who give 0 weighting to how you look to decide whether they are attracted to you or not. This is probably 10-15% of women. Again, dating is a pure numbers game and just approaching enough women should be able to exploit this.
s.a.f said:I want to see a pic of this Dude.
One thing that you dont seem to realise is its not just about height. People are built in proportion. When Sarcozy is wearing his 3.5" shoes people still see him as small, same with Prince who always wore 3/4" heels. Take a good look at a 6' guy and a 5' 4" guy theres more difference in size than just height. The 6' guy will have wider shoulders, bigger head ect just plain bigger altogether. Even with longer legs you'll still be the same small guy just brought up to a taller level. And women will still choose the natural tall guy over the elongatedly legged small guy.
HairPieceMan said:also i have come to the conclusion that god hates me and is trying to make sure i never have sex, like EVER.
he has done the following things to me
TWO MAIN THINGS that basically write me off the radar for 95% of women
1. made me pre-mature bald (loss of crown) at like 22 + look crap bald, which happens to like 1% of the male population at this age, special me!
2. made me not just short (like 5 6) but REALLY short (like 5 4), which is a very "unique" qaulity should I say, just makes me oh so more special!
TWO MID THINGS
1. made me half blind, basically need to wear glasses to see in a distance.
2. made my teeth stained yellow w/ croocked and bucked teeth.
TWO SMALL THINGS
1. dark circles under eyes, they are pretty bad, hopefully i can get them fixed.
2. beard problem - even though i shave everyday i can still see an outline around the bottom chin and moustache area.
jijijijiji said:HairPieceMan said:also i have come to the conclusion that god hates me and is trying to make sure i never have sex, like EVER.
he has done the following things to me
TWO MAIN THINGS that basically write me off the radar for 95% of women
1. made me pre-mature bald (loss of crown) at like 22 + look crap bald, which happens to like 1% of the male population at this age, special me!
2. made me not just short (like 5 6) but REALLY short (like 5 4), which is a very "unique" qaulity should I say, just makes me oh so more special!
TWO MID THINGS
1. made me half blind, basically need to wear glasses to see in a distance.
2. made my teeth stained yellow w/ croocked and bucked teeth.
TWO SMALL THINGS
1. dark circles under eyes, they are pretty bad, hopefully i can get them fixed.
2. beard problem - even though i shave everyday i can still see an outline around the bottom chin and moustache area.
Get some whitening strips for $50. Avoid citrus acid foods and brush after every meal. You're teeth should stay white for over a year.
Getting a tan will help with the dark eye circles. Even the fake spray tans done by a professional are good these days.
Get contacts.
Beard problems? A little stubble looks manly anyways.
Btw what are your shoulder/chest/waist measurements? If you lift weights you can probably put 3 inches on your shoulders which would help a lot pulling off being >5'8"
monty1978 said:I've been reading about your leg lengthening thing!
It could bloody well hurt at the very least and/or give you problems in later life. But let's say that doesn't happen. How old are you? If you are gonna do it time is of the essence it seems.
Also 10cm max IMO. Go above that and you will look out of proportion depending on your current proportions but I do think that you could get away with 10cm. You could then wear 1" heals and be 5. 9" and not look stupid. 5.9 has got to be about average or at least high enough not to have to look up at people all the time, especially girls.
12 months of pain and 2 surgeries though and your legs will also get very skinny while you are off your feet. May take you years to get back into shape and if your legs are longer than your body which i'm guessing they will be you'll need to get them stronger than before to compensate.
Are you commited to go through all that? Possibly experience extreme pain also?
:agree:uncomfortable man said:In HPMs defense, I can relate with his obsessive behavior and tendencies to over-analyze things because it helps us cope and make sense of our respective situations. And I'm sure many of us here can relate to the feelings of pulling the short genetic straw. Unlike so many people here, HPMs problems are numerous and NOT imagined so his feelings ARE justified IMO.... which is why I am a little shocked at SAF being so critical of HPM. In theory, he is not too different from SAF in that he is seeking cosmetic improvement in order to achieve NORMALITY.... not to become some alpha-male. When you have so many features that set you apart from the crowd, then you can appreciate the value of conformity and blending in.
Although I am not short, I understand that it is a real problem so I give him the benefit of his observations and opinions because he is here, living it. Also because I know what it is like to have NW2s tell me that being bald makes absolutely no difference when I know from my own personal experience that it does.
I wish you the best of luck Hairpieceman and I hope you can achieve your goals and find contentment.
s.a.f said:"Hey man this LL surgery is the sh*t! No one would ever know"
Do what you like mate. :shakehead: