On Big 3, But Real Close To Giving Up. Thoughts?

kenny-k

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Hey guys. I’ll just start off with a bit of a background. I’m turning 26 this summer, I started balding at around 18, and been fighting it since I was 19. I have tried quite literally everything meds, shampoos, essential oils, vitamins, laser, s5, prp, etc. (well not everything, haven’t tried RU, bc it’s hard to get in Canada, expensive and tbh I’m kinda scared to put a random chemical on my head). ANYWAYS, currently my regiment is:

LipoGaine twice a day (4-5 years, but used to use regular minoxidil)
Finasteride 1.25mg ED (3 years)
Rotate between big 3 shampoo and regenepure.
AND I just started dermarolling two weeks ago.

I’ve attached pics, but to be quite honest with you guys, I’m getting frustrated and sick of my garbage hair. Because just when I thought the top was bad, my sides started thinning too(retrograde alopecia). Usually you get one worse than the other, but since I have great luck I have both! Oh and also, I’ve gone to a few consultations for a hair transplant, and all said that my sides are too thin. I hate to admit it but I left the last one almost in tears.

As many of you can probably relate, it’s eating me alive. To put it in perspective, when I go out with my friends and we’re talking to a group of girls, I used to be the one doing all the talking. Now I hang back and don’t bother saying a word because my friends all have sweet hair, and I’m sitting here looking like their uncle. I hate being that guy but I used to have no problem getting girls. Now I’ve been really struggling. When I’m out with my parents, I don’t even walk close to them because I think I’m embarrassing them and making them look older because I legit could be one of their brothers.

BUT I’m hoping the dermarolling could do something atleast. Because if it doesn’t, I’m just going to shave my head and give up. Some people suggest growing my hair out. This is quite literally not an option, the hair in the thin parts grows to about a half an inch and comes to a HALT. It’s the most frustrating thing I’ve ever dealt with. (Also, don’t you hate it when people say you have a good shaped head?)

So what I’m asking for is your opinions on something I could be doing differently (for maybe even just the sides) or if the dermarolling is something worth being hopeful for. Anything would help, thanks!
 

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kj6723

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Sorry you're going through this man.

If finasteride isn't doing the job it might be time to consider dutasteride, and possibly RU as well
 

sunchyme1

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dont drop the meds bro youll regret it.

nw3ish WAY better than slick nw7

keep taking the meds and keep it short.

buzz it DONT SHAVE!
 

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BUT I’m hoping the dermarolling could do something atleast. Because if it doesn’t, I’m just going to shave my head and give up. Some people suggest growing my hair out. This is quite literally not an option, the hair in the thin parts grows to about a half an inch and comes to a HALT. It’s the most frustrating thing I’ve ever dealt with. (Also, don’t you hate it when people say you have a good shaped head?)

Try dermarolling at least once per week for 6 months. Suggested depth 1.5 mm. Do not wound too much and put the minoxidil right after

As a diffuse thinner myself i can tell you: be prepared for a nice suprise. Dont give up my man
 
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Kagaho

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Also consider Avodart. It will protect your existing and neogenic hairs from DHT
 

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I appreciate your thoughts but your parents really arnt gonna give ashit. Either are your mates if they are true mates. Think it’s only your confidence and your perception of how you are judged by girls. For what it’s worth I think your should stay on finasteride and minoxidil. Battle it out. Hang in there
 

whatintheworld

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Stay on the meds, don't go NW7 man.

I have a similar hair loss pattern, NW6/7 diffuse. I hate my hair but I know if I quit finasteride and minoxidil, it's game over for me. At least now I have some coverage all over the top.
 

joeblack2017

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Dont give up yet dude. As long as there are hair follicles there is still hope. Stick with the routine
 

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Hey bro really sorry to hear about your situation its tough for all of us, feel this will be my similar norwood pattern in a few more years! Can i ask did finasteride stabilise your hair loss at all or did you continue loosing whilst on finasteride?
 

kenny-k

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Hey bro really sorry to hear about your situation its tough for all of us, feel this will be my similar norwood pattern in a few more years! Can i ask did finasteride stabilise your hair loss at all or did you continue loosing whilst on finasteride?
Hey man, finasteride definitely helped but this is as good as it got. However, you should have seen it before that...so to answer your question, yes it did stabilize it.
 

kenny-k

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Thanks for your answers guys. I saw a success story where a guy used 0.5mm everyday and got the best results I’ve ever seen. I’m doing that plus 1.0mm once a week. Hope it does something atleast, especially for the sides (thats the worst part for me.
 

hanginginthewire

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Sorry you are going through this. Maybe a new treatment will come along?

I know you don’t like hearing it - which I understand - but it does look like the buzz suits you.
 

Alphalete

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A hairpiece might be a good option for you, if you keep your sides short with a hairpiece on top it could look very good
 

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If finasteride has stabilized your hair loss and you no longer are losing hair rapidly, consider getting a hair transplant, it can potentially change your life.
 

Alphalete

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If finasteride has stabilized your hair loss and you no longer are losing hair rapidly, consider getting a hair transplant, it can potentially change your life.

''Oh and also, I’ve gone to a few consultations for a hair transplant, and all said that my sides are too thin. I hate to admit it but I left the last one almost in tears.''
 

doyle11

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That really sucks. Your hair looks like it's been attacked by moths, the sides are pretty decimated.

For what it's worth I think you look good with buzzed hair. Woman will still find you attractive with that hair. I would stick with the meds to maintain though.
 

Xyz23

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wow, my pattern looked exactly like yours. even the line at the back of the head. i couldnt do anything against it, because it just got worse by time. hope you will do better than me
 

kenny-k

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Another one. Smh.

Your head shape is good in the front and lacks in sides because your neck posture is awful. Fix it.

Your hair is amazing and short does look good on you accompanied by a nice beard. Your forehead is good, the less wrinkles and corrugator muscle thickness you have the better.

Your jawline looks ok, assuming the same for your nose and cheeks.

The only awful thing in your face is your disgusting ears. Go clip them and include lobe reconstruction.

I am in the same situation as you (looks-wise blond blue eyes etc I don’t take drugs )but imagine that half of what hair you got in town is absent in me. I do have better neck, jawline and slightly better head shape in the back but my neck needs work too. We got a bit of “nerd neck” I guess you play computer games.

Should you continue the meds? If no sides, yes. Should you take estrogen? No. Should you start dermaroller? Yes. Should you stop being a crying little b**ch? Absolutely. Do your parents think you embarrass them? Absolutely not but they do think you need some therapy because you are annoying af that’s why they tell you you’re handsome and that there is nothing wrong with your head shape. In fact they tell you your head shape is amazing because you won’t stop bitching about how big and nasty it looks including your forehead. When it’s a fact it doesn’t.

Girls will go after you lad once you grow your confidence back and stop being spoiled, not your hair. Good luck.

I just have one thing to say: HUH?! What in the f*ck are you talking about?! Lol the most polarizing answer I’ve ever seen. Attacking my looks now and calling me spoiled? Never heard anyone once comment on my ears but ok...although I do agree about the neck posture, it is bad and it’s because I work in an office, NOT from playing computer games.

Also, I’ll havr you know that I am not vocal about how I feel. That’s why I come here to vent. Certainly not to get judged by some smart ***. Get a load of this guy!
 

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I just have one thing to say: HUH?! What in the f*ck are you talking about?! Lol the most polarizing answer I’ve ever seen. Attacking my looks now and calling me spoiled? Never heard anyone once comment on my ears but ok...although I do agree about the neck posture, it is bad and it’s because I work in an office, NOT from playing computer games.

Also, I’ll havr you know that I am not vocal about how I feel. That’s why I come here to vent. Certainly not to get judged by some smart ***. Get a load of this guy!

He's banned. Usually bobster's accounts make it a couple weeks before getting the banhammer but looks like he got it early this time
 
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