People Don't Care About Your Hair. Own It.

[shookwun]

youre right, they dont care about it. they see you as unattractive, and go about there day.

 

[abcdefg]

I think being bald or any noticeable hair loss just makes someone look more unhealthy, and older in general. Id argue its just that so if you can accept looking older, and more unhealthy then id say sure go ahead and live with that.
Saying your opinion though shouldnt mean every guy on earth has to give up on wanting their hair.

 

[kj6723]

youre right, they dont care about it. they see you as unattractive, and go about there day.

This lol

Of course they don't "CARE". In the same sense you don't care about whether or not that random person you saw is unattractive.

Now do you want to sleep with that person? or find some way to include them in the interesting activities of your life? That's the issue at hand, not whether or not randos are pondering your norwood on their sparetime

 

[MorningGlory]

One thing I've learned is the world is self absorbed. People are so worried about what they look like, they don't even notice what you look like.

Perfect example. I had to give a speech at my job and I was thinking about how I would deliver my lines, and how I would tie in my opening statement to my closing statement etc... After about a five to ten minute presentation I concluded.

Later that day my supervisor said, "I was so nervous people were going to notice my toupee wasn't right. I couldn't get it right." He talks to me about his hairpiece because I'm bald I guess.

Anyway, I didn't even notice the part was slightly different than the day before. Nobody noticed or cared. People were worried about their 'facebook status" and their "Make up" or their "Clothes" or their 'weight" etc... We don't even pay attention to people anymore.

The key to happiness is loving yourself and finding ONE person who loves you back. There are people with 2 inch penises, or weigh 450 lbs, or have burn scars, or have ape hairy backs, or women who are balding, or women who have no breast tissue, and even women with 3 inch clitoris.

I know how hard it is to accept going bald. I shared my story on the other board about 'My Story". However, I think it's more of an adjustment. Grab life by the balls, wrestle that son of a b**ch to it's knees and make it submit. Own your sh*t.

I get it, you don't want to be the 'bald' version of yourself. You don't want to accept it, or 'own' it. You don't get to choose if you are over 6 feet tall do you? Do you get to choose if you have shitty skin with acne? Do you get to choose whether or not you have a big penis or a small penis?

The key is to have the confidence in yourself and be happy with yourself. Then someone. I guarantee SOMEONE will think you're worth being with.

You’re a f*****g bellend and a liar. If you’re happy being a bald c*** you don’t need to be on this forum. You’re not getting any “pussy”, you almost certainly live with your parents, and your spare time is spent coping in gyms. Just logout and hang yourself.

P.S. You removed your profile picture because you’re insecure. Wanker.

 

[shookwun]

You’re a f*****g bellend and a liar. If you’re happy being a bald c*** you don’t need to be on this forum. You’re not getting any “pussy”, you almost certainly live with your parents, and your spare time is spent coping in gyms. Just logout and hang yourself.

P.S. You removed your profile picture because you’re insecure. Wanker.

Sometimes ignorance is bliss.

When you never get laid, you don't know what you are missing out on. Seeing as it was never present to begin with.

it's like guys who are NEET saying money doesn't matter bro! Well, how could they know when they have never been from 0 to 100 then back to 0 all over again.


Men who have normal lives, which would include working for a living, having relationships and friends will only understand the true pain when there life starts to go backwards.

 

[sander_r]

You’re a f*****g bellend and a liar. If you’re happy being a bald c*** you don’t need to be on this forum. You’re not getting any “pussy”, you almost certainly live with your parents, and your spare time is spent coping in gyms. Just logout and hang yourself.

P.S. You removed your profile picture because you’re insecure. Wanker.

Wtf are you even saying? Are you 12? Is that how your parents thought you how to act towards other people?

The reason you’re not getting any “pussy” is probably your psycho behaviour.
Who woule even say “hang yourself” to other people? You make me sick.

Need me to make a list how many succesfol businessman, dj’s, actors, entrepreneurs, musicians, .. are bald? Would that help you to be better in your own skin instead of making this fucked up remarks and ininuations towards others?

You need help, and not for your hairloss but a psychiatrist

 

[MorningGlory]

Wtf are you even saying? Are you 12? Is that how your parents thought you how to act towards other people?

The reason you’re not getting any “pussy” is probably your psycho behaviour.
Who woule even say “hang yourself” to other people? You make me sick.

Need me to make a list how many succesfol businessman, dj’s, actors, entrepreneurs, musicians, .. are bald? Would that help you to be better in your own skin instead of making this fucked up remarks and ininuations towards others?

You need help, and not for your hairloss but a psychiatrist

It was an unduly harsh comment, I agree. But it wasn’t meant literally. I’m just tired of this cope artist trying to convince us he’s happy bald. This is not a bald pride site, we don’t need his self-serving motivational speeches.

 

[michel sapin]

this is the exact issue ; nobody notice you , you are just an average dude
and the transition is just horrible when you used to get compliment on your physic

 

[Statto]

It was an unduly harsh comment, I agree. But it wasn’t meant literally. I’m just tired of this cope artist trying to convince us he’s happy bald. This is not a bald pride site, we don’t need his self-serving motivational speeches.

You’re absolutely right. I get a bit fed up of these people who try to convince you that hair loss is an acceptable thing. I’m going to be using hair loss products until the day I cease to exist. Why wouldn’t I? I didn’t ask for these shitty genes. Why would i accept them?

 

[Xyz23]

You gotta accept the hairloss but not the baldness. you have to accept (someday) that yo hair is falling out. HOW you handle your baldness (wig,transplant) is up to you

 

[MorningGlory]

I highly recommend the Regenepure DR and NT combo. It’s expensive for shampoo but the quality is outstanding. The DR dried my hair initially and I experienced a shed, but my hair quality is improving by the day.

I’ve been on finasteride since May last year and have experienced no serious sides. I intend to add Regaine to my regimen in May, although I may push it back six months if I continue to make progress.

I’m “owning” my hairloss by doing something about it, rather than rolling over and accepting it like a cuck.

 

[Zoro]

The key to happiness is loving yourself and finding ONE person who loves you back. There are people with 2 inch penises, or weigh 450 lbs, or have burn scars, or have ape hairy backs, or women who are balding, or women who have no breast tissue, and even women with 3 inch clitoris.

So basically you're not allowed to be upset about hair loss just because people have some worse deformities? You want to go tell burn victims "oh it could be worse, at least you're not an ISIS POW who's being tortured, just be confident bro"

I get it, you don't want to be the 'bald' version of yourself. You don't want to accept it, or 'own' it. You don't get to choose if you are over 6 feet tall do you? Do you get to choose if you have shitty skin with acne?

No, but hairloss can be compared to being 6 feet tall then slowly losing your height until you're 4.5 feet tall. I'm 6 feet tall and I'd give up a few inches of height for even a thick NW2. Also acne is curable, so yes you get to choose if you want to have sh*t skin and not fix it, i guess.