tempted to tell girl ive been dating that im on finasteride
- Thread starter g.i joey
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Never share your secrets with anyone, it will destroy you.
Maybe later on down the road, but I wouldn't for now.
Maybe later on down the road, but I wouldn't for now.
I mean if you only hit it once I would wait. Make sure its going to be something that continues first. I mean if you guys get serious than you could. But if it only happened once, then I would wait. If someone looked at you are you clearly thin/balding. Like has anyone pointed it out.
thats the thing, no one has ever really called me out besides my balding friends, but thats because we rip on each other so bad for our lack of hairlines lol. But no, no one has ever straight up said, "dude i think you're balding".. considering im in college id think id get more remarks towards it.
heres a pic, i mean my hair is def thin especially at the forelock but i could still style it, besides that i basically just have a big forehead but that doesnt really bother me at all lol. i posted a pic so you could gauge your opinion, when i pull back my hair i have a nice little almost slick bald triangle at my hairline. Id post a better picture but im not too fond of putting my face on gourmetstylewellness.com lol
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yeah ultimately you guys are right, it would be stupid of me to say anything and make myself seem weak for no reason. But id love to know the track record on how many people are coming in and grabbing propecia a day lol
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In all other cases i would but this girls made me take her out on 3 dates before i was able to get her to give in.. its over a month and she def has given me signals of wanting something long term, aside from her getting mad at some girl who was sending me snapchats when i was with her, im sort of not doing my part on making things official. But ya its prob a stupid move on my part to even think about telling her about it, theres really no point.
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Why? Clearly your hair loss isn't bothering her right now so why bring the issue to light? It's just setting yourself up for failure especially if you already know she's not super fond of balding guys.
Don't fix that which isn't broken.
Don't fix that which isn't broken.
big_head
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Well a few things:
1. If she mentioned she'd never date a bald/balding guy, she was either testing you (unlikely) or doesn't see you as balding (likely). Most people, believe it or not, don't even see a Norwood 2.5 as balding. Hell, I was a Norwood 2.5 for years and didn't even see myself as balding.
2. She doesn't exactly sound like long term material.
3. Revealing you could take finasteride out of the blue could make her insecure- again, she doesn't sound like the most secure person.
4. If she finds out, just shrug it off. Worst thing you could do would be insecure about it.
I personally wouldn't hide it. I don't see what the big deal is, you're taking the stuff which means you likely will keep your hair, so that's all that should matter to her. But this chick might be insecure if she brought up the balding thing for no reason.
If I were you, I just wouldn't even think about this. If she brings it up, just shrug it off. If she leaves you over it be like "OK. see ya"
Oh and one last thing:
Bro, come on...she isn't special. Take those rose colored glasses off.
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No man, I would only admit it if she straight up saw your Finasteride pills. And like others said, she obviously doesn't see you as balding. Most "normal" people don't consider someone balding until they're like Norwood 4 or have serve diffuse thinning.
Not at all actually... I think the reason I wanna tell her is due to her initial statement on bald men. Basically letting her know, "don't worry I'm still good hair wise for a couple years" lol. If I was suffering sides I would never consider telling her
myhairbegone
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Dump that shallow b**ch for discriminating against baldies.
Just kidding.
But seriously.
Just kidding.
But seriously.
guys i done ****ed up
-solid erection during makeout session.
- as soon as she whipped it out to suck it, started losing my erection
- she was embaressed and thought i wasnt physically attracted to her
-didnt know what to say so told her its prob performance anxiety.
- ended up telling her i tried my brothers propecia for a week this week because ill eventually have to consider it in the future.
- she looked at my head and said what are you even saying youre not losing your hair
- im an idiot because im pretty sure what i experienced is performance anxiety and not related to finasteride considering i still get frequent morning woods and jerk off 3-4 times a week.
final question, should i still pursue or just give this bish up? shes still into me and is more self conscious about the fact that she wasnt able to sexually stimulate me.
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p.s her head game was NOT on point. she kind of gave me a look of insecurity when she looked into my eyes and put her mouth on it, as if she was very nervous
-solid erection during makeout session.
- as soon as she whipped it out to suck it, started losing my erection
- she was embaressed and thought i wasnt physically attracted to her
-didnt know what to say so told her its prob performance anxiety.
- ended up telling her i tried my brothers propecia for a week this week because ill eventually have to consider it in the future.
- she looked at my head and said what are you even saying youre not losing your hair
- im an idiot because im pretty sure what i experienced is performance anxiety and not related to finasteride considering i still get frequent morning woods and jerk off 3-4 times a week.
final question, should i still pursue or just give this bish up? shes still into me and is more self conscious about the fact that she wasnt able to sexually stimulate me.
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p.s her head game was NOT on point. she kind of gave me a look of insecurity when she looked into my eyes and put her mouth on it, as if she was very nervous
shookwun
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Who cares. you worry to much about stupid ****.
iv'e only had this happen when iv'e been worried during intercourse or am not attracted to the girl I'm with. The mind plays a crucial role in having a good erection.
Most likely is performance anxiety, but could also potentially be a minor case of p**rn induced ED
iv'e only had this happen when iv'e been worried during intercourse or am not attracted to the girl I'm with. The mind plays a crucial role in having a good erection.
Most likely is performance anxiety, but could also potentially be a minor case of p**rn induced ED
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Dude you read into these things way too much lol. She was obviously into you but you might have just messed it all up...
br1
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Well I don't think any girl would be considering giving you a blow without being into you.
Geez, just forget about this.. Impotence from finasteride is not selective. If you can still have erections while fapping you can be 100% sure you will work with a girl.
Man, the mind is powerful. Stop reading **** and live the real life.
You're fine.
Geez, just forget about this.. Impotence from finasteride is not selective. If you can still have erections while fapping you can be 100% sure you will work with a girl.
Man, the mind is powerful. Stop reading **** and live the real life.
You're fine.
Next time before your bout to have intercourse with her, just step into the bathroom and do this https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tAhIg5Dy3uA chestbeat from Wolf of Wallstreet. I told my friend the same thing as a joke. He said it relaxed him. Apparently Mcconaughey actually does that to relax. Or you can just not fap for a day or two.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j7ikhQJvdAQ
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j7ikhQJvdAQ
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Come on g.i joey, don't be so hard on yourself! Everyone makes mistakes. Yes, perhaps it wasn't the best you told her you use meds for hair loss at this point, but I do not think the whole thing that's happened is such a big deal! Hopefully you'll feel better about yourself. Like shookwun said, it's most likely performance anxiety.
The mind is powerful. :alien:
The mind is powerful. :alien: