Men need to get higher standards.

[melancholy]

Most of the obese women I know are with guys that have hair, are fit or at least OK bodies, are good looking or at least OK looking, and have other advantages as well. No wonder even obese women reject me, if they can get a better looking guy with hair, why would they want me? No wonder they have such huge egos, no matter how fat, bitchy or ugly they are, they get hit on all the time.

If a guy can get something better than a fattie, he should aim higher than fat chicks at all times. Better looking guys with hair are ****ing things up for guys like us by ****ing, fating, and getting married to obese women.

I used to be part of this problem. Back when I was young and still in high school I was good looking, had hair, and was popular and I ****ed and even dated some ugly girls and fat girls. Sadly, my actions contributed to this problem by boosting their egos that much more. I didn't realize the problem I was contributing to.

I don't blame obese women for being bitchy, picky, and having huge egos, I blame men for pedestalizing them.

My best friend is really good looking, has great hair, money, and every other advantage you can think of, but his last girlfriend was a 200lb girl with a pig nose. He was only with her a few months dumped her for his current girlfriend, an average girl, but now this ugly fat girl is going to reach for the stars for the rest of her life because she'll compare any guy that approaches her to him. So in that sense the damage is permanent. Even a one night stand with a good looking guy boosts their egos, and thus, their standards.

If above average men treated obese women the same way women (even fat ones) treat bald men, it would take them down a few pegs and might make them available to guys like us. Fat chance of that happening though, pun intended.

 

[ladysmanfelpz]

Yep b****s are b****s. And fat b****s piss me off even worse. At least you recognized tho and see whereas the guys that kept their hair still stoop down to that level cuz its an easy pick up, balding made you realize that **** is dumb and driven people are more attractive. Balding made you want to get fit and have money and other things. Use that to your advantage. Be the bald prick that everyone looks at, but then when they meet you have class and be a respectable guy. Will throw girls way off. And the ones that you'll want to be with will recognize and go for a bald guy that is attractive in other ways by taking care of himself.

 

[Primo]

Again.... I consistently here this argument on here that obese girls are very picky and shallow because there are too many handsome guys out there who are too lazy and lacking in game to settle for anything better... to a certain extent it is valid, as I have come across many such lazy guys, who clearly put no effort into talking into women...

...BUT surely if your logic is true, then it must also therefore mean that there is a now a surplus of single non-obese looking girls out there.... after all unless you live some place like China where there are no women, there are only so many guys out there to go around for all the girls, hair or no hair, and so inevitably there must be plenty good looking girls out there who are rarely being approached because even handsome NW1 guys deem them to be "too much effort"..... makes sense yes?

I think too many guys in our modern society rely on instant gratification, and just want to "pick up" girls for an easy lay and nothing else, without having to put any effort in, or use any charm, confidence, humour or game, yourself included, hence why they target obese girls and not better looking ones, hoping that just their initial physical attraction alone will be enough to get them a quick lay...

This is a very lazy, short term approach which simply does not work with good looking girls unless they're really shallow highschool teenagers/ so drunk they can barely stand, willing to go home with anything and in no state of mind to make a proper judgement call...

The flipside of this is there are lots of good looking girls out there who are seldom approached by any decent, non-lazy, non-sleazy guys and simply crave to be approached by guys who actually make an effort to chat them, get to know them and build some kind of attraction and chemistry with them, greater than anything purely physical..

So if you simply had the patience, the confidence and most importantly the long term committment, to approach these kind of women instead of shallow, obese women, you would probably have more success and at the very least feel a lot happier with yourself knowing that you were ACTUALLY TRYING not just HOPING TO PICK UP...

It will take lots of effort and courage and I'm not saying you would be guaranteed to be successful in each case, of course not, I fully realise and appreciate there's about 20% of women out there who will reject guys outright purely on the grounds of being bald, they're hostile and that really sucks, but that leaves the other 80%...

and if you don't get lucky every time, or certain women just don't find you attractive enough,... THEY WILL AT THE VERY LEAST RESPECT YOU for being a confident, non-sleazy, non-desperate, high status male.... unlike all those other NW1s who are that desperate for sex and nothing else that they have to resort to 200lb+ girls.

 

[melancholy]

Again.... I consistently here this argument on here that obese girls are very picky and shallow because there are too many handsome guys out there who are too lazy and lacking in game to settle for anything better... to a certain extent it is valid, as I have come across many such lazy guys, who clearly put no effort into talking into women...

...BUT surely if your logic is true, then it must also therefore mean that there is a now a surplus of single non-obese looking girls out there.... after all unless you live some place like China where there are no women, there are only so many guys out there to go around for all the girls, hair or no hair, and so inevitably there must be plenty good looking girls out there who are rarely being approached because even handsome NW1 guys deem them to be "too much effort"..... makes sense yes?

Lots of flaws in your theory. First, very good looking NW1 guys have sex with both pretty girls, as well as average girls, and fat girls. Back when I was 16, I was a handsome NW1, and that is EXACTLY what I did. I ****ed anything, and even dated some obese women. I would have rather had nothing but hot girls, but hot girls were not always available.

I remember when I was 17, one of my sex buddies was an obese 23 year old girl who had an average looking boyfriend. She confined in me that as soon as I started ****ing her, she completely stopped ****ing her boyfriend and became not only unattracted to him, but downright repulsed. She only stayed with him for his money, he was paying off her debt or something like that.

Most of the good looking NW1 guys I know are doing this exact same type of stuff that I used to do when I could. This needs to stop, but it won't. The ****ed up part is I would still be doing the same thing if I was still NW1.

 

[Primo]

Lots of flaws in your theory.

No mate, this is not MY theory, this is YOUR THEORY and I was just twisting it back on you to see if you would then go and contradict yourself and your own theory with another waffly reply... and you didn't disappoint!

 

[melancholy]

No mate, this is not MY theory, this is YOUR THEORY and I was just twisting it back on you to see if you would then go and contradict yourself and your own theory with another waffly reply... and you didn't disappoint!

That made no sense. Can I ask you something? Is English your first language? Not trying to be mean here.

 

[oyahaloms]

Most of the obese women I know are with guys that have hair, are fit or at least OK bodies, are good looking or at least OK looking, and have other advantages as well. No wonder even obese women reject me, if they can get a better looking guy with hair, why would they want me? No wonder they have such huge egos, no matter how fat, bitchy or ugly they are, they get hit on all the time.

If a guy can get something better than a fattie, he should aim higher than fat chicks at all times. Better looking guys with hair are ****ing things up for guys like us by ****ing, fating, and getting married to obese women.

I used to be part of this problem. Back when I was young and still in high school I was good looking, had hair, and was popular and I ****ed and even dated some ugly girls and fat girls. Sadly, my actions contributed to this problem by boosting their egos that much more. I didn't realize the problem I was contributing to.

I don't blame obese women for being bitchy, picky, and having huge egos, I blame men for pedestalizing them.

My best friend is really good looking, has great hair, money, and every other advantage you can think of, but his last girlfriend was a 200lb girl with a pig nose. He was only with her a few months dumped her for his current girlfriend, an average girl, but now this ugly fat girl is going to reach for the stars for the rest of her life because she'll compare any guy that approaches her to him. So in that sense the damage is permanent. Even a one night stand with a good looking guy boosts their egos, and thus, their standards.

If above average men treated obese women the same way women (even fat ones) treat bald men, it would take them down a few pegs and might make them available to guys like us. Fat chance of that happening though, pun intended.

You post is so WRONG I don't know where to start.

Lets start here:
You don't like obese girls, you're not attracted to fatties, and then again you say nice looking guys have "stole" it from you.
If you look at them as second best, why do you want them?

Second, why do you consider bald men to be so unattractive? There are many good looking bald men and OK looking (Bruce Willis, John Statham)

Third,
Attraction is not only looks. Did you read the "game" by Neil Strauss?

 

[Ori83]

Lol why you always hear the words "Bruce Willis" and "John Statham" right after "bald" when it comes from not-bald guys or girls?!... as if every single bald guy can just shave his head and vaull'e : Bruce Willis...wtf with this?

 

[slipy]

we've got to start a campaing to persuade those indolent low Norwood guys not to aim lower than their league, so that guys like us could have a chance of getting our out-of-work members wet by those 300lbs (war pig?) types of girls. sounds like a plan.

no, wait.... wouldn't attaining an erection prove to be problematic with them? i guess not for the op.
wouldn't we just be better off sticking to our trusty hands and imagination? even if we are considered to be on the same level of attractivness as those women, possibly even lower, but we shouldn't loose whatever little self respect we got left nevertheless, after all we didn't do this to ourselves unlike them.

No No and no...
Dude I dont want to be mean but you seems to have sunk freaking low at life...
From what I read, It's like you are a slave of yo ballz and freaking craving for a woman EVEN if she is fat and ugly!

Arent you a man for God sake!

yes, indeed. how low can one go?

 

[Michael84]

The topic starter seems to be a bull-inseminator type of a person. I can imagine how hard it is for him right now.
And that is a good question: how to sustain an erection with war pigs? ))

 

[slipy]

strap-on, your real, unerect penis would be underneath it.

 

[uncomfortable man]

strap-on, your real, unerect penis would be underneath it.

That was a CCS quote if I ever heard one.

But men already have too high standards as it is, with guys here dissing fat chicks and holding out for perfect tens.

It's futile because in the end we all settle for someone who is within our own looks range and limitations.

 

[slipy]

That was a CCS quote if I ever heard one.

believe me or not i've hardly read much of ccs stuff, any similarities are purely coincidental.
i came up with that myself. :woot:

 

[anxious1]

noone seems to be getting the critical point here.

the OP has a problem with girls rejecting him because of baldness, yet he admits he doesnt find 'fatties' and 'ugly' girls as attractive. Although apparently attractive enough for him to fuk, just not respect.

it works both ways, if u expect girls to like wats on the inside, and not only be attracted to good looks, then u should be the same and not refer to girls as fatties.

 

[Primo]

Getting higher standards won't change a thing, a bald guy is unattractive period, it's not in your control what woman will wont you, all you can do is try hitting on 10000 diffrent girls because 99% will reject you anyway so if your lucky one of them will not reject you


In the reality of being bald, even obese land whales hate you

:uglylol::gay2:

Welcome back BBS!..... seriously if you hate your NW2/3 so much, why don't you just save up for a hair transplant??

honestly think that's the only thing that will give you closure and make you realise there is actually more to life than how much hair there is on your head.

 

[BrightonBaldy]

i shudder everytime i see bruce willis held up as an example of a hot bald guy, hes ugly as f**k and i almost always disregard any member of this sites other comments when they mention him. to look good sly you need to be ripped, in awesome shape, low body fat %... thats it.

the only celeb baldies i can think of that are good looking are statham and freddie ljunberg, though i havent seen the latter in a while. a girl in my work is in love with the football ref howard webb , hes another example of somebody in decent shape.

On-topic..... the OP is corect, men need to raise their standards. not that im overly keen on spending my life in the gutter chasing hippos but itd certainly boost my ego to not be looked down upon by these beasts.

back when i had hair ive only ever slept with really good looking girls, was with one for 3 years, i did nothing but laugh at fat birds (and fat men). not much has changed, im shallow with women still, im in no need for what most women are offerring anyway so why bother trying. im financially independant, emotionally independant, im not lonely, i feel no peer pressure to be part of a couple so i can live out the fantasies women have programmed into them through rom coms and sit coms... any committed relationship could be nothing but a drain on my time and energy.

ill meet a good one someday but a bit of hair on my head makes that 100 times easier, atm i aint missing out on anything. whoever said on here that 20% of women will reject you instantly because bald people look like **** is living in ****ing dreamland... try over 90% to get closer to the truth.

 

[HairGuru22]

i shudder everytime i see bruce willis held up as an example of a hot bald guy, hes ugly as f**k and i almost always disregard any member of this sites other comments when they mention him. to look good sly you need to be ripped, in awesome shape, low body fat %... thats it.

the only celeb baldies i can think of that are good looking are statham and freddie ljunberg, though i havent seen the latter in a while. a girl in my work is in love with the football ref howard webb , hes another example of somebody in decent shape.

On-topic..... the OP is corect, men need to raise their standards. not that im overly keen on spending my life in the gutter chasing hippos but itd certainly boost my ego to not be looked down upon by these beasts.

back when i had hair ive only ever slept with really good looking girls, was with one for 3 years, i did nothing but laugh at fat birds (and fat men). not much has changed, im shallow with women still, im in no need for what most women are offerring anyway so why bother trying. im financially independant, emotionally independant, im not lonely, i feel no peer pressure to be part of a couple so i can live out the fantasies women have programmed into them through rom coms and sit coms... any committed relationship could be nothing but a drain on my time and energy.

ill meet a good one someday but a bit of hair on my head makes that 100 times easier, atm i aint missing out on anything. whoever said on here that 20% of women will reject you instantly because bald people look like **** is living in ****ing dreamland... try over 90% to get closer to the truth.

True brother!

 

[uncomfortable man]

It's good to hear you are doing well regardless Brighton as it's been a long time. And it is accurate that the majority of women dislike baldness. It really should be common knowledge at this point.

 

[drybone]

Most of the obese women I know are with guys that have hair, are fit or at least OK bodies, are good looking or at least OK looking, and have other advantages as well. No wonder even obese women reject me, if they can get a better looking guy with hair, why would they want me? No wonder they have such huge egos, no matter how fat, bitchy or ugly they are, they get hit on all the time.

If a guy can get something better than a fattie, he should aim higher than fat chicks at all times. Better looking guys with hair are ****ing things up for guys like us by ****ing, fating, and getting married to obese women.

I used to be part of this problem. Back when I was young and still in high school I was good looking, had hair, and was popular and I ****ed and even dated some ugly girls and fat girls. Sadly, my actions contributed to this problem by boosting their egos that much more. I didn't realize the problem I was contributing to.

I don't blame obese women for being bitchy, picky, and having huge egos, I blame men for pedestalizing them.

My best friend is really good looking, has great hair, money, and every other advantage you can think of, but his last girlfriend was a 200lb girl with a pig nose. He was only with her a few months dumped her for his current girlfriend, an average girl, but now this ugly fat girl is going to reach for the stars for the rest of her life because she'll compare any guy that approaches her to him. So in that sense the damage is permanent. Even a one night stand with a good looking guy boosts their egos, and thus, their standards.

If above average men treated obese women the same way women (even fat ones) treat bald men, it would take them down a few pegs and might make them available to guys like us. Fat chance of that happening though, pun intended.

The world is VERY superficial. Dont make excuses. Lose the weight. Then go get shiny white teeth, then a full head of hair, then an 8 inch pleasure maker. Then go get the best women to mate with. Go make money.

The worst thing we can do is point the finger and complain. Dont put up with it. Not settle for fat women. Period.

 

[BrightonBaldy]

It's good to hear you are doing well regardless Brighton as it's been a long time. And it is accurate that the majority of women dislike baldness. It really should be common knowledge at this point.

i wasnt keen on the new forum, so never bothered with it, plus ive no time for the nw2s lecturing me about how wrong i am and theres a few of them about these days