Thinking about joining POF, and meeting some new women

[doublebatman]

Unfortunately posts/expectations like this are common on those sites. The sad thing is that we are mostly to blame. I am not just talking about bald guys here, but men in general. Our desperation is what enables this type of stuff to continue and the depressing thing is that it is only going to get worse. Luckily I have never needed to go online to meet anybody. I am not saying I am above doing it, but just haven't needed to. If the time comes though I will probably end up dating somebody like the girl above.

I've seen quite a few on tinder where women specify not to swipe if you're below 6ft.

Men should specify not to swipe unless a woman is under 150lbs. But they'd never do that because men are so desperate for attention

But yeah, agreed on that post. It seems nowadays beggars can be choosers

 

[Notcoolanymore]

I've seen quite a few on tinder where women specify not to swipe if you're below 6ft.

Men should specify not to swipe unless a woman is under 150lbs. But they'd never do that because men are so desperate for attention

But yeah, agreed on that post. It seems nowadays beggars can be choosers

The problem is that men get **** on when they even hint at having standards. Women on the other hand can exclude guys based on height, weight, income, hair, etc. and not get called out on it.

 

[shookwun]

Day 3

Messaged five different girls today, 3 responded. Surprisingly block texts, and over all interest with smileys.

been using copy/pasta openers.



Best day so far.

2nd day was the worst. I was to straight up with one of the girls forgetting that they are pampered to the max, and have options. After she showed interest, got a little cocky after thinking I had it in the bag and told her 'got any other pictures, need something to work with' She then stopped messaging. funny thing is she's the one who initiated the conversation to begin with.

1 number so far from the the hippie stoner chick from day 1. She was being a bit anoying with the constant questions, and head games

 

[Notcoolanymore]

Thanks for the awesome updates shookwun. If you come across any ridiculous profiles make sure you post them here. You actually wrote a girl without any pictures posted? You gotta lot of ballz.

 

[shookwun]

Nothing out of the ordinary, all though what I have noticed is how quickly women are able to dismiss after a certain way of saying things or being to aggressive. Works on some, and not so much others. I honestly feel these results stem from the fact that even a 3/10 warpig is being barraged with messages that have so many options, that game does matter to an extent on POF. for example how you compose yourself, not coming to eager does make a difference on these websites.

Why have I come to this conclusion because so far half the women iv'e been in contact with were the ones who initiated the conversation to begin with. The same girls who became duds because of the wrong things said. I don't believe in game, but knowing how to come off on these sites does make a difference.

**** the desperate males who have constantly white knighted and putted the lowest of the lows on a pedestal. Asides from that things are coming along and I have sealed two girls in the bag for dates when I'm on days off.


NEW: Badoo is crap where I live. Had a buncha of 'meet me's, and likes' so Im like heck with it, and bought the 'powers' who shows who likes you. All these b****s are hours upon hours away from me. The locals in my area are a handful if that

 

[brunobald]

I have been using pof and tinder for a few months now. At first I was a little green to the process bit this is what works for me.

1. Don't ever talk about sex, pretend you are talking face to face.
2. Ask them out as quickly as you can, just a casual coffee. Sometimes I ask them out in the first message and then chat a bit.
3. Be yourself, there is no point in pretending to be someone else to attract someone who will not like your real personality.
4. Give them your mobile number when you ask them out.

Just think of it like a way to quickly meet some cool people rather than talking endlessly on the Internet.

 

[billybob mcdougal]

True. I know a guy (early 40s) who talks to me about his experiences with women he hooks up with on dating websites. The last one he was with invited him back to her house, and they slept together (as is usually the case with him). He texted/called her several times after that, with no response. I asked him why he just doesn't let it go. His answer: I need to know why she's not interested--not good enough, not big enough, etc. My response: Why'd you give her the upper hand? You should have turned her down and let her wonder what she did wrong. If he wasn't interested in continuing the relationship, fine, but he was. It's no use. He always thinks with the wrong head.

Whats youre friends major malfunction? Doesn't he know that any female that receives a mans baby goo on the first date is not relationship material.

 

[Billygekko]

Op pls update us, how's the **** slaying going ?

 

[shookwun]

Op pls update us, how's the **** slaying going ?

Badoo 2
POF 1

So far I have a native girl who's going to travel 1 half an hours to come see me. She's 19 years old. lives in one of those native isolated areas outside of major city.

Blonde local girl who's make up artist, going to have drinks with me at the bar tomorrow.

Some mixed black chick (kinda looks white, and somalia) wants to hangout on monday. big tits = +1

As I said earlier, text game does matter, especially when competing against lots others. I got to cocky in the beginning, and said the wrong things. In return chicks who messaged first or were responsive to my texts stopped messaging. I'm a running a more intellectual, humble/honest - strong intention type person on POF. I don't act needy, or eager but am strong with my intentions, and what I want.




Any chick who's over 7+ has not messaged me back. Some messaged back with a 'hey whats up ' but then forgot about me, and never replied back. I'd imagine they get flooded with so many messages they don't even recall who's who unless you really stand out. I honestly feel like nailing a hottie on POF requires uber handsome looks. Better chance to meet a hot chick on the street then POF.

 

[sniper272]

wow the girl cant be serious lool

 

[shookwun]

wow the girl cant be serious lool

we'll see I had small talk with her over the phone

current hair setup

 

[doublebatman]

we'll see I had small talk with her over the phone

current hair setup

Jesus Christ shookwun, you're a norwood 1. Looks like you got great results from your hair transplant

 

[bilboswaggins]

what the fuq mate i knew your hair was good but in another thread you were talking about getting a 2nd transplant? should be no problem slaying

 

[shookwun]

mate, i'm thinking about getting my temple angles closed in a bit more, and having temple points constructed. (750-1000 grafts)


I honestly think it's easier to get laid in real life from cold approaching then going through all the effort on POF though. In real life you can close a number right off the bat, and within a couple minutes she's already made up her mind if she want's to screw you hence the number given. The hardest part is already done meeting, and talking in real life. after that it'll go up hill.

 

[VeprSuper]

Jai ho! Your hair is perfect. Why ain't you busting out a Beckham cut???

 

[billybob mcdougal]

we'll see I had small talk with her over the phone

current hair setup

You might have a full head of hair, but you aint no oil painting.

 

[shookwun]

1000 grafts for temple points? That's insanity.

And yes, your hair is quite perfect.

Fred,

200 grafts per temple point
And 250 per temple angle to give it more closure.

As for the hair, iv'e fooled around with a lot of styles, product, and length and this seems to be the sweet spot for my hair characteristics. As for the becham and elaborate styles, I couldn't achieve and it would end up looking pluggy despite what it may seem to look like. A side sweep/part is what I normally do to overlap, and give the illusion of density.

For those wondering, I had my whole frontal third reconstructed, the forelock, temples, and further back for future loss. So the whole area took around 2200-2275 grafts if I remember correctly. I was a complete NW2 with NW3 in process, and the zig zag line between forelock.

 

[Exodus2011]

you got any pics of your hair before the transplant?

 

[archdemon123]

Great hair shookwun. Is it the image effect or is your forehead huge?

 

[shookwun]

Great hair shookwun. Is it the image effect or is your forehead huge?

I guess the close up image effect. Forehead isn't small or huge, between.

Thanks. I'll try and dig up some old pre-hair transplant photos from my previous cell, and lap top.