saturday night and staying in

[antonio666]

it,s saturday night and i am here on my laptop,watching sh*t t.v,smoking my head off 40 a day,used to be 10 at the most until this shitty hairloss.
up until 6 months ago used to go out boozing fri,sat,sun now am to embarrased to go out.The only time i go out the house is to work and that takes a lot of soul searching,it's not to much to expect to keep your hair until your 35 is it,well i'm totally fucked off with life,f*** me my dad is 32 years older than me and has better hair than me.

I think it's worse to be good looking and lose your hair because you hear people saying he'd be really good looking if his hair did not look like sh*t.

any way need another f**,hopefully that habit will kill me fast

 

[dietcola]

good luck!

 

[DammitLetMeIn]

What? You are 35? You'd be the old guy at the club anyways. Quit bitching, you prolly did it to yourself with your lifestyle.

bwahahahaha

 

[antonio666]

no i am 27, just want hair til i'm35

 

[DammitLetMeIn]

no i am 27, just want hair til i'm35

lol, why 35? why not 34?

 

[Aplunk1]

All of you guys think this is funny?

WTF is wrong with some of you guys. The guy is obviously reaching out.

Douchebags.

 

[DammitLetMeIn]

All of you guys think this is funny?

WTF is wrong with some of you guys. The guy is obviously reaching out.

Douchebags.

I'm gonna laugh if I find something funny. Marcules was so abruptly rude, it was funny. But seriously though, the guy Antonio needs to try to get a grip and take hold of his life. Get out there, join a gym, just keep moving no matter what.

Sittin online smoking does no good.

 

[hair_tomorrow]

antonio - don't make it worse than it already is. hairloss sucks, that's something we can all agree - but yas gots to live your life. Put down the cigs, at least go out and rent a cool DVD, and if you want to go out later for a cold one - GO! Screw your hair. It might look worse in 10 years - so shake your bangs while you still got some.

And lighten the fu8k up brother

 

[dietcola]

alright i will offer some more insight that my previous post.

you are your own worst enemy in this case. your letting yourself feel like a tormented victim of life. the only advice anyone can give you that will help is "lighten up". stop being hard on yourself.

life isn't going to make itself great for you.

you can sit around and play the degenerate if you want, but i'll tell you right now it's an unhappy road to ride on.

consider buying some hats if you're so scared of ppl seeing your thinning, then go out and have fun.

 

[Nickie]

let me tell you something RIGHT NOW ANTONIO! AND YOU LISTEN UP GOOD! :evil: :evil: :evil: :evil:

I have asthma, hard time breathing, i used to smoke. i quit. still got it. I'm also receeding. And I don't want to hear you b(TCH about destroying yourself with cigarettes, because eventually you'll have to pay for cancer treatment, or even if u dont get cancer, SOMETHING will sure give. ANd then you'll have to deal with HBP and other things that you'll be paying out of ur a** for

Guess what?

YOU ARE A BRAINWASHED LUNATIC! You smoke too damn much, and you know what, MANY guys out there don't have great hairlines. Guess what? It doesn't matter unless you're a famous actor, or a p**rn star. Of which I guess you are neither, and your "666" next to your name is either purely coincidental, or just shows that you are a P U N K.

Get the hell over it, and go get some THERAPY instead of coming here and whining, and destroying your life just becuase of ur worthless hair, of which 90% or more of society doesn't give a Sh(t about anyways since people are too busy working, trying to learn useful things, getting ahead, paying bills, property taxes, and spending time doing REAL things.

People like YOU are the problem, who buy into society's shallowness and let it dictate their lives.o

Same goes to many people on this forum.

YOu should be ashamed of yourself. 27, and still as self conscious about some things as a 13 year old. You should have learned better coping mechanisms by your age.

FOR SHAME dude.

People like you make me want to eat sh(t and puke.

Your stupid mind is creating most if not all of your problems.

I don't blame you for feeling sorry for yourself to a degree, but you are by far taking it to a huge extreme.

As are many people on this website.

 

[Knendell]

I am 29 and fear clubs but sportbars are cool. I am always selfconscious but when I get there there are alot of balding guys and shaved heads and ti lightens me up. Its also darker and you can always wear a hat. Just force yourself to go out and don't put pressure on yourself about meeting chicks, just go to get out. Its hard as hell sometimes but I always feel better during and afterwards.
BTW, its easier to meet people if youare by yourself. Its less intimidating to others and you can chose to sit next to anyone you want to meet.

 

[Nickie]

I have gone to countless of clubs, bars, and even hung out at places where a few celebrities have gone to. I"m a pretty good looking guy, some have called me hot. not bragging.

All it takes is confidence. You can do anything you put your mind to, and this Antonio devil dude, is chain smoking his life away, and its pissing me off.

Guys, seriously, PROZAC goes a much LONGER way , much more than marlboro or parliament.

My god, GO SHOPPING! go to the mall! go tanning, go work out,..do something else to ehnance your looks. YOUR HAIR IS NOT THE END ALL YOU STUPID IDIOT.

GIRLS judge you on MUCH more, like your income, what you do, your personality, your car, clothes, family, lifestyle, everything.

You strike me as the type that you'd rather be a homeless bum than be bald.

get a freaking life. you are LAME

 

[antonio666]

To 60097, thanks for the kind words,

to nickie,who the f*** are you to tell me how to live my life.

you say thay your not bothered about your hairline WTF are you doing on this forum then

 

[DammitLetMeIn]

I am 29 and fear clubs but sportbars are cool. I am always selfconscious but when I get there there are alot of balding guys and shaved heads and ti lightens me up. Its also darker and you can always wear a hat. Just force yourself to go out and don't put pressure on yourself about meeting chicks, just go to get out. Its hard as hell sometimes but I always feel better during and afterwards.
BTW, its easier to meet people if youare by yourself. Its less intimidating to others and you can chose to sit next to anyone you want to meet.

Do you think there is a connection between sports and baldness? or are these just regular guys ina bar?

 

[Thinneritgoes!]

Nickie... you seem a little sensitive to this area..
you're going crazy on this guy. Leave him alone.. losing your hair sucks.
He will get used to it.

Offer words of advice... don't be offensive

 

[dietcola]

im on the fence here. we should reassure each other but that only goes so far. if antonio doesn't want to take our advice then he should stop attention whoring.

 

[SkylineGTR]

He needs to stop crying on the forums here looking for pity. We get it already. This isn't a therapy forum and we aren't therapists.
There are people worse off then you here and in life.
Grow the hell up.

I can get if you have a problem and need a little help or advice but he's gone past that point to just whining and bitching because he hates his life.

 

[Nickie]

thank you Skyline.

Amen. Couldn't have said it better myself.

OH and as to your question, who the f*** am i?

Just another citizen of the US using my freedom of speech rights, thats all. I don't hate you. I don't know you. I just think you act like a really big baby, in times of distress and war, and when there are other problems to worry about.

If you went to the oval office and spoke to the whole country and said "I chainsmoke 40 cigs a day, because I'm a Norwood 3-4," or whatever you are, you'd be the most hated laughingstock of the country.

You just seem like a weak person, that's all.

And you need therapy.

Don't believe me? Think I'm full of it?

LOL! I've witnessed a kid I love to death, go to his doctor, and broke down in tears begging for a prescription for propecia and some other solutions for his hair loss.

The doctor and the staff looked at him in disbelief as he was barely a NW1, treated him like a crazy person, offered him a prescription for Paxil and referred him to a therapist. I was embarassed to be his friend.

We went out, I had a great time, got hit on, people loved me, and he was embarassed to be seen with me because I had slowly receeding hair, which NO ONE but him noticed.

What I'm saying is, people like you are mental, and MOST LIKELY blow things out of proportion and make them out to be much worse than they probably are in all reality, and you're the type that would make a mountain out of a mole hill.

It's sad, and despicable, that's all.

Not saying you're a bad guy or how to lead your life, but if you're going to publicly post about it,

expect some opinions.

Beleve me dude, ur attitude towards it sucks, and if you made your rants and whining even more public, I'm sure you wouldn't get much sympathy either.

Hair loss sucks, but it should not rule your life.

Thank you.

Oh and as far as my hairline and what I'm doing on this forum, I recognize that hair loss is a condition, that can at least be treated, and I'm here to make educated choices on treating it.

I'm NOT going mental, freaking out about it, whining, or affected by it to the degree that you are.

I take REAL medical problems far more seriously.

I APOLOGIZE for going off on you and do NOT mean to be offensive, but that's just how strongly I feel about my opinion.

Hair loss isn't THAT serious. (unless you're a A list actor or public figure, and your career depends on it).

Even then, you shouldn't go crazy.


I'm sorry but I just see you as a weak character.

I'd react the same over other weak characters, even celebrity figures, like Courtney Love. It's only natural to react negatively to people who dish out crappola.

Only other psycho cases, brainwashed people, or worry-warts would totally agree with you.

 

[DammitLetMeIn]

LOL! I've witnessed a kid I love to death, go to his doctor, and broke down in tears begging for a prescription for propecia and some other solutions for his hair loss.

The doctor and the staff looked at him in disbelief as he was barely a NW1, treated him like a crazy person, offered him a prescription for Paxil and referred him to a therapist. I was embarassed to be his friend.

We went out, I had a great time, got hit on, people loved me, and he was embarassed to be seen with me because I had slowly receeding hair, which NO ONE but him noticed.

How come you hang with this kid at all?

 

[SkylineGTR]

and he wonders why he is alone chainsmoking.

Because people in the real world don't want your crap. they want to live their lives and not be burdened by someone else problems.
It isn't a problem unless YOU MAKE IT A PROBLEM. Because frankly i doubt they even care.
Ugly girls/guys go out and shake their sh*t and still get laid. Bald guys get girls and have fun and live life also.

Personality overcomes looks and if your too concerned about your appearance that it rules your life you need more help then anyone can give you here so stop crying about it on this forum.

But i bet that you do blow up something that really is insignificant. I was a NW5 living life and still getting girls and having fun. Granted i have a g/f now I still have fun and live life and it ISN'T BECAUSE OF MY HAIR.

Your hair doesn't dictate your life or how you live it or what fun you can have or even the girls you can get. Your attitude does. Too many retards here don't seem to get that. Girls thrive on confidence and manliness not pussified crying and depression.

Wonder why SNL has that skit "Debbie Downer"? Nobody wants to be around someone like that....