NOT a woe is me rant... no really - EXPLICIT though so you we're warned

swingline747

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http://www.nextavenue.org/blog/male-baldness-how-women-really-feel-about-bare-head

Im sorry I found this

I mean I read it and while the attempt at comfort is "nice" it falls flat on the ONE BIG LINE.

"Most of these smart, stylish women in their 40s, 50s and 60s" (Smart = fugly, Stylish = fat but covers it well with clothes, 40's 50's and 60's = WELL 40's 50's and 60's)

WHO THE **** wants a woman in their 40's +????? I mean for fun and not some weird bet.

Do this same poll with women in their 20's and 30's, you know the ones guys WANT TO ****!
Men care about their hair because its a feature to get LAID, like peacock (c***) feathers, or a Lions Mane, and Im sorry but the ONLY guys looking to plow saggy boobed, greying (possibly balding) fat, out of shape 40's+ women are guys who are probably in their FIFTIES PLUS!

A young guy is not out there scoping out silver foxes, I mean unless he has some kind of fetish, or I guess losing his hair and looks like he is in his 50's already at 27. I mean my GF was actually in her 30's when we met. Shes in her 40's now, and WHEW sex has taken a downward spiral into the dark side, but man was she SMOKING when we met. Would she have talked to me with a NW7? NOOOOOOOOOOPE! No matter what she says the answer is NOPE! And I know this because I know her taste in men and she would be a GOD DAMNED LIAR if she denied it and she knows it.

IN FACT I dont doubt all these women who love "their bald man" got him because he settled cause he was losing HIS HAIR!

These articles kind of piss me off a bit because its putting a band aid on how the man feels when his competitive edge is gone. When his self esteem is now barren. Most guys worried about losing their hair ARE NOT 40+. Those guys have LOST their hair, the guys worried are 35-, the ones still out there trying to get some brisket. You are basically telling them hey don't worry, you'll be fine in your 50's with a smorgasbord of fat, classy, caddy old hens.... WOOOOOOOOOOO HAAAAA LIFE IS GOOD!


 

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I had encountered this article a few days back, and my first thought was as in the OP.

Hey swingline: you are 34, and your GF is in her 40s?
 

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Aging is a slow progressive death.
 

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The women in the article all act self righteous about how baldness doesn't bother them, but completely detest comb overs or toupees because that shows that the guy is insecure. It just goes to show how much of a low life they are because they have no empathy, understanding, or compassion for what a bald guy is going through. They have no idea in the world what it feels like but are quick to invalidate and dismiss how a bald guy feels.

We had a woman in this forum who is losing her hair and is devestated. I had compassion and understanding for her rather than contempt for her being insecure about it.
 

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The women in the article all act self righteous about how baldness doesn't bother them, but completely detest comb overs or toupees because that shows that the guy is insecure. It just goes to show how much of a low life they are because they have no empathy, understanding, or compassion for what a bald guy is going through. They have no idea in the world what it feels like but are quick to invalidate and dismiss how a bald guy feels.

We had a woman in this forum who is losing her hair and is devestated. I had compassion and understanding for her rather than contempt for her being insecure about it.




"They have no idea in the world what it feels like but are quick to invalidate and dismiss how a bald guy feels."...who is this "they"? please dont tell me you are saying ALL women think this cause of one womans comment please tell me im wrong.
 

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Aging is a slow progressive death.

Death is an inevitability..... but DAMN do I wanna look good in that casket. I want people to Propecia me up like a cardboard cutout and want to take thumbs up pics next to my carcass.

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I had encountered this article a few days back, and my first thought was as in the OP.

Hey swingline: you are 34, and your GF is in her 40s?

Yeah but seriously when we met she was like SUPER hot. I mean so was I guess, but I at least kept upkeeping myself. Plus for me its was beneficial. Every girl in my age range ALWAYS talked about marriage and kids and wanting to be a house wife. Thats NOT for me.
In the past couple years (after we spent money on a house) she decided to completely turn into an old spanish woman, let her self go and spend her days cooking and cleaning. She has a great job and I dont have to deal with kids and she is actually really good to me but the sex life is gone. I just have ZERO desire to have sex now with a 40 years old woman who has NO desire to keep herself fit for a younger boyfriend.
It gotten to the points where Im very open about my feelings to. I used to try the nice route but she just blew me off now Im pretty bad with it. I think personally open relationships are the WAVE of the future..... WAVE OF THE FUTUUUUUUUUUUUURE!
 

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Death is an inevitability..... but DAMN do I wanna look good in that casket. I want people to Propecia me up like a cardboard cutout and want to take thumbs up pics next to my carcass.

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Yeah but seriously when we met she was like SUPER hot. Plus for me its was beneficial. Every girl in my age range ALWAYS talked about marriage and kids and wanting to be a house wife. Thats NOT for me.
I mean so was I guess, but I at least kept upkeeping myself. In the past couple years (after we spent money on a house) she decided to completely turn into an old spanish woman, let her self go and spend her days cooking and cleaning. She has a great job and I dont have to deal with kids and she is actually really good to me but the sex life is gone. I just have ZERO desire to have sex now with a 40 years old woman who has NO desire to keep herself fit for a younger boyfriend.
It gotten to the points where Im very open about my feelings to. I used to try the nice route but she just blew me off now Im pretty bad with it. I think personally open relationships are the WAVE of the future..... WAVE OF THE FUTUUUUUUUUUUUURE!

I understand man,I used to shave my head slick and have been dating this women for 3 years. I have a system now but when we met I was bald. I'm good looking and keep in shape, I'm 37 and she is 35. She has two kids,boys,3 and 5 years old. I have no desire to raise two young children and told her this when we met. She is hot smoking body no strech marks,makes about $350K a year, treats me really well....but those kids!Ugh so I think I need to end it sadly soon because I don't want to deal with kids. Every women 30 over has one of those rug rats!! Anyway HAIR does give a edge, your peacock statement could not be more right on.
 

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Death is an inevitability..... but DAMN do I wanna look good in that casket. I want people to Propecia me up like a cardboard cutout and want to take thumbs up pics next to my carcass.

LOL :laugh:
 

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Little solice comes from articles like this that don't consider the bald 20somethings.
 

swingline747

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I understand man,I used to shave my head slick and have been dating this women for 3 years. I have a system now but when we met I was bald. I'm good looking and keep in shape, I'm 37 and she is 35. She has two kids,boys,3 and 5 years old. I have no desire to raise two young children and told her this when we met. She is hot smoking body no strech marks,makes about $350K a year, treats me really well....but those kids!Ugh so I think I need to end it sadly soon because I don't want to deal with kids. Every women 30 over has one of those rug rats!! Anyway HAIR does give a edge, your peacock statement could not be more right on.

yeah it sucks cause most girls now just get knocked up SO EARLY around my area. Its like an inevitability that any girl I meet already has one rodent running around from that "guy" she was going to spend the rest of her life with at 20 because of course the average lifespan was somehow 35 in their eyes.

Its tough to meet a girl who really doesn't want kids. Ive had them tell me that then like change their tunes a year later.

Went through a bad breakup once cause of it.

I would still get flirted with "OCCASIONALLY" with me head shaved if I was showing my arms and somehow my job/investments came up.

I was in a walkin once where this gorgeous 23 year old nurse was openly flirting BIG TIME!
I was so shocked UNTIL the kid subject came up. I SWEAR they sneak in the kids comment to test you, I Guess thats fair. I think my dental hygenist did that to me when we first met. She was the most ADORABLE thing. Two kids though.
But then the gay dentist started hitting on me to, so you have to take the good with the bad. This guy basically walked me to the front of the office and started introducing me to people like I was his boyfriend, asking me personal questions, and got pissed when I sort of rushed out lol. But HEY gay marriage is legal and I could just be a sit at home doctors wife, well thats what I told my GF.
 
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