NY Mag Article: 'I Love Watching Men Worry About Balding'

[MercMan]

What the hell are they doing? Is that like a "oh damn me likey" gesture?

I mean, given the choice (and apparently if you are still in middle school or high school) wouldn't you rather have a girl with big tits and a tight ***? Furthermore, do you see yourself trying to be with any of the girls in this video any time soon?

I'm not sure why you think being an athlete is a "requirement," nobody ever said anything about that. And what three things are "demanded" by women? I thought it was all about the hair, and then I throw out three other variables, and now you say those are required?

Seriously, you can replace "athlete," or quite frankly any other trait with a different skill. What about a musician? Pretty sure there are plenty of ugly dudes who can play an instrument or sing and do ok. What about an artist? What about someone who is really good at sailing? What about a guy who can build his own race cars? What about a guy who opens his own company? What about a guy who is a good writer? What about... I mean the list can go on and on and on.

 

[maher]

what she said: (+upskirt) shes cute, trying to be smart and ****..

[video=youtube;ew5b0DgPVDQ]https://www.youtube.com/watch?x-yt-ts=1421914688&v=ew5b0DgPVDQ&x-yt-cl=84503534#t=177[/video]

 

[hellouser]

What the hell are they doing? Is that like a "oh damn me likey" gesture?

I mean, given the choice (and apparently if you are still in middle school or high school) wouldn't you rather have a girl with big tits and a tight ***? Furthermore, do you see yourself trying to be with any of the girls in this video any time soon?

I'm not sure why you think being an athlete is a "requirement," nobody ever said anything about that. And what three things are "demanded" by women? I thought it was all about the hair, and then I throw out three other variables, and now you say those are required?

Seriously, you can replace "athlete," or quite frankly any other trait with a different skill. What about a musician? Pretty sure there are plenty of ugly dudes who can play an instrument or sing and do ok. What about an artist? What about someone who is really good at sailing? What about a guy who can build his own race cars? What about a guy who opens his own company? What about a guy who is a good writer? What about... I mean the list can go on and on and on.

The three variables are always these:

1) Looks
2a) Money
2b) Status

Looks trump money and status. The other two are interchangeable. An athlete, a musician, whatever... its all status.

 

[MercMan]

Right. So, do the best you can to improve your status. I mean, that's just common life goal stuff. Are you an accountant? Be the best accountant you can, and handle the books for important clients, and become valuable. ****, I'm sure there is someone out there who is ranked the number one Super Smash Brothers player in the world, and guess what, that guy (assuming it's a guy) has a good chance at being a successful person, which includes having success attracting others. People want to be around winners, even just to be acknowledged by a winner.

Certainly the least attractive trait is self-pity, even worse is someone who likes to wallow in their self-pity. Who wants to be around a salty sour-puss like that?

 

[hellouser]

Right. So, do the best you can to improve your status. I mean, that's just common life goal stuff. Are you an accountant? Be the best accountant you can, and handle the books for important clients, and become valuable. ****, I'm sure there is someone out there who is ranked the number one Super Smash Brothers player in the world, and guess what, that guy (assuming it's a guy) has a good chance at being a successful person, which includes having success attracting others. People want to be around winners, even just to be acknowledged by a winner.

Certainly the least attractive trait is self-pity, even worse is someone who likes to wallow in their self-pity. Who wants to be around a salty sour-puss like that?

That doesn't work. No woman is going to say 'I want him to fvck me because he's a great accountant.' The reality is they say that when the guy looks like a GQ model.

 

[MercMan]

The three variables are always these:

1) Looks
2a) Money
2b) Status

Looks trump money and status. The other two are interchangeable. An athlete, a musician, whatever... its all status.

Also, I think that Money and Status can certainly carry more weight than looks. Stephan Hawking, anybody?

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That doesn't work. No woman is going to say 'I want him to fvck me because he's a great accountant.' The reality is they say that when the guy looks like a GQ model.

They don't care that you're an accountant. They care that you are important, that people look to you for advice, and need you to run their business. They care that you are a doer, a go getter, and successful.

 

[Exodus2011]

Also, I think that Money and Status can certainly carry more weight than looks. Stephan Hawking, anybody?

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They don't care that you're an accountant. They care that you are important, that people look to you for advice, and need you to run their business. They care that you are a doer, a go getter, and successful.

yea cuz we all know women are lining up for stephen hawking . . . .

 

[MercMan]

yea cuz we all know women are lining up for stephen hawking . . . .

Well the guy left his wife for his nurse...

 

[Exodus2011]

Well the guy left his wife for his nurse...

who was apparently abusive to him . . . . .

wtf he is interesting. i'm reading about how he is a big fan of strip clubs lmfaooo

http://www.thedailybeast.com/articl...ppers-aliens-and-disturbing-abuse-claims.html

 

[Nadester]

I doubt a guy in a wheel chair would have sex easily

 

[Aesthetic]

This is the current standard for men:

You see it a lot on online dating profiles. A lot of women require that type of physique otherwise they won't let you talk to them or acknowledge your existence.

It's a myth that men expect so much from women in the looks department. Let's be honest here, almost all men would sleep with any girl as long as she's half-decent.

Women just won't settle for less than the ridiculous standards she set in her mind. Most women would rather die than sleeping with a man that doesn't match their demands.

That's why balding is such a tragedy for 95% of men, it's our most important attribute. No other change in our appearance will have as much impact.

Be bald in your 20's, or even 30's, any age for that matter and you're dead romantically for the vast majority of women.

There are always exceptions, and that's what they are, exceptions.

A fat old 45 year old woman will still have her chances with 95% of men. That's the harsh reality.

its easy as **** to get that body, its the face u cant get without genetics and the hair line which is genetic

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It's the same in Brussels, women have insanely high standards for men. My girlfriend is from a rural part of Belgium so she doesn't have this mentality.

You can even tell the difference only with Tinder.

I get almost 0 match here in Brussels, and if I travel to villages, the matches increase exponentially and the women's unrealistic demands plummet.

They suddenly become more... human. Western society and technology is truly poison for women.

I remember a girl cancelled a date with me because I wouldn't text back and forth with her for hours.

So that's another demand most Western girls have thanks to smartphones: give me attention 24/7!

hahah yeah give em attention 24/7 then they will dump u because u were "too needy"

they never know what they want. expect for a male model with a 10/10 face, then it doesnt matter

he can be the creepeist guy around and they will be like " oh wow that was so sweet oh my god "
then the ugly tries to hit on them "um no, i have a boyfriend and your creeping me out plz leave me alone"

all u people that dont think facial looks matter, just go be-friend a 9/10 10/10 looking male friend, and watch how many girls talk about him like his **** on social media and ask u about him constantly

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[video=youtube;uwPFnvniA7w]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uwPFnvniA7w[/video]

for all u in this thread lol, doesnt really reflect my view points just interesting to watch


also

theres four types of women

The Money grabbing high maintenance b**ch
The Self absorb sl*ts with emotional issues
The Crazy domineering feminists and lezbos
The Traditionalist with a sense of self entitlement

 

[MercMan]

I doubt a guy in a wheel chair would have sex easily

Sounds pretty easy to me. Just sit there and let the lady do all the work--and it's not like they can be upset at your lack of effort...

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theres four types of women

The Money grabbing high maintenance b**ch
The Self absorb sl*ts with emotional issues
The Crazy domineering feminists and lezbos
The Traditionalist with a sense of self entitlement

That's it, huh?

 

[Nadester]

@mercman
The guy can barely move and that too for just some keyboard typing.
Although the idea is quite nice, ill try it one day when i have a girl.
@steve
For guys like us they are b****s but for girls who are low in looks/brains/money with a ****ty social life......They are role models to them.They are taught how to IMPROVE themselves by downgrading anyone and everyone around them.

 

[winnyblues]

So long as you are decent looking and not ugly looks dont really matter that much. A girl would much prefer someone whos decent looking but financially stable than Adonis looking guy who isnt going anywhere in life.

If you are decent looking and have a good job girls will prefer that over th3 example I used.

Money=status> looks

Hellouser is wrong but I guess hes ugly so hence why looks matter for him

 

[hellouser]

So long as you are decent looking and not ugly looks dont really matter that much. A girl would much prefer someone whos decent looking but financially stable than Adonis looking guy who isnt going anywhere in life.

If you are decent looking and have a good job girls will prefer that over th3 example I used.

Money=status> looks

Hellouser is wrong but I guess hes ugly so hence why looks matter for him

Yes, obviously thanks to hair loss. How long did it take for you to figure that out?

 

[winnyblues]

But thats my point looks aren't more important tham money and status. It oy matters if you are ugly

 

[2bald2young]

On this forum there is no women hate but rather critic on the balance of power on the dating market. Lets be honest, women are constantly getting flirt at, complimented, getting a lot of attention and actually treated like something magical by a lot of men. What do you expect that would happen if men are constantly throwing themselves at them, willing to do everything for them? They just have enough choices and then put in that for women it is more of a quality game. For them it is about getting the best male for us more about getting as many women as possible.

So here is my ugly conclusion, we gave them the pedestal. They just needed to sit.

 

[swingline747]

Im thinking these posts are being moderated because OF COURSE I replied yet it doesnt pop up. Then it did and I Went to edit it and its gone again.

This article is poorly written trite. Every issue you women deal with men have the same crap PLUS balding AND E.D.. No women actively seek a bald man just like no man actively seeks a fat women (unless hes also fat).
Its attraction and by thinking this article is inciting some weird karma from the days of 1950 Americana is really flawed. You think men can just get fat, and run around the beach in a striped onsey swim suit while women have to be 100% top notch?

Most issues people.... PEOPLE deal with in aging can be prevented or reversed through some effort and healthy living. I as well hit the gym 4 days a week and eat SUPER healthy. I still look reasonably younger than I am aside my hair loss. Im in great shape yet after I started losing my hair and my brother didnt I noticed a DRASTIC change in the element of females and amount of attention we both still got. While he would still get the smiles and conversation returned I would get looks away and border line maced. You think if adding ANOTHER day to the gym would regrow my hair I wouldn't do it? Hair loss 90% of the time can NEVER be fixed. Almost EVERYTHING women complain about can be. Get off your duffs and work out. hey ladies your husband doesnt find you attractive anymore? THEN DO SOMETHING. Hey heres a friggin NEW FLASH. 90% of women don't find HIM attractive either!

YOU - "Maybe that’s why I’ve found some strange comfort in men freaking out about going bald: Finally, dudes are getting a taste of impermanence and instability! There are enough situations in my life where men have leverage over me — at work, in legislating what I can do with my reproductive organs, in any instance where size and physical intimidation matter"

You think you are being subjugated by men all around you? get a job with a female boss. Tell me how you like THAT after 6 months?

You think women legislators ARENT telling you what to do with your body? Take a looks at the multitude of right wing christian women!

That last example is the dumbest ****e Ive ever heard. Are you trying to join the WWF? Are you gallivanting construction sites in mini skirts? WHERE DOES THE PHYSICAL DIFFERENCE IN SIZE EVER MATTER!?

You think men aren't worried about their looks? Maybe some but many women arent either. You are lumping EVERY human into man/woman and not individuals.

I wrote a much longer and more precise response but the site bombed it so unfortunately now you just get this.

Also shaving your head is horsecrap. I shaved for TWO years and then regrew what hair I had left. EVERY woman I work with and my GF (WHO MADE ME START SHAVING) told me it looked awful and never do it again. So I went from still slightly bonable to gutter trash in one quick buzz.

 

[SayifDoit]

On this forum there is no women hate but rather critic on the balance of power on the dating market. Lets be honest, women are constantly getting flirt at, complimented, getting a lot of attention and actually treated like something magical by a lot of men. What do you expect that would happen if men are constantly throwing themselves at them, willing to do everything for them? They just have enough choices and then put in that for women it is more of a quality game. For them it is about getting the best male for us more about getting as many women as possible.

So here is my ugly conclusion, we gave them the pedestal. They just needed to sit.

Pretty much this.
Because of how men are wired, sex driven to some extent. It has basically become the worshipping of women.

 

[CaptainForehead]

On this forum there is no women hate but rather critic on the balance of power on the dating market. Lets be honest, women are constantly getting flirt at, complimented, getting a lot of attention and actually treated like something magical by a lot of men. What do you expect that would happen if men are constantly throwing themselves at them, willing to do everything for them? They just have enough choices and then put in that for women it is more of a quality game. For them it is about getting the best male for us more about getting as many women as possible.

So here is my ugly conclusion, we gave them the pedestal. They just needed to sit.

Yes and no.
It all boils down to this: women find only a small percentage of men desirable; men find a much larger percentage of women desirable. This differential leads to most of the men getting starved of sex. And thus these men throw themselves at women.
You won't find rock stars/movie stars throwing themselves at women.