Outnumbered show on Fox discuss dating bald guys

[brianw]

http://video.foxnews.com/v/44143355...nks-to-celebrities/?playlist_id=3482905335001

 

[hellouser]

Here's the important exchange of words:

'Is a bald guy a deal breaker for you?, looks wise if you're looking at him?
'Whoa. No way.'
'You wouldn't... you'd still take on a bald guy?
'Yeah'
'Oh, well done.'
'No, I mean if he's confident, if he's a great guy and he's funny and...'
'Have you ever dated a bald guy?'
'No.'

First off, you put ANY woman on the spot, especially a known face on TV like Angela Tantaros and ask her a question where she may sound shallow, she is FAR more likely to give you the POLITICALLY CORRECT answer that everyone wants to hear. But what people NEED to hear is the answer she'd give behind closed door:

NO, SHE WOULD NEVER DATE A BALD GUY.

Secondly, there's that bullshit response again about 'confidence'. The only thing a bald man has to be confident about is the predictability of his inevitable REJECTION by women. Baldness isn't respected. If it wasn't a problem for women, bald men wouldn't score worse in nearly every social aspect in life (proven fact). Confidence? Fuck you... that's just a woman giving a feel good answer to make the bald guy feel like he's got a shot. It's delusional. People that say this just don't want come off as shallow.

 

[jnestor481]

I bet when she says " Yea, I would date a bald guy...", in her head she's thinking of some Bruce Willis or Michael Jordan type guy. For regular guys like us it's a disaster.

A friend of mine has very long curly hair that he is super proud of, and since I've disclosed my own hair problems he's been having a lot of anxiety. His dad is Norwood 7 and he fears it'll happen to him too. When he's drunk he talks about how horrified he is at the thought of being bald. Good to feel you're not alone. I agree with Hellhouser that we just get ****ted on by society so others can feel better about themselves. It really is disgusting behavior.

 

[shookwun]

In other words if he's handsome.


This confidence word is so over played.

 

[Agustin Araujo]

Not to seem pessimistic, though from what I've observed, this 'confidence' word has a vague term to make people who live/lived a life of adversity have them think that they can have a chance of living a good one when it's not possible for the individual. The word is overused and is tossed around too much like it will fix anything. If anything, this 'confidence' thing is perhaps one of the most useless things ever. If it could really help with everything, then no one would have a problem with anything, simple as that.

The 'confidence' nonsense isn't only applied to baldness, I've seen it myself in other situations not related to hair loss where it won't ever help at all. It's a word I myself don't even use, it's not worth it especially how useless it is in reality in general.

 

[hellouser]

Not to seem pessimistic, though from what I've observed, this 'confidence' word has a vague term to make people who live/lived a life of adversity have them think that they can have a chance of living a good one when it's not possible for the individual. The word is overused and is tossed around too much like it will fix anything. If anything, this 'confidence' thing is perhaps one of the most useless things ever. If it could really help with everything, then no one would have a problem with anything, simple as that.

The 'confidence' nonsense isn't only applied to baldness, I've seen it myself in other situations not related to hair loss where it won't ever help at all. It's a word I myself don't even use, it's not worth it especially how useless it is in reality in general.

It's the same bullshit as someone telling you to 'be positive' when hoping for favourable outcomes during a hard time. Ie;

'I've been diagnosed with cancer.'
'Don't worry, just be positive.'

 

[shookwun]

Confidence only matters with making an actual approach, meaning 'hello', and letting your attraction go from there. So in essence confidence in itself has nothing to do with attraction.

So if you're attractive to the opposite sex, what a women means by attraction is making an approach and introducing yorself.

Its a result of being attractive and sucessful with women. In other words be attractive, but they replace that with confidence to make personality seem relevant in their desire.

Sucks a stupid ****ing word. U can't **** someone's 'confidence'. Just say I'm looking for a hunky full head.

 

[Agustin Araujo]

It's the same bullshit as someone telling you to 'be positive' when hoping for favourable outcomes during a hard time. Ie;

'I've been diagnosed with cancer.'
'Don't worry, just be positive.'

If I remember correctly, FredTheBelgian one time told that one of his cousins got Alopecia Areata. They kept themselves in their bedroom for an entire year, not wanting to go out to do anything, until it went away. When it went away, they said that the problem was fixed because of being positive.

Pretty ridiculous, isn't it?

 

[shookwun]

Reminds me of being a balding teenager and my dad gives me a book on cognitive behavior therapy. Right because positive reinforcement is going to make me confident in myself and give me a full head of hair.

Some people are so ****ing Dellusional, that is until they are faced with reality in their face. Right because I need therapy.... no I need hair.

 

[Agustin Araujo]

Reminds me of being a balding teenager and my dad gives me a book on cognitive behavior therapy. Right because positive reinforcement is going to make me confident in myself and give me a full head of hair.

Some people are so ****ing Dellusional, that is until they are faced with reality in their face. Right because I need therapy.... no I need hair.

It's like when people compare hair loss and graying hair with age. Does it make you look older? Yes; however, they are two completely separate unrelated things.

Same with the whole confidence and behavior therapy. It won't ever help when that's not the problem. Some people will just never understand certain problems no matter what until they're forced to deal with it themselves. All of us human beings need hair, it serves multiple useful purposes that your body needs other than for attracting a potential mate.

 

[hellouser]

If I remember correctly, FredTheBelgian one time told that one of his cousins got Alopecia Areata. They kept themselves in their bedroom for an entire year, not wanting to go out to do anything, until it went away. When it went away, they said that the problem was fixed because of being positive.

Pretty ridiculous, isn't it?

You know whats worst? Is that these people acknowledge 'positivity' working when it BENEFITS THEM. So, all the other times that it doesnt do shit (essentially all the time) they have no explanation for it.

 

[Notcoolanymore]

The guy in that clip looked totally uncomfortable. You could tell he had issues dealing with his hair loss. Finally had to go with the totally shaved look in an attempt to show that he has "manned up" and put hair loss behind him.

 

[Giiizmo]

To try and put things a little bit in perspective...

Not that I don't agree with most of what's been said in this thread but guys. Guys! It's a show on Fox News with a bunch of harpies shooting the breeze about frivolities and trying to get some bored viewers to watch their crap. I live an ocean away and even I know that that TV network is 100% spin and garbage. I doubt it's really representative of what the entire outside world thinks. Ok, most of it but still.

Besides, would you really consider dating any one of these dolled-up bimbos? Oh yeah, I'm discriminating the piss against these idiots all right.

 

[uncomfortable man]

No progress or headway made whatsoever.

 

[Notcoolanymore]

Besides, would you really consider dating any one of these dolled-up bimbos?

Oh of course not. Yuck.

 

[Wolf Pack]

Oh of course not. Yuck.

:laugh:

As ridiculous as Travolta looks with his piece (he didn't go down the subtle path), he misses out on all negative attention of being a bald guy, that's priceless to me. I felt really sorry for that bald guy present there.

 

[resu]

Confidence only matters with making an actual approach, meaning 'hello', and letting your attraction go from there. So in essence confidence in itself has nothing to do with attraction.

So if you're attractive to the opposite sex, what a women means by attraction is making an approach and introducing yorself.

Its a result of being attractive and sucessful with women. In other words be attractive, but they replace that with confidence to make personality seem relevant in their desire.

Sucks a stupid ****ing word. U can't **** someone's 'confidence'. Just say I'm looking for a hunky full head.

Yeah it's exactly that, it's just the political correct way of saying that you just need to be attractive. An ugly guy looking right into their eyes with confidence will just make them feel uncomfortable.

Also they all would date bald guys easily, as long as they're black, when it comes to white guys they're a lot more demanding.

 

[swingline747]

One of my ex-coworkers is my age and has a god-like NW1 and I thought "damn that hair looks great!"

I saw a picture of him and his family on Facebook the other day: his father is a NW7.

The transition is going to be hard for him.

He might skate by at this point. My brother is Norwood"-12" and my idiot old man is like NW13

 

[alphamale]

Confidence only matters with making an actual approach, meaning 'hello', and letting your attraction go from there. So in essence confidence in itself has nothing to do with attraction.

So if you're attractive to the opposite sex, what a women means by attraction is making an approach and introducing yorself.

Its a result of being attractive and sucessful with women. In other words be attractive, but they replace that with confidence to make personality seem relevant in their desire.

Sucks a stupid ****ing word. U can't **** someone's 'confidence'. Just say I'm looking for a hunky full head.

This is true.

They will give men they find attractive eye-contact, and give them the "green-light" to approach them.

The confidence is in initiating contact / having balls to approach, and capitalizing on these opportunities.

Physical attractiveness + confidence (being aware of your above-average sex appeal, and acting accordingly) = legit

Lack of PA + confidence = Alot of negative feedback, frustration, and hitting your head against the wall.

^ That is the cold hard truth.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bmav517MQJc

Watch this homeless guy who ****s 3-5 girls a week.

Is it confidence? Can the average-joe replicate this? No.
But a guy who is in the top % of genetic desirability can

Just look at their facial expression just by being approached by a man they find sexually attractive.

Smiling, and touching her hair.

 

[resu]

When women like some guy they usually do the "bedroom eyes" and tilt their head's slightly as a sign of approval, I bet they're not even aware of doing this.