So you think you have it bad?

kaos

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Would you want to marry a woman that loves you only because you have a head full of hair? I have to say it may help at first attracting the opposit sexe but in the end if she can't accept you for what you are then you should be lucky that you never had a relation with someone that shallow.

If I may suggest you something is to start working out/exercise, get in shape and your confidence will go up in no time.
 

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VWdude said:
he likes posing infront of the mirror and says sh*t to try to make me jealous like "my follicles are all flourishing in glory"

No offense to you but your little bro sounds like a real fruit LoL

What kind of guy says "my follicles are all flourishing in glory"?!?!?!
 

kaos

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VWdude said:
he likes posing infront of the mirror and says sh*t to try to make me jealous like "my follicles are all flourishing in glory" and it makes me feel like crap

Just tell him Homer Simpson style "Baldness is hereditary"
 

gonna_win

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Buddy it seem's like your in a hole. You had better get yourself out and on track or you will waste what time you have left.


STOP WASTING TIME! GET OUT AND GET MOVING!
 

Chakotay

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hey :) newbie here and i got a full head of hair but thats just it ..... its only hair just look at captain jean luc picard of the starship enterprise lol he is bauld and hes got a great life :p hope that helps and heres a tip if u are going bauld its best to shave it all off and go skin head ! its better looking and some girls go more for that look

anyway cya :)
 

jfhawk06

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those sort of posts are condescending and quite honestly a direct insult to the intelligence of the people on these boards. for future reference, don't make your first post a jumbled mess of sh*t.
 

VWdude

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He keeps telling me that he will never go bald....... and I said that when i was 16 too!
 
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socks said:
VWdude said:
he likes posing infront of the mirror and says sh*t to try to make me jealous like "my follicles are all flourishing in glory"


What kind of guy says "my follicles are all flourishing in glory"?!?!?!

The kind of guy that's kisses men in dark underground nightclubs
 

VWdude

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neiltom88 said:
socks said:
VWdude said:
he likes posing infront of the mirror and says sh*t to try to make me jealous like "my follicles are all flourishing in glory"


What kind of guy says "my follicles are all flourishing in glory"?!?!?!

The kind of guy that's kisses men in dark underground nightclubs


AHAHAHAH i wouldn't be too surprised!
 

Jay Tee

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kamui said:
Seriously, nobody should suffer from hairloss. I see losing my hair is the same as losing a nose, an eye, or my lips.

I have to disagree. Losing a nose or an eye is nothing compaired to losing your hair. Losing a nose means no more sense of smell. Losing an eye means no more vision. Losing your hair means losing your hair. You might look different, but you should still be able to live a normal life (although it takes adjusting to). If I was in a position where I was forced to choose between losing my hair and losing an eye, guess which one I'm picking?
 

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Jay Tee said:
kamui said:
Seriously, nobody should suffer from hairloss. I see losing my hair is the same as losing a nose, an eye, or my lips.

I have to disagree. Losing a nose or an eye is nothing compaired to losing your hair. Losing a nose means no more sense of smell. Losing an eye means no more vision. Losing your hair means losing your hair. You might look different, but you should still be able to live a normal life (although it takes adjusting to). If I was in a position where I was forced to choose between losing my hair and losing an eye, guess which one I'm picking?

Eye?

D.
 

Trent

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i would rather have someone pluck out all my pubic hair with a pair of tweezers everynight, than lose my hair. but losing a nose? or an eye? come on.
 

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Jay Tee said:
kamui said:
Seriously, nobody should suffer from hairloss. I see losing my hair is the same as losing a nose, an eye, or my lips.

I have to disagree. Losing a nose or an eye is nothing compaired to losing your hair. Losing a nose means no more sense of smell. Losing an eye means no more vision. Losing your hair means losing your hair. You might look different, but you should still be able to live a normal life (although it takes adjusting to). If I was in a position where I was forced to choose between losing my hair and losing an eye, guess which one I'm picking?

are you picking your nose ?
 
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TynanW said:
Jay Tee said:
kamui said:
Seriously, nobody should suffer from hairloss. I see losing my hair is the same as losing a nose, an eye, or my lips.

I have to disagree. Losing a nose or an eye is nothing compaired to losing your hair. Losing a nose means no more sense of smell. Losing an eye means no more vision. Losing your hair means losing your hair. You might look different, but you should still be able to live a normal life (although it takes adjusting to). If I was in a position where I was forced to choose between losing my hair and losing an eye, guess which one I'm picking?

are you picking your nose ?

yes
 

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not sure if the thread starter is still reading this but i wanted to say a few things. First, 5'8 is NOT short, so don't worry about that. Second, an online dating service is great advice for any single guy suffering with balding for a few reasons. 1) the girl will fall in love with your personality BEFORE she starts to see you in real life. This will make her more able to except your hair lose. If I were you I would get the best picture of yourswelf you can find, and go to webdate.com, a free dating service. I have heard many people tell me they had great sucess there.

There are people out there worse than you. People with not only hair loss, but a small penis, acne, and obesity. You are not alone in your feelings, but dont let them control you. I buzzed my hair really low after just saying "f*** hairloss".... I also wear a hat a lot....but i dont dweal on hair loss.
 

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I am 29 losing a ton of hair and have never even had sex yet. I have clinical depression and a panic disorder that has taken all of my dreams away. So I understand what you are going through. Life is extremely tough. I am on meds and get counciling a few times a month. I don't know how to snap out of it eaither. I have zero confidence. I will most likely be fighting this the rest of my life. I am the black sheep in my family. Everyone else is fine and loving life. I just try to stay positive and keep myself busy. I wish you all the luck...
 

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gsxr60097 said:
I am 29 losing a ton of hair and have never even had sex yet. I have clinical depression and a panic disorder that has taken all of my dreams away. So I understand what you are going through. Life is extremely tough. I am on meds and get counciling a few times a month. I don't know how to snap out of it eaither. I have zero confidence. I will most likely be fighting this the rest of my life. I am the black sheep in my family. Everyone else is fine and loving life. I just try to stay positive and keep myself busy. I wish you all the luck...

I'm through in the same process. Depression, panic, fear and anxiety though i'm able to work and i'm being somehow sucessfull. I've no girlfriend and no perspectives on getting one. I'm realizing that sometimes we cant be good in everything we want.

Maybe we could live happy in a society that demands/expects less of us and accept as who we are.
 

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gsxr60097 said:
I am 29 losing a ton of hair and have never even had sex yet. I have clinical depression and a panic disorder that has taken all of my dreams away. So I understand what you are going through. Life is extremely tough. I am on meds and get counciling a few times a month. I don't know how to snap out of it eaither. I have zero confidence. I will most likely be fighting this the rest of my life. I am the black sheep in my family. Everyone else is fine and loving life. I just try to stay positive and keep myself busy. I wish you all the luck...

Get an escort, find out sex is overrated, and then continue on with your life realizing this, otherwise you're going to just kill yourself with negative thoughts. The only way to get a woman is to have confidence, and the only way to get confidence is by getting women... That's a catch 22 for you. You have to cheat.
 
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Damn guys, I know how you feel. I am a stereotypical loser myself. 24 years old male virgin, living with his mother and lets not forget: I am also balding. I am hoping that my life is getting better this year though. I am seeing a Therapist now, maybe it helps. I am still studying so I have also the chance to develop some friendships. I still have hope, but if this year is failure as well I don´t know what to do......
 
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recboi said:
The only way to get a woman is to have confidence,

yes confidence certainly helps in attracting a woman. if a woman sees that you have zero self confidence and is still attracted to you, chances are that she has zero self confidence too and you guys can be miserable together.

and the only way to get confidence is by getting women

NO. why do people measure their self-worth by their success with women? women are complicated creatures. there are many things that you can do to increase your confidence. go to the gym, learn a new hobby, go out and make new friends. you don't have to get with women to get confidence.
 
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