So Tired Of Being Genetic Trash ( Rant)

[Baldingat188]

I'm sorry but I really need to rant right now. I could barley get motivated to get out of bed or do any work today. Comparing myself to pictures of celebrities and just looking at how bad I look. My thinning hair is a big part of that , but it's also just my face. 0 jawline , asymmetrical face and bloated cheeks. I took some pictures and videos of myself and I just sort of can't shake the feeling of wanting to kill my self knowing I will never be good looking. The fact is I will probly live an average life if I'm lucky and never do anything meaningful in the world. Being good looking truly is the best privilege.

Even though I'm not hideous (yet - once I'm bald I will be) it doesn't help anything . Even being average sets you up for a shitty life. The blessing of being attractive is worth way more than money or fame. I really need to stop looking at pictures of attractive people but I can't shake this feeling.

Accomplishments or passions even seem to mean nothing to me right now. Without the looks to back it up they are truly irevlant. Nothing like being a carefree good looking young man. I can't even enjoy certain types of "popular " music cause I'm not good looking I have to find unattractive underground artists I can relate to.

 

[DoctorHouse]

I'm sorry but I really need to rant right now. I could barley get motivated to get out of bed or do any work today. Comparing myself to pictures of celebrities and just looking at how bad I look. My thinning hair is a big part of that , but it's also just my face. 0 jawline , asymmetrical face and bloated cheeks. I took some pictures and videos of myself and I just sort of can't shake the feeling of wanting to kill my self knowing I will never be good looking. The fact is I will probly live an average life if I'm lucky and never do anything meaningful in the world. Being good looking truly is the best privilege.

Even though I'm not hideous (yet - once I'm bald I will be) it doesn't help anything . Even being average sets you up for a shitty life. The blessing of being attractive is worth way more than money or fame. I really need to stop looking at pictures of attractive people but I can't shake this feeling.

Accomplishments or passions even seem to mean nothing to me right now. Without the looks to back it up they are truly irevlant. Nothing like being a carefree good looking young man. I can't even enjoy certain types of "popular " music cause I'm not good looking I have to find unattractive underground artists I can relate to.

Be honest, do you think Bill Gates, Steve Jobs and Jeff Bezos are/were genetic trash too?

 

[Baldingat188]

Be honest, do you think Bill Gates, Steve Jobs and Jeff Bezos are/were genetic trash too?

Of course not - they are brilliant . But personally I would rather be beatiful then be the richest man in the world. That's just me though - maybe I'm narcissistic or something. And I want to be good looking for my own happiness not for dating. Dating with ease is a great perk of being good looking but at the core I just want to look in the mirror and see someone I'm happy with but maybe I'm messed up for that.

 

[DoctorHouse]

Of course not - they are brilliant . But personally I would rather be beatiful then be the richest man in the world. That's just me though - maybe I'm narcissistic or something. And I want to be good looking for my own happiness not for dating. Dating with ease is a great perk of being good looking but at the core I just want to look in the mirror and see someone I'm happy with but maybe I'm messed up for that.

I can understand your thought process. I have never truly liked what I see in the mirror and its only because I compare myself to men who are in the top tier of genetics. You need to stop comparing yourself to the same. Compare yourself to people who are at your level or worse. You will eventually change your perspective but it's fine to regress once in a while. Would you rather people respect you for you looks or for your intelligence and personality? Look at Brad Pitt. He's got the looks but why does he keep failing at marriage and get rejected by some very attractive women. Looks are not enough to be successful in life. It takes more than that.

 

[Exodus2011]

youre full head lol. considering disliking

jesus christ i was reminiscing about the days of balding last night. at least theres still goddamn hope

 

[DoctorHouse]

youre full head lol. considering disliking

jesus christ i was reminiscing about the days of balding last night. at least theres still goddamn hope

Exodus, please put me on ignore. I knew you would be triggered. I have made every effort to stay out of all your posts.

 

[Baldingat188]

youre full head lol. considering disliking

jesus christ i was reminiscing about the days of balding last night. at least theres still goddamn hope

It's not even that man. I mean in respect to a bald forum sure my hair is good. But to the general population of people my age it's not at all. I'm forced to wear this weird combover style and even then something will always look "off" about it.

But just knowing I will never be attractive with hair or without is depressing. I would be a lot happier if I was like a 7 or 8/10 and not balding. My life would literally be 10 times better.

 

[Exodus2011]

Exodus, please put me on ignore. I knew you would be triggered. I have made every effort to stay out of all your posts.

i was referring to baldingat18

at least you dont refer to yourself as genetic trash, even though youre a full head too who supposedly looks good as well. and then you try to give advice on looks and sh*t. lol man you have absolutely negative authority to give advice on that stuff. assuming youre as attractive as you say you are

 

[Exodus2011]

It's not even that man. I mean in respect to a bald forum sure my hair is good. But to the general population of people my age it's not at all. I'm forced to wear this weird combover style and even then something will always look "off" about it.

But just knowing I will never be attractive with hair or without is depressing. I would be a lot happier if I was like a 7 or 8/10 and not balding. My life would literally be 10 times better.

can you just post or send a pic? i cant say anything until i see a better pic of your hair

but you were full head as f*** based on the last pic i saw

 

[shookwun]

Its such a desirable feeling when you walk passed a hot chick in the club and you both stare at each other, and exchange a smile.


Approach me already, she's thinking.


OP, get a hair transplant... Wear a wig...... Aesthetic surgery?

Looks max.


However, we are facing a new epidemic of weak men who have no dominance who think they are ugly.... bad cases of BDD. never approach women, and have predetermined mindsets that they have nothing to offer this world. WHich you most likely fall under.

 

[DoctorHouse]

i was referring to baldingat18

at least you dont refer to yourself as genetic trash, even though youre a full head too who supposedly looks good as well. and then you try to give advice on looks and sh*t. lol man you have absolutely negative authority to give advice on that stuff. assuming youre as attractive as you say you are

Sorry, you never addressed who you directed your post to so I thought since it was after mine it was to me. I realized after I wrote it you might be addressing the OP but I don't know his situation or what he looks like. I thought @davesmith420 confirmed he was a chad or I have him mixed up with someone else with a similar name. @shookwun @Wolf Pack @sunchyme1 and @davesmith420 have full authority so I will agree with you.

 

[Baldingat188]

can you just post or send a pic? i cant say anything until i see a better pic of your hair

but you were full head as f*** based on the last pic i saw

You have to realize that " full head as f***" to a bald forum is one thing , to the population it's not.

Yes my hair looks decent atm. If you aren't a Norwood spotter you wouldn't even know I am balding. That being said , it affects my mindset and it also forces me to have a weird hairstyle. Even if people can't tell that I'm balding they can still tell my hair looks crappy.

It's not even necessarily about being ugly. I'm not even super ugly or anything it's just the fact of not being attractive that gets me down. Being average isn't even that much better then being ugly. Only good looking attractive people truly can be fully happy with themselves.

 

[Exodus2011]

Sorry, you never addressed who you directed your post to so I thought since it was after mine it was to me. I realized after I wrote it you might be addressing the OP but I don't know his situation or what he looks like. I thought @davesmith420 confirmed he was a chad or I have him mixed up with someone else with a similar name. @shookwun @Wolf Pack @sunchyme1 and @davesmith420 have full authority so I will agree with you.

op is full head beta face

me before i lost my hair

just f*****g lol at how im inferior no matter where i go.

4chan and reddit cucks? nope, they at least have hair

bald men? nope, theyre at least more manly than me

 

[Exodus2011]

You have to realize that " full head as f***" to a bald forum is one thing , to the population it's not.

Yes my hair looks decent atm. If you aren't a Norwood spotter you wouldn't even know I am balding. That being said , it affects my mindset and it also forces me to have a weird hairstyle. Even if people can't tell that I'm balding they can still tell my hair looks crappy.

It's not even necessarily about being ugly. I'm not even super ugly or anything it's just the fact of not being attractive that gets me down. Being average isn't even that much better then being ugly. Only good looking attractive people truly can be fully happy with themselves.

"wouldnt even know youre balding"

thats what matters. this is such a non issue

 

[sunchyme1]

@Baldingat188 lets see a pic man

crop out your face

 

[Baldingat188]

@Baldingat188 lets see a pic man

crop out your face

Of my hair? I've posted my hair pictures before here a lot , I'm in the relatively early stages of diffusing and I have a combover

The more serious issue is what exodus mentioned - I am beta face. I will never get to feel the privilege of being handsome. This works double against you when you are bald because beta face guys need hair where as alpha dudes can get away with a buzz cut or no hair more often.

 

[sunchyme1]

just because you have a beta face doesnt make you not handsome. but you need hair to keep it that way

but if you arent a handsome guy in anyway then sh*t man i dont know what to say. just bad luck man. just looks max as best as you can, save your hair as best as you and just deal with it man.

you could be a burn victim or a one armed dwarf or some sh*t. always someone worse than you out there

 

[Baldingat188]

also op have you considered plastic surgery? if you truly feel being more attractive would make you happier then you should consider it.

I've considered it but I feel like I will need to save my money for a hair transplant. But yea I would definitely do plastic surgery although I'm not sure what I would get done because my problems are stuff like my face doesn't have enough definition and my mouth and eyes are asymmetrical- rather than something simple like a nose job.

If plastic surgery could turn me from an average white guy to a 7/10 hell yes I would be all over it.

 

[Exodus2011]

Of my hair? I've posted my hair pictures before here a lot , I'm in the relatively early stages of diffusing and I have a combover

The more serious issue is what exodus mentioned - I am beta face. I will never get to feel the privilege of being handsome. This works double against you when you are bald because beta face guys need hair where as alpha dudes can get away with a buzz cut or no hair more often.

youve had "early diffuse thinning" forever now

lol just stop worrying about it it hasnt even been confirmed yet

 

[Calchas]

I'm sorry but I really need to rant right now. I could barley get motivated to get out of bed or do any work today. Comparing myself to pictures of celebrities and just looking at how bad I look. My thinning hair is a big part of that , but it's also just my face. 0 jawline , asymmetrical face and bloated cheeks. I took some pictures and videos of myself and I just sort of can't shake the feeling of wanting to kill my self knowing I will never be good looking. The fact is I will probly live an average life if I'm lucky and never do anything meaningful in the world. Being good looking truly is the best privilege.

Even though I'm not hideous (yet - once I'm bald I will be) it doesn't help anything . Even being average sets you up for a shitty life. The blessing of being attractive is worth way more than money or fame. I really need to stop looking at pictures of attractive people but I can't shake this feeling.

Accomplishments or passions even seem to mean nothing to me right now. Without the looks to back it up they are truly irevlant. Nothing like being a carefree good looking young man. I can't even enjoy certain types of "popular " music cause I'm not good looking I have to find unattractive underground artists I can relate to.

Being insecure is worse than being unattractive.