The More Women Want Sex The Higher Their Standards, Gender Study Reveals

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For single men looking for easy prey this Valentine's Day, you've got your work cut out for you, especially if you're below a six.
A new study reveals that the more women want sex, the more they up their standards when choosing a short-term mate.
Researchers found that this is in direct contrast to statistics for men, after they study revealed that men are more likely to lower their standards the more "sexually hyperactive" they become.
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Israeli researchers from Bar Ilan University conducted a study with 78 male and female students. Participants were asked to fill out surveys that asked them the degree to which they each agreed with statements like: "My desire for sex is often stronger than my partner's" and "Having sex isn't high on my priority list".
Based on their answers, the participants were then placed on a scale that identified them as somewhere between "sexual hyperactivation" or having heightened sex-related desire and worries and "sexual deactivation" or suppression of sexual behavior and thoughts.
The students were then asked to watch videos of men and women talking about themselves and their lives. Later, researchers asked participants how much they would want to have a short-term relationship with the people in the videos. The people in the videos had previously been rated for attractiveness by a separate panel of 60 people.
The findings, published in the Journal of Research in Personality, found that while both sexually hyperactivated and deactivated men preferred attractive women, hyper-sexual men were significantly more likely to desire having a short-term relationship with women who were judged to be less attractive.
Essentially, the hyperactivated men were at the stage where they considered any woman good enough for a short-term relationship.
"Sexual hyperactivation seems to make men less selective and make women more selective," the researchers said, according to The Times. Researchers said that the findings are interesting because they appear to go against the laws of sexual supply and demand.
Researchers said that for men who feel sexually hyperactivated, short-term relationships served as efforts to fulfill their "sexual system's goal," whereas for hyperactivated women, their requirement for a short-term relationship is more complex.
From an evolutionary perspective, women engaging in a one night stand will potentially create a child they would have to look after on their own. Therefore, the child from a short-term mate should at least have good genes.
Researchers wrote that "most women are expected to rely on 'feminine' strategies... preferring dominant and attractive men as short-term mates," according to The Times.
Researchers said that the latest findings support the theory of optimal male evolutionary strategies, based on the idea that men contribute fewer resources to child rearing compared to women.
"Men, being the less investing sex, are expected to be less selective than women," researchers wrote.
 

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Obivous. Girls never date down when it comes to ONS
 

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Dam so cheery

I go up to my crush and just say "STFU and dont move"

"YOU WILL NOT ENJOY THIS"

"THIS WILL WILL NOT BE OVER QUICKLY"
 

I AM AWESOME

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Acquire game, swallow the red pill and the woman shouldn't be much of a problem, no matter your hair situation.
 
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Acquire game, swallow the red pill and the woman shouldn't be much of a problem, no matter your hair situation.

This.

All about confidence. Whether it was years before I started balding or as recently as last weekend, my own confidence and state of mind has had everything to do with my success with picking up women. Don't get me wrong; there is always going to be some stuck-up b**ch who is uninterested in you because you're not a professional athlete, there is always going to be some chick who is just frankly turned off by hair loss, etc, etc. But for any girl who is on the fence about hair loss, your charisma, style, intellect, face, and body are going to easily sway her your direction. Having a fat wallet doesn't hurt either.

Basically what I'm saying is: if you go out with a bad attitude, you're going to dry up every vagina in a 20 meter radius.
 

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This.

All about confidence. Whether it was years before I started balding or as recently as last weekend, my own confidence and state of mind has had everything to do with my success with picking up women. Don't get me wrong; there is always going to be some stuck-up b**ch who is uninterested in you because you're not a professional athlete, there is always going to be some chick who is just frankly turned off by hair loss, etc, etc. But for any girl who is on the fence about hair loss, your charisma, style, intellect, face, and body are going to easily sway her your direction. Having a fat wallet doesn't hurt either.

Basically what I'm saying is: if you go out with a bad attitude, you're going to dry up every vagina in a 20 meter radius.

It was not until now that I notice how superficial it really is. I just do my best to keep positive but, its never easy and life poses its challenges. It does at times feel like a complete disconnect. I do have a friend who is short, bald, and he picks up often. Looks matters. We just got to do our best.
 

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These forums are trash. Listen to IAMAWESOME and workhardplayhard. I am young, losing my hair, work in NYC with all women, and if you want some quality advice, here it is.

- Learn how to dress, take an active role in fashion, care about your clothes like you do your hair.
- If you have facial hair, play it to your advantage
- Have an expert clean your head up for you. Hair loss sucks way worse when its unkept and poorly groomed.
- Have a life, like yourself, and have friends. Girls like guys that other guys like, they like guys with goals and better things to do, and they like guys who are happy.
- Be confident in who you are, not necessarily your ability to pick up girls.
- Be normal, don't be a f***ing creep. Just because girls aren't all over you doesn't mean you need to hit on everything in a room (or not hit on them and stare creepily)
- Go to the gym all the time. Whens the last time you saw a really ugly guy with a prime body? (not talking about meatheads)

Hair loss is definitely a challenge, but man up and play the hand you were dealt. The motto I live by is be impressive rather then trying to impress people. At the end of the day if you got your **** together in all those aspects, and all you are lacking is your hair, well good luck being lonely.
 

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Great post!

- Have a life, like yourself, and have friends. Girls like guys that other guys like, they like guys with goals and better things to do, and they like guys who are happy.
- Be confident in who you are, not necessarily your ability to pick up girls.
- Be normal, don't be a f***ing creep. Just because girls aren't all over you doesn't mean you need to hit on everything in a room (or not hit on them and stare creepily)
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I think a lot of guys who whine incessantly on this forum, overlook these particular points (especially the first one lol) and then miraculously wonder why they find themselves in a permanent state of misery.
 

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"be confident in who you are"

perhaps the most shallow advice ever. its like seeing someone suck at a video game and thenq saying "get better bro" like its that simple

u have to give specific advice if u want to help

u cant "become confident" just like that

especially when ur losing hair at a young age, had life diffiulties even without hair loss, etc

i mean of course its good to be confident but u are definitely oversimplifying it

the other advice is good tho.

p.s. what im saying is hard to put into words. wish i had an english major help me out.
 

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"be confident in who you are"

perhaps the most shallow advice ever. its like seeing someone suck at a video game and thenq saying "get better bro" like its that simple

u have to give specific advice if u want to help

u cant "become confident" just like that

especially when ur losing hair at a young age, had life diffiulties even without hair loss, etc

i mean of course its good to be confident but u are definitely oversimplifying it

the other advice is good tho.

p.s. what im saying is hard to put into words. wish i had an english major help me out.

Many have suffered from Christ or Buddha. Collectively, nations have been wronged. Crimes were committed. People suffer and yet, few are enlightened which means to say, awakened. Through suffering, we are reborn, part of ourselves, that mind made me or better yet, ego is relinquished.

I battled acne since puberty. In terms of manhood, way under average. Teased by girls. Clear acne up through accutane after diet and natural pathic ways failed. I don't have to educate everyone on what years of acne does to the dermis. When at my darkest hour I thought I could carely go on, I lost my dad, and sis due to a drunk driver.

Its only after you lost everything that you are free to do anything.
 

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Many have suffered from Christ or Buddha. Collectively, nations have been wronged. Crimes were committed. People suffer and yet, few are enlightened which means to say, awakened. Through suffering, we are reborn, part of ourselves, that mind made me or better yet, ego is relinquished.

I battled acne since puberty. In terms of manhood, way under average. Teased by girls. Clear acne up through accutane after diet and natural pathic ways failed. I don't have to educate everyone on what years of acne does to the dermis. When at my darkest hour I thought I could carely go on, I lost my dad, and sis due to a drunk driver.

Its only after you lost everything that you are free to do anything.

Losing all hope is freedom. Poignant.
 

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"be confident in who you are" perhaps the most shallow advice ever. its like seeing someone suck at a video game and thenq saying "get better bro" like its that simple
Ha, great analogy bro! Someone said something that stuck with me - You could have the body of Mr.Universe, the mind of Einstien, the voice of Sinatra and the artistic skill of Picasso but if you also happen to be bald then that is all people see of you.

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Ha, great analogy bro! Someone said something that stuck with me - You could have the body of Mr.Universe, the mind of Einstien, the voice of Sinatra and the artistic skill of Picasso but if you also happen to be bald then that is all people see of you.
Might as well reply to my own quote seeing as it is taking too long to edit my post. Its hard to "be confident in who you are" when who you are is as categorically "uncool" for lack of better words than your average bald guy.You may assert that who we are and what we are are two separate things and believe that baldness does not define who you are as a person, but you do not wear your bank balance or your accomplishments on your sleeve the way you wear your lack of a hairline. Baldness retards the whole context and dynamic of your face (much like how teeth or lack thereof can change the shape of someones face). The face is the primary focal point humans respond to and juge you by. male pattern baldness is still seen by and large as an ugly, undesirable feature that is shamefull so how can I take pride in myself when I look like **** to everyone including myself?
 

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"Be confident" isn't cliche when you understand what confidence is. CONFIDENCE CAN ONLY COME FROM WHAT YOU KNOW, NOT WHAT YOU SEE. Think about it like a fight, if you know your opponent isn't as strong as you then you can feel confident, but if you have no idea how strong your opponent is, and you base your confidence of just what you see.. thats called arrogance and stupidity. I am trying to offer the few people on this forum who still have a shot some concrete advice so they don't get old and realize they wasted their entire lives because of a high hairline. In the social game of life you have two options, to create your own individual life and then fill it with people similar to yourself, or spend your whole life trying to turn yourself into someone similar to the people you want to be. Above any physical characteristic, wealth, personality trait, etc, the most powerful thing you can acquire is respect. The only bald people you will ever hear complaining, are the bald guys who have nothing else to lean on in their life, or the guys who spend their time complaining about a cosmetic flaw rather then creating something they can be respected for. We all have a hand to play and the freedom to play it, but if you would rather fold because of one uncontrollable flaw, at least have the decency to keep your ignorance to yourself.
 

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People judge based off what they see. If you look like **** bald (most guys do) then all the confidence in the world isn't going to change anyones impression of you. My manager (a young woman) tells me on a semi-regular basis that I look "creepy". The other night I confronted her and told her I am not a creep. I am a loving father who works hard to take care of his family, IOW I am a good, decent guy. But people don't see that, they just see a skinny awkward looking bald guy and assume I am a creep. No amount of confidence, genuine or otherwise is going to change that prejudiced perception of me.

PS. Read my signature and tell me it is false.
 

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People judge based off what they see. If you look like **** bald (most guys do) then all the confidence in the world isn't going to change anyones impression of you. My manager (a young woman) tells me on a semi-regular basis that I look "creepy". The other night I confronted her and told her I am not a creep. I am a loving father who works hard to take care of his family, IOW I am a good, decent guy. But people don't see that, they just see a skinny awkward looking bald guy and assume I am a creep. No amount of confidence, genuine or otherwise is going to change that prejudiced perception of me.

PS. Read my signature and tell me it is false.




True a woman cant run her fingers through your confidence but you cant do that regardless hair or not.................
 

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Well uncomfortable, sit on these sites all you want and piss your life away, it doesn't bother me all that much. All I know is my life was great before hair loss, it is great during, and it will be just as good after. Its an attitude. No a girl can't run her fingers through your confidence, just like she can't have an amazing conversation with your hairline.

P.s. if you have a boss who tells you that you are creepy, you have a ****ty *** job not a career. Professional people don't tell their employees stuff like that. And to my previous point, if she respected you she wouldn't say **** to you, but she doesn't because you don't respect yourself.

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Im going to make my signature

"Lets face it, your hair will never make you interesting... a girl can't have a conversation with your hairline"
 

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Well said ABJac well bloody said.
 

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People judge based off what they see. If you look like **** bald (most guys do) then all the confidence in the world isn't going to change anyones impression of you. My manager (a young woman) tells me on a semi-regular basis that I look "creepy". The other night I confronted her and told her I am not a creep. I am a loving father who works hard to take care of his family, IOW I am a good, decent guy.

what was her reaction?

btw what a (insert word that starts with cu and ends with nt). i hope one day she learns a painful lesson about treating people with respect regardless of their looks.
 

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Isn't it exactly in reverse? The more a woman wants sex - the lower/softer her standarts? Usualy younger women (below ~29) are very shallow, self-centered and don't really have much expirience & sexual drive/desire. More expirienced/mature women are the ones who got the idea.
 
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