Should Balding people get disability benefit?

[uncomfortable man]

Baldism is one of those delicate social gray areas that either nobody wants to admit or take seriously. Most would respond like Dannyboy, "Oh your bald and people make fun of you, boo hoo... too bad deal with it."

But for me at least, baldism and depression have a very symbiotic correlation.

 

[Quantum Cat]

you can bet if women experienced genetic alopecia it would be taken seriously

 

[DannyBoyy]

you can bet if women experienced genetic alopecia it would be taken seriously

Women do have their own version called FPB it goes different though...women go bald to.

 

[ChrisW1980uk]

Just because I am in a worse situation than you and share my poor experiences here doesn't mean I am trying to "bring you down". If anything it should make you feel grateful that you look like a sasquatch.

But on the topic of compensation, I think bald men deserve some kind. Almost anything can pass for a disability now a days if you are observant. This reminds me of a story I heard of the bald owner of a dinner serving free food for anyone who was genetically bald. That is what I call looking out for your own kind. In this case though, I doubt baldness would qualify as a disability because it would force the government to acknowledge baldism officially and that will just not ever happen.

UCMan, I wasn't referring to you when I posted that. Sorry if it came across like that, but I'm sure it's fairly obvious who I was getting at.

 

[Thom]

Thanks! Yeah, being told you look underage does definitely work against your outlook. I'm 26 and at times it makes me feel less of a man, especially when I'm getting hit on by 18 year olds but girls my age are with the "mature" looking type. It can make you feel like you get less respect too. Yeah, I really don't understand why all of the gloomy people on here don't just try to work on bettering themselves. I can be terribly pessimistic so I don't mean to come off as a regular happy guy, I just don't choose to see this as a disease.

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and by all means UM, you're not a terrible looking guy. You used to have your pic up on your profile and I thought you pulled it off way better than most people. You just looked standoffish which is probably why people avoid you. You definitely had a F--k off expression about you haha.

 

[Quantum Cat]

I look several years younger than I am. Yeah it's a bit annoying when I have to show ID, but I'd far rather that than look older than I am. Doesn't everyone want to preserve their youth?

you get hit on by 18 year olds and you don't like that?!! wtf

 

[Quadzilla99]

 

[Thom]

I look several years younger than I am. Yeah it's a bit annoying when I have to show ID, but I'd far rather that than look older than I am. Doesn't everyone want to preserve their youth?

you get hit on by 18 year olds and you don't like that?!! wtf

I'm looking for somehting fulfilling, and teenage immaturity just annoys me these days. It's flattering, don't get me wrong, just not what I'm after.

 

[ChrisW1980uk]

I wouldn't want a teenage gf either. I had a dalliance with a 20 year old when I was 30 and the gap in maturity was unreal. It's not like I'm the most mature bloke anyway!

 

[Thom]

My last girlfriend was newly 20 as well and, despite what people say, there is a difference. I'll never go back to that, it's been a wonderful 8 months since we broke off that horrible relationship. I'll say it again, better to be single and wanting than to be in an awful, miserable relationship.

 

[ChrisW1980uk]

Very true! It took me being single (by choice) to realise that!

 

[Quantum Cat]

I wouldn't want a teenage gf either. I had a dalliance with a 20 year old when I was 30 and the gap in maturity was unreal. It's not like I'm the most mature bloke anyway!

right now I'd settle for anyone, but yeah early 20 girls seem really immature to me now. It's all about looks, job prospects and money with them.

When a girl reaches her 30s I think she's more concerned about finding a guy who is dependeble, kind and would make a good father.

 

[uncomfortable man]

Yes, I know I slipped. I'm sorry hairmeans, that was offensive. My bad.

But you needn't feel so bad because it came from soul-less, sub-human thirty something zombie as myself.

You still have some life left in you. Go live it you ff-fff-f ucker.

 

[uncomfortable man]

Yeah, I shouldn't have said that to you.

Maybe there are things you have said before that you regret?

You stated yourself that your life are full of sadness, that people abuse you on the street and such

And what do I do with all that negativity? Do I shove it back it their face and start fights out on the streets? No. I eat it and swallow, internalizing it to erode my ****ing soul. So pardon me if I lash out from time to time. Can't be the bigger man all the time.

I do need a good fist fight though.

 

[ChrisW1980uk]

Let's not forget your homophobic rants BBSA before you try and milk any more apologies out of UC Man. He's been the bigger man and apologised, something you seem incapable of doing...

 

[Quantum Cat]

my theory is most of the men posting at Puahate are suppressed homosexuals

 

[Thom]

Well if they were as big and bad as they make themselves out to be they wouldn't be spending their time online.

 

[ChrisW1980uk]

Or being more bothered about what other men rate them. Or posting pictures of models etc complaining that they don't look like them. Then there is the borderline child p**rn on there too...

 

[Thom]

I had never heard of the place until you guys started mentioning it so I checked it out. If the feds want to suppress future sex crimes and acts of violence I would suggest they start looking into the individuals on that site.

I know this may be a horrible thing to suggest, but when I see their posts, or incredibly angry posts like what we've seen the past couple days, I can't help but picture someone like that monster who killed all of the people in Oslo last year. That worries me.

 

[ChrisW1980uk]

They rated him, and had a long discussion about him, Anders Brevik I think. There's some amazing threads and posts on there. I see it as a group of guys who want to rage because they can't get the women they feel they deserve, without any effort, or the personality either. It's easier for them to blame their looks than see that they are bitter toxic losers who will be crying in the future over how they wasted their youth on unrealistic expectations.