Now i know.Bald=No life

[californiaoceans911]

Me personally guys,I VE NEVER EVER seen a single one bald guy having a pretty gf next to him outside...Maybe if ive ever seen,she must be just a friend,or the guy is already 40 years old and he has a beautiful wife,but most prob he lost his hair during the marriadge life !
I see bald guys with ugly fat girls though...maybe thats our destiny..
I used to have the choice to pick up the prettiest when i was younger,now even the fat ones are a challenge duh

Bald guys can get quite decent looking women, usually the ones who want security or a family (kids).

Cmon guys...just admit it..No woman is proud of a bald bf..Or be happy to introduce to her friends a bald man and say:that`s my man...
Even guys prefer to have best friends other guys mostly good looking or with hedas full of hair..
Just wake up...it`s not that people are mean or evil...It`s insticts..Its generics filters that we have inside us..
It`s like when you see a little cute puppy..Your insticts tell you to protect it,to hug it,to love it,to admire it cause it`s cute
What about the baby bald cacroaches though? Insticts telling you to avoid them...or worse..kill em..
Same with people...Girls see a cute guy,right away they smile,they get interested,they want more of him...
Girls see a bald ugly guy...What they do? Simply nothing...just avoid them..hahahaha
We are f4cked,i am telling you

This is pretty depressing to see, not because I think being bald is horrible and life-ending, but rather because I see people who think they can't cope with something like this. One of my bosses is pretty bald, and fully grey, yet he landed a smoking hot wife who also happens to be wicked smart.

Why? Because he's smart, funny, outgoing, and confident. He couldn't care less about his hair, his focus is on his career, his family, and being a bad ***. He's not even extremely attractive with or without hair. I think some of you need a little more self confidence, and well a few on this forum really need to seek professional help.

Is balding not favorable? Sure. Is it something to cry about and end your life over? Hell f*cking no.

 

[hellouser]

This is pretty depressing to see, not because I think being bald is horrible and life-ending, but rather because I see people who think they can't cope with something like this. One of my bosses is pretty bald, and fully grey, yet he landed a smoking hot wife who also happens to be wicked smart.

Why? Because he's smart, funny, outgoing, and confident. He couldn't care less about his hair, his focus is on his career, his family, and being a bad ***. He's not even extremely attractive with or without hair. I think some of you need a little more self confidence, and well a few on this forum really need to seek professional help.

Is balding not favorable? Sure. Is it something to cry about and end your life over? Hell f*cking no.

The problem with that is that it's not us who make the claim. It's society that tells us and makes us feel that way. Of course, you won't get people telling you that because it's not politically correct but the underlying feelings towards bald/balding men are definitely with disgust and disrespect.

You can say 'fvck you' to society all you like... but that aint going to make a lick of a difference when society still pegs you at the bottom of the totem pole. There is NO escaping that.

 

[resu]

Why did you quote me when you gave more or less an example of what I was saying? Someone who has security plus is bald and not attractive looking so she can feel pretty confident that she'll get a comfortable life and that he won't cheat on her.


The deniers are getting out of control.

 

[zdm632]

Cmon guys...just admit it..No woman is proud of a bald bf..Or be happy to introduce to her friends a bald man and say:that`s my man...
Even guys prefer to have best friends other guys mostly good looking or with hedas full of hair..
Just wake up...it`s not that people are mean or evil...It`s insticts..Its generics filters that we have inside us..
It`s like when you see a little cute puppy..Your insticts tell you to protect it,to hug it,to love it,to admire it cause it`s cute
What about the baby bald cacroaches though? Insticts telling you to avoid them...or worse..kill em..
Same with people...Girls see a cute guy,right away they smile,they get interested,they want more of him...
Girls see a bald ugly guy...What they do? Simply nothing...just avoid them..hahahaha
We are f4cked,i am telling you

Well, you may want to shut down the TV and movie torrents...
In real life, there are plenty of bald people, having families, friends, etc.

 

[californiaoceans911]

And he's also a boss, so has tons of money. But it probably doesn't help you getting a smoking hot girl.



Yes. If you don't understand how that could be possible, then you've never walked into the shoes of a 23 year old NW5.

I thought you were smarter than that cali, what Norwood are you to even say things like that?

He doesn't have tons of money, he's just successful, probably 150K a year give or take. My neighbor last year was a NW7, at age 21...had been that way for 2 years already. He also was 5'4, skinny, no muscles, poor college student. He still had a hot gf. Excuses is all I hear. Lots of people have setbacks and insecurities. You have to use what you have.

Why did you quote me when you gave more or less an example of what I was saying? Someone who has security plus is bald and not attractive looking so she can feel pretty confident that she'll get a comfortable life and that he won't cheat on her.


The deniers are getting out of control.

Because you are implying that the only women bald men can get are the ones that want security and a family, which isn't true at all.

 

[resu]

He doesn't have tons of money, he's just successful, probably 150K a year give or take. My neighbor last year was a NW7, at age 21...had been that way for 2 years already. He also was 5'4, skinny, no muscles, poor college student. He still had a hot gf. Excuses is all I hear. Lots of people have setbacks and insecurities. You have to use what you have.




Because you are implying that the only women bald men can get are the ones that want security and a family, which isn't true at all.

That's what I usually see, bald/ing guy with a woman pushing a trolley or she's preggers.

 

[californiaoceans911]

That's what I usually see, bald/ing guy with a woman pushing a trolley or she's preggers.

So you're assuming that they either a) met before he was balding or b) met when she was ready to settle.

You're making some leaps every time you see someone walking down the street, you don't know their history. I think people see what they want to see.

 

[2bald2young]

So you're assuming that they either a) met before he was balding or b) met when she was ready to settle.

You're making some leaps every time you see someone walking down the street, you don't know their history. I think people see what they want to see.

says the 30 year old nw2 guy, who never went bald in his teens or 20's. Idk maybe he didn't look too bad bald or she is one of the exception that doesn't care ( and means it). Really I don't want to get rude or start a discussion but understand that as someone who wasn't a nw3 for example in his 20's, can't understand how the experience is.

 

[resu]

So you're assuming that they either a) met before he was balding or b) met when she was ready to settle.

You're making some leaps every time you see someone walking down the street, you don't know their history. I think people see what they want to see.

That's not what I'm saying. These women who look for bald men are looking for security and are family orientated, you even gave a perfect example of this. Same way that a NW1 guy will be with a chubby or homely looking woman because he knows she won't cheat on him and that she'll take care of the house and all the other stuff.

An average bald guy just has less options and if he's looking to just fool around he has to have that appeal that few have, there are guys like this so don't interpret in absolutes.

 

[californiaoceans911]

says the 30 year old nw2 guy, who never went bald in his teens or 20's. Idk maybe he didn't look too bad bald or she is one of the exception that doesn't care ( and means it). Really I don't want to get rude or start a discussion but understand that as someone who wasn't a nw3 for example in his 20's, can't understand how the experience is.

He actually had an oddly shaped head, and wasn't really a looker. My original gripe with this thread wasn't really necessarily the bi*ching and moaning, but rather that this thread is in the men's general hair loss discussion instead of the sub-forum "impacts of hair loss".

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That's not what I'm saying. These women who look for bald men are looking for security and are family orientated, same way that a NW1 guy will be with a chubby or homely looking woman because he knows she won't cheat on him and that she'll take care of the house and all the other stuff.

That's a pretty sad, albeit maybe pragmatic, way of looking at life and the person you want to love/marry for the rest of your life.

 

[resu]

He actually had an oddly shaped head, and wasn't really a looker. My original gripe with this thread wasn't really necessarily the bi*ching and moaning, but rather that this thread is in the men's general hair loss discussion instead of the sub-forum "impacts of hair loss".

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That's a pretty sad, albeit maybe pragmatic, way of looking at life and the person you want to love/marry for the rest of your life.

Yeah real life is sad, who knew.

 

[hellouser]

This is true only if you stay 24/7 in the house and watch the TV reality shows and hollywood crap.
Reality is completely different.

Reality isn't different. Everyone will say they don't have a problem with baldness because saying otherwise would be politically incorrect. If the reality wasn't any different, we wouldn't be on this fvcking forum. To say that is to deny the problem with hair loss.

 

[Aesthetic]

post some pics...


WHAT THE FUk is the point of making threads like this or anything without posting pics

 

[californiaoceans911]

Yeah real life is sad, who knew.

No reality isn't sad at all, your outlook on how people find life partners is sad. That is what was meant by my statement.

Reality isn't different. Everyone will say they don't have a problem with baldness because saying otherwise would be politically incorrect. If the reality wasn't any different, we wouldn't be on this fvcking forum. To say that is to deny the problem with hair loss.

I dunno, I think people have a lot worse features than being bald. For instance: being overweight/physically unfit, being unintelligent, unattractive face, being shy/awkward, bad or bitchy attitude, resting b**ch face, so many more. Women deal with so many more stigmas than we do.

post some pics...


WHAT THE FUk is the point of making threads like this or anything without posting pics

+1 what he said!

 

[2bald2young]

You know I always see this people on this forum telling that baldness isn't that bad or even not bad at all. The real question is then what are you doing on this forum? Looking for a cure that isn't likely to come in time to save your life? One time someone on this forum said if you are on this site hairloss bothers you in some degree and I agree.

 

[resu]

No reality isn't sad at all, your outlook on how people find life partners is sad. That is what was meant by my statement.




I dunno, I think people have a lot worse features than being bald. For instance: being overweight/physically unfit, being unintelligent, unattractive face, being shy/awkward, bad or bitchy attitude, resting b**ch face, so many more. Women deal with so many more stigmas than we do.




+1 what he said!

You view things with rose tinted glasses (very female like perspective I must say), I view it raw as they are. You don't think people look for certain characteristics in others? You initially feel attraction then start looking for other aspects like humor, financial gain, social circles... or first you don't like that person that much then feel attraction to their character instead, this is he best outcome for the average balding man or unattractive woman. If you disagree that's fine, enjoy the beautiful life and all the nice things.

 

[hellouser]

I dunno, I think people have a lot worse features than being bald. For instance: being overweight/physically unfit, being unintelligent, unattractive face, being shy/awkward, bad or bitchy attitude, resting b**ch face, so many more. Women deal with so many more stigmas than we do.

Non-physical attributes are irrelevant. There are THREE strikes to being deemed unattractive by women:

1) Baldness
2) Obesity
3) Height

Honorable mention goes to being a redhead is another turnoff, but I never understood that one myself. Doesn't matter, if your bald or balding, you are NOT going to have it easy being accepted by women and men. Being a man is like being an ugly woman: you're gonna have to work. Unfortunately, baldness is seen as repulsive by women. Take Cristiano Ronaldo... this dude is capable of making a woman's labia quiver with excitement... put a receding hairline on him and it'll shrivel up in 2 seconds flat. So his status, confidence, money, intelligence, wit, etc. are meaningless. The problem is that too many people give the politically correct bullsh*t response saying 'oh no, women all want confidence in a man' which is just a cop out response to save face. Ask a woman on the street if she'd date a balding man and she'll say yes (because its politically correct). But if you were to present her with the dude's twin brother with a full head of hair.... you know damn well the bald guy is going to be left out to be one with the dust through which he trudged through life as a bald man. #foreveralone

I cannot take it anymore when people try to pull the wool over my eyes (and others) telling us that bald men don't have it that bad. This is incredibly delusional and god damn insulting, only further escalating the divide between those in higher social standing privileged with hair and the bottom feeders of society graciously given male pattern baldness. Positional good theory ONCE AGAIN. Society NEEDS bald men to create the comfort feeling of self worth. We are not meant to be happy and with a head of hair as it would jeopardize the social status and feelings of life satisfaction of others. Why else have researchers not done much for baldness? Take Dr. Angela Christiano for example... the only reason why Alopecia Areata is now on the cusp of being cured is because she had it and took matters in her OWN hands. Her work with arthritis drugs works. PGD2 discovery was made two years ago and what happened since? NOTHING. Angela Christiano *KNEW* nobody was going to give a fvck about her. Nobody gives a fvck about us either. PERIOD. It's every man/woman for himself. This lack of empathy is clear by how society views baldness and the need for a cure for it: A JOKE. Tell someone you want your hair back and they'll call you vain. Ask the same person if they'd date an individual with alopecia and they'll say no... but THATS not vain, is it?

Fvck society.

 

[californiaoceans911]

You know I always see this people on this forum telling that baldness isn't that bad or even not bad at all. The real question is then what are you doing on this forum? Looking for a cure that isn't likely to come in time to save your life? One time someone on this forum said if you are on this site hairloss bothers you in some degree and I agree.

I agree, hairloss bothers me, that's why I'm here. Totally agree with you. +1

However...there's a difference between hair loss bothering someone and it controlling their life, as is apparently the case with the OP. Some people here take it to an extreme. If I can fix balding, sure I would love to try. To lock oneself in the basement of their parent's house and say that they became a loser because of hair loss is another thing. You can't tell me you don't agree with that.

You view things with rose tinted glasses (very female like perspective I must say), I view it raw as they are. You don't think people look for certain characteristics in others? You initially feel attraction then start looking for other aspects like humor, financial gain, social circles... or first you don't like that person that much then feel attraction to their character instead, this is he best outcome for the average balding man or unattractive woman. I you disagree that's fine, enjoy the beautiful life and all the nice things.

Actually, I'm very straight-forward, and "raw" as you put it. I don't see things through rose tinted glasses. It could be argued that people on here do so by blaming their problems on hair loss, whereas a "raw" person (in my eyes a dominant male) would tell that person that they are a p*ssy that is blaming their life problems on hair loss. Dominant men don't give up on life because of a small setback like hair loss. Dominant people run marathons with an artificial leg after losing their organic leg in combat.

Non-physical attributes are irrelevant. There are THREE strikes to being deemed unattractive by women:

1) Baldness
2) Obesity
3) Height

Honorable mention goes to being a redhead is another turnoff, but I never understood that one myself. Doesn't matter, if your bald or balding, you are NOT going to have it easy being accepted by women and men. Being a man is like being an ugly woman: you're gonna have to work. Unfortunately, baldness is seen as repulsive by women. Take Cristiano Ronaldo... this dude is capable of making a woman's labia quiver with excitement... put a receding hairline on him and it'll shrivel up in 2 seconds flat. So his status, confidence, money, intelligence, wit, etc. are meaningless. The problem is that too many people give the politically correct bullsh*t response saying 'oh no, women all want confidence in a man' which is just a cop out response to save face. Ask a woman on the street if she'd date a balding man and she'll say yes (because its politically correct). But if you were to present her with the dude's twin brother with a full head of hair.... you know damn well the bald guy is going to be left out to be one with the dust through which he trudged through life as a bald man. #foreveralone

I cannot take it anymore when people try to pull the wool over my eyes (and others) telling us that bald men don't have it that bad. This is incredibly delusional and god damn insulting, only further escalating the divide between those in higher social standing privileged with hair and the bottom feeders of society graciously given male pattern baldness. Positional good theory ONCE AGAIN. Society NEEDS bald men to create the comfort feeling of self worth. We are not meant to be happy and with a head of hair as it would jeopardize the social status and feelings of life satisfaction of others. Why else have researchers not done much for baldness? Take Dr. Angela Christiano for example... the only reason why Alopecia Areata is now on the cusp of being cured is because she had it and took matters in her OWN hands. Her work with arthritis drugs works. PGD2 discovery was made two years ago and what happened since? NOTHING. Angela Christiano *KNEW* nobody was going to give a fvck about her. Nobody gives a fvck about us either. PERIOD. It's every man/woman for himself. This lack of empathy is clear by how society views baldness and the need for a cure for it: A JOKE. Tell someone you want your hair back and they'll call you vain. Ask the same person if they'd date an individual with alopecia and they'll say no... but THATS not vain, is it?

Fvck society.

I disagree. Plenty of men that are tall, thin, and have hair that can't get a women (think Russell Brand's looks but without the fame). Yes, being bald is a setback, just like being less attractive, or fat, or short is...but it doesn't stop you from getting women.

According to your logic there's no way I could have landed some of the girls I have date, including my current gf who is 5'10-5'11. I'm 5'7-5'8. Clearly she would never have dated me because I'm short...except wait she's my gf.

Some people on here treat hair loss like it's the apocalypse. It's not fun, but it's not the end of the world. Maybe the people telling you that bald men don't have it that bad have already had to deal with shortcomings where maybe you haven't? At least there are things to make you less bald or less fat. Short people can't just grow 4 inches of height. Maybe some people deal with balding better because they have had to deal with other shortcomings that make balding look like a joke.

 

[Nickola]

Can i piut an end on this?
ALL bald sexy men(for those who say that balding can be sexy) are actors or singers or famous people,with tons of photoshop,sexy roles(in movies) and generally being famous=automatically sexy(with few exceptions)
Now all the HOT girls you see with NW4 20 ys old guys...Wtf? i never saw that once in my life,except they are in love since they were little kids,or the girl is pregneant,or the guy offers her money,cars,etc.
Plus spending all of your 20s having a head full of hair MEANS that you enjoyed your life already,without having all this anxienty,stress,depression and all these sh1t a 20ys old nw4 guy has...So,started balding at your early 30s...WHO GIVES A ****,you built up a strong personality already,you got strong contacts already and a career,maybe a hot wife as well..But being nw4 at the best years off your life,is going to turn you a miserable human being..

I did an experiment once.I know i have a cute face...It looks ugly with a nw4 on it though..So,there was a 2 day festival here in dt.The first day i went there with my friends,got drunk,dance had fun,but zero girls..
SO i go the second day to the same festival,same time,same weather,same drinks,same mood...I made out with two girls and got their numbers.Flirted with tens of others with the eyes and received tens of smiles...The second day i was wearing a hat..
And now you explain me that being bald have the same chances with a nw1.5 guy to get a gf?...
haha
i laugh

 

[hellouser]

Can i piut an end on this?
ALL bald sexy men(for those who say that balding can be sexy) are actors or singers or famous people,with tons of photoshop,sexy roles(in movies) and generally being famous=automatically sexy(with few exceptions)
Now all the HOT girls you see with NW4 20 ys old guys...Wtf? i never saw that once in my life,except they are in love since they were little kids,or the girl is pregneant,or the guy offers her money,cars,etc.
Plus spending all of your 20s having a head full of hair MEANS that you enjoyed your life already,without having all this anxienty,stress,depression and all these sh1t a 20ys old nw4 guy has...So,started balding at your early 30s...WHO GIVES A ****,you built up a strong personality already,you got strong contacts already and a career,maybe a hot wife as well..But being nw4 at the best years off your life,is going to turn you a miserable human being..

I did an experiment once.I know i have a cute face...It looks ugly with a nw4 on it though..So,there was a 2 day festival here in dt.The first day i went there with my friends,got drunk,dance had fun,but zero girls..
SO i go the second day to the same festival,same time,same weather,same drinks,same mood...I made out with two girls and got their numbers.Flirted with tens of others with the eyes and received tens of smiles...The second day i was wearing a hat..
And now you explain me that being bald have the same chances with a nw1.5 guy to get a gf?...
haha
i laugh

This part is false. You'll definitely care when your 30 or 80. I'm 30 and I care now more than ever. If you haven't landed a wife yet... this is when things start to worry you as you KNOW your chances are pretty ****ty in finding someone at 30+ AND balding on top.

You'll realize this when your 30 and as bald as you are now or fully bald.