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Thanks for you analysis. I see you're making a point besides people f*****g with their libido, and when I said that there are lots of finasteride users who have an excellent libido, I wonder if this comes off as "whataboutism". I've had two hair transplants and my hair is generally very good, thank you, somewhile ago I made a post where I was asking Dr. Erdogan about a third hair transplant, but he said "there is no room to put in any more grafts" so it's not like I should reasonably resent my mirror image; I'm just microneedling to stop it from getting thinner. I'm not sure what other dissociative traits you're referring to, because I otherwise (hope this doesn't come of as too privileged) really love the way I am.You like me have dissociative traits. What happens is that you were probably very attractive when you were younger and you loved yourself. Now, you look in the mirror and you see someone else looking back that you no longer find attractive. You are then pummeled when you realize that you have latent homosexual tendencies, i.e., you don't care one way or the other but you desperately need to fall in love with yourself. This is pretty much psychology 101 but most MtF's shout down anyone stating the obvious and it's clear. XY's on puberty blockers are almost always androphilic. Older XY's are usually gynephilic:
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It's usually gay men writing such treatises related to these tendencies and it's a secret but MtF's have nothing to do with gay men unless they start young. We have zero in common with gay men who are "versatile" and they actually faintly disgust me but that's private and if they want to take turns doing each other, eh, "if it makes you happy, it can't be that badddd. If it makes you happy, why the hell are you so sad". Women cannot obsess about work like XY's. They know when they have enough "stuff" lying about the attic and basement and they like sensible cars and as they age, they need men less and less. It's not just the "men" who like to spray and go. Many women prefer that unless trying to get pregnant, they they complain if you always play racketball at 6 am when the gym is almost empty and they actually expect men to cheat but you cannot bring it home and if you like anything but XX's within four years of your age, never ever tell them. I figured, eh, it's been 20 years but no, never do not tell them because they do not understand the "hunger" that never ceases and the need to either dominate or submit. That's what the downlow is for because women don't know about the downlow at all.
You sound like a fine person; you just need your hair back to be complete.
Janey
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