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[JZA70]

UCM, you can't really blame the customers. This is simply nature and a natural reaction. I am bald too, but I am still disgusted by the sight of bald guys. I sympathize with them but my brain is hardwired to not like how they look. Hating bald people is not a choice. It is built into the brain.

Sadly have to agree with this. I see bald men as scum of the earth even though I am one.

 

[uncomfortable man]

Well that is where we differ then. You believe the stigma and believe you are trash. I don't think that being bald makes me subhuman and I still believe that I am deserving of respect and dignity. It's not hardwired, it's taught and learned behavior (the very definition of culture).

 

[zeroes]

I see nothing has changed with ucm still as paranoid as ever.

Plenty of valid reason why these woman avoided going into your lane that doesn't involve your baldness but I would be wasting my time.

Good on you DH for trying but I get the feeling ucm is a lost cause.

 

[slipy]

by his own admission he is just too observant, never lets anything slip when it comes to negative details. He's negative but so is the reality on Earth. which coupled with the condition is devastating and his downfall.

there are plenty of blisfully unaware bald guys that would deem their lives ''decent'' without acknowledging the stigma because they're sleepwalking.

 

[Scalpology]

I work at a grocery store and when I'm working the cash register I can see how apprehensive people are to enter my line. Sometimes young women will actively avoid my line because they're so above being temporarily associated with a bald checker, jeez. Today, I saw a young woman waiting in line so I called out to her "open reg on 5" and she pretended not to hear me. Even worse when I have a woman in my line and after I greet her she doesn't say anything back to me at all. Doesn't even look at me, instead burrying her head in her phone the whole time to avoid any kind of interaction with me. The nerve of some people to deny someone even just the simple common courtesy of saying "hello", because I'm bald. I have to just sit there and take it acting friendly to these disrespectful douche bags. I want to shake these fvckers and slap them accross the face and give them a piece of my mind. Everyday I dread having to face the public and deal with their ****. Such a heavy weight on my heart. I don't know how much longer I can tolerate this living hell. It's getting too much to take.

I think the main problem is not you being bald, but working as a cashier. Women lust for guys of high status and power. They treat average workers like scum. It's a fact. Women are nothing but status/looks/money w****s.

 

[resu]

A little from column A, a little from column B, people freely use bald as an insult, "you bald f#ck", "that stupid bald...", "shut the hell up you bald idiot", clearly there's some sort of resentment from society towards bald men, it cannot be denied but since we don't have a version of you with hair to see how people would react to you in the same situation we can only guess why they try to avoid you. A free cashier on a supermarket... I don't care what they look like, I just want to get out of there. On the other hand some people specially women are rude as f#ck, they think everyone owns them respect and think they are above everyone else.

 

[zeroes]

Slipy you're so on the money yet again /s

Seriously both ucm and yourself are hard wired to turn any negative or neutral event into something about yourself and to do with your baldness. Here is an idea for both of you, why not go up to the person and ask. I know you guys won't and I know your response, 'I can read their mind', 'if they act nice it's because they pitty us baldies' etc. I notice bald people have the greatest gift of all mind reading and psychic powers. Most people are too rapt up in their own lives to think or care about you or anyone else with or without hair.

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Grrr I feel so dirty writing that it won't get through to either of you two or any of the other self loathing, woman hating people on here.

 

[uncomfortable man]

There are just as many guys who piss me off with their "I'm better than you" vibe smirking at my head. I hate baldists, men and women.

 

[DoctorHouse]

UCM, what does your wife and daughter think about your views about society and your baldness? When they get mad at you, do they throw in the bald card?