Poor guy will be in for quite a surprise.. Delusional baldcels.

[hellouser]

Honestly (at least in the US anyway) if prostitution was legal, women would drop this attitude FAST because most guys would tell these women to screw off and just see a hooker to get their rocks off then put their time into more constructive areas. Legal Prostitution in the states would probably cure many ills... but we just cant see the light here.

Prostitution in Canada (and I'd imagine in USA too) is very frowned upon. If anyone finds out about a guy going to get laid from a prostitute it's seen as pathetic, dirty and sleazy.

Does this same attitude exist elsewhere in the world? I'd imagine its more or less the same.

 

[bald29]

lol, i think you're cherry picking those comments ridiculously, the overwhelming majority are in support for the boyfriend and disgust for the shallow girl.

hmmm I don't think you really understood. They are in support for the boyfriend, because they have a relationship already. But most seem to agree with not starting relationships with bald guys. You will see many comments such as:

I don't think there is anything wrong with not wanting to date someone who is balding. Guys refuse to date women for just as shallow of reasons.
I do think it's kind messed up if you dated a guy before he started balding and everything was good, but now that he's losing his hair you're not attracted to him anymore and are thinking about dumping him. That's cold.

Basically:
- If you are bald, that's a huge negative factor, which is really hard to compensate for (e.g the girl who put in the balance a receeding hairline on one side, and a number of amazing qualities on the other, and she doesn't know what to do).
- If you are already in a relationship, and start balding, that shouldn't be an issue, but it will still add to your negative points.

And that thread is just an example, you may go outside yourself and experience it first hand. And it's not about venting, it's about not being in denial. They are telling that poor guy to just shave it off, and we all know that guy shaved probably can't even get a hooker to have sex with him.

Prostitution in Canada (and I'd imagine in USA too) is very frowned upon. If anyone finds out about a guy going to get laid from a prostitute it's seen as pathetic, dirty and sleazy.
Does this same attitude exist elsewhere in the world? I'd imagine its more or less the same

Here in my country (in Europe), it's legal, and it's frowned upon a bit, generally by women. Contrary to swingline's theory, the legalization of prostitution doesn't have any effect on how women behave, as they don't see prostitutes as competition --which makes sense to me--.

 

[swingline747]

Here in my country (in Europe), it's legal, and it's frowned upon a bit, generally by women. Contrary to swingline's theory, the legalization of prostitution doesn't have any effect on how women behave, as they don't see prostitutes as competition --which makes sense to me--.

thats only because cocky, loudmouth, boisterous, un-emabarrass-able Americans such as myself havent gotten in on it.

 

[bald29]

thats only because cocky, loudmouth, boisterous, un-emabarrass-able Americans such as myself havent gotten in on it.

That's a good point

 

[Another]

Unfortunately, prostitution is not gonna solve the problem of all men. Some men rarely have courage enough to talk to people, let alone bargaining about the rate or facing a robbery up in the apartments of pros. But, it does solve the purpose of keeping families together. At least, I mostly see middle aged men pulling over when I'm cruising around to get one. So, I assume they're married, but not getting any at home or simply just bored of their wives.

 

[CaptainForehead]

Of course people will make fun of you if they know about it, telling you it's so pathetic to pay for sex, while they've just payed a 40€ a meal fancy restaurant for their girlfriend.

And they can't even see the irony.

Yeah, all guys pay for sex in one form or another. Do your friends know about you visiting escorts?


Health risk is the main concern I have with them (and with any casual hookup)

 

[swingline747]

Yes my friends know.

The truth is, you will have way less chance of catching a STD with an escort than with a "regular" girl.

In my experience, they are usually very careful about hygiene and will sometimes use more than one condom for a session.

I agree and disagree with your comment.
Yes most would be much more careful where as a girl in a bar you hook up with, WHO KNOWS really.
In the end its a shot in the dark really.

BUT

Never use 2 condoms at once it actually raises the chances of breakage. If you ever see one doing this make sure she knows its bad practice. Unless you're saying for some odd reason they change the condom out half way into the session. That would just be weird!

 

[CaptainForehead]

I doubt this situation will ever arise for me, but what do you do when you meet a "regular" girl and things get heavy? Ask her when she last had an STD test?

BTW, do your friends also visit escorts Fred?

 

[swingline747]

just get tested regularly its not a huge deal to do. I have to get blood work run occassionally for reasons and I throw the STD ones in there still even though Im with my GF.

I used to get STD checked all the time when I was single.

 

[CaptainForehead]

What about oral?

 

[swingline747]

What about oral?

I really dont think weve known you long enough Captain, nor do I think this is the forum to ask for that?

 

[CaptainForehead]

Funny. It was directed at Fred. You ninja'd me when I posted that.

 

[VeprSuper]

Cap'n, your best bet is to get to know the girl as best you can before sex. I know that's a drag sometimes but it's served me well. Take it from an old dude that managed to dodge std's for 28 years now. If there is any doubt, either walk away or wrap it up.

 

[CaptainForehead]

How about giving oral to the girl? What do you wrap?

 

[swingline747]

How about giving oral to the girl? What do you wrap?

With an escort???? You dont! Why would you, she should be paying you then and YES you can catch something that way.
If you REALLY must bring some cellophane wrap with you and work through that.

 

[JZA70]

Went from a hair thread to a sex thread.

 

[swingline747]

Went from a hair thread to a sex thread.

more interesting this way

 

[VeprSuper]

I have no idea why you would want to but Swingline speaks truth on the cellophane.

 

[Scalpology]

Good job on the black guys side eliminating competition by encouraging baldness.

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Good job on the black guys side eliminating competition by encouraging baldness.

 

[uncomfortable man]

Didn't think of it that way. I do remember hearing a black comics take on bald white guys. Black guys can pull it off, white guys can't was the point of his whole unfunny bit.