Thinking about joining POF, and meeting some new women

[billybob mcdougal]

Why don't you just stay celibate. Decrease the surplus population...please.

 

[Nadester]

Just asking, how LONG can these transplanted hair grow????

Also would you ever go full emo style with them??

 

[Notcoolanymore]

What else is notable is that ever since ive been trying to meet women, Iv'e completely stopped masturbating all together. it's been close to ten days now, and i have no desire to relapse.

How's the hair looking? Any changes in the quality, shine, or density?

 

[steveo1218]

They were talking about the women. Even below average women get treated like beauty queens online. They expect to be wined and dined. It's ridiculous. If you are a dude you will have to work to get any attention. It's worth a try though. Just don't get down on yourself if you don't get much action.

amen ! On the money there ! Don't bother with pof it will just knock the fukc out of your confidence and wallet

 

[shookwun]

amen ! On the money there ! Don't bother with pof it will just knock the fukc out of your confidence and wallet

I will admit, most of the women do have a sense of entitlement if not by the way they respond then it's within their profile.

For example this one girl automatically assumed 'wanna bang! haha no not not happening' Before I even mentioned the fact that we should get together to CHILL. Which leaves me to believe most these desperate men on here again constantly barraging every women, none of which have a selection rather everyone is a like. Asides from that, iv'e had messages like wow, I wasn't expecting such a message, and you're the first who's actually worth responding too. No point telling messaging any women about sex, because it won't go any where.

I'd say about 40-50% of women have messaged me back so far that iv'e messaged. Most conversations lead no where and about 30% of those i've talked to actually gave me their number. Maybe even less.

For those interested in online dating, I wouldn't even bother unless you stand out. If you look average in any way, and don't have that 'wow factor' then it won't amount to much on these websites. Better off picking up chicks in real life.

 

[billybob mcdougal]

That's where you are going wrong, calling women "chicks" Use the description I use, "meat-buckets", never fails.

 

[templerecess]

I seriously hope none of you ever resort to online dating. It inflates the ego of unattractive girls. You should be picking up in person. That's how I've met all my girlfriends. Unless your unfathomably attractive, having an online profile already signals to a girl that you're either A) Looking for a hookup or B) too beta/unassertive to go after what you want in person and thus unattractive. In either case you're going to have to work hard to overcome those anxieties she has about you. Not to mention girls never look as hot as they do in their pics.

Also, daily reminder about the any girl who has the word "feminist" in her profile...

https://twitter.com/rooshv/status/580169533253636096

 

[Notcoolanymore]

All my dating life has been built thanks to online dating. 40 dates, 30 kisses and 15 bangs in total. I call that a good return on investment.

Those are pretty impressive stats.

 

[swingline747]

Online dating is crap. Its a whole bunch of people photoshopping their face on skydivers and travelers to make themselves seem like they have extravagant interests that go no where.
"Oh yeah I work out 4 times a week, love to hike and be outdoors and have maybe a little extra to love"

Yeah sure you do rabbit.

Everyone builds these profiles to attract what they "want" not what their actually compatible with. How long do you think that will last?
By the time you spend the money on some fake girl and MAYBE get half a make out session, you could have gotten some HOTASS escort and just gotten down to business then went and hung out with your friends.
If you want to meet someone to actually meet someone then GO SOMEWHERE where you share an interest. A coffee shop that hosts music or poetry, a running group, a writing group, FREINDS!!!!!, some kind of volunteer work, a work out place thats NEVER the gym you go to, etc etc.

I met a few girls from online in the past but never pursued it anywhere because mainly I never wanted to pay for a full profile. 2 good friends (well good friends for a while) came from just chat rooms way back when that was a thing.

 

[billybob mcdougal]

I prefer prostitutes. The scaggiest, most drug and diseased ridden ones available. A quick meet in a darkened alleyway, soiled with the DNA of the last social misfit does me fine....bareback naturally. The other option is to join the online dating site, "mothers with big udders".

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^ This is only your experience with online dating. Mine is completely different.

What to do if you can't meet people through friends? Or even don't want to for obvious reasons? I don't want drama or problems with my friends if it goes wrong.

I don't know about the US, but here in Europe, you don't talk to strangers at all, it's not in the culture. Not even in bars, if you talk to a girl, she will not be open to you.

My best friend says that if you can pick up a girl in Brussels (or any "big" city), you can pick up a girl anywhere in the world.

Recently, Belgian feminists have managed to create a law saying you can be fined 1000€ for speaking to a woman on the street.

Also, coffee shops don't really exist in Belgium. The scenario you see in How I met your mother where the girl goes to a coffee shop to read a book or get a drink by herself doesn't exist.

She will 9 out of 10 times be with her girlfriends. The only thing that worked for me outside online dating was a meet-up event. But we can argue that it also has its basis on the internet.

Even my friends understand perfectly why I focus on online dating. Especially now that I have a full-time job.

Now that my hair is starting to look OK, I'm pondering if I should "meet girls in real life" again.

Having been bald for 2 years really took a toll on me, and I still see myself being harshly rejected by women if I start talking to them in real life, even though I look "normal" now.

You just want hair so you can be a player.

 

[templerecess]

All my dating life has been built thanks to online dating. 40 dates, 30 kisses and 15 bangs in total. I call that a good return on investment.

Maybe you have all the time in the world to chat up girls "in real life", and you also have the congruent look for it since you have a full head of hair.

But not all of us want to do that, especially the bald/severely balding guys here. Online dating works as a filter. The girl hates bald men? She won't respond.

Picking up in person, I've tried it before, approached 50 girls in my lifetime. What are my results from that? Oh yeah, 2 dates, 0 kiss, and 0 bang.

I took me 10 times more time and energy, and I got 20 times less results. But yeah meeting girls in real life works so much better right?!

Don't talk about what you don't know, to each his way of meeting women. For me it's online dating. You seem as in denial about the reality of dating than about your full head of hair.

While I grant you that American men are generally more assertive and likely to hit on women on the street, I don't think that necessarily means that European women are less receptive to being picked up. In fact, while it happens less often to them, they may actually enjoy the novelty of it, where as American women are so used to it that being picked up in public is less impressive to them. I live in Los Angeles, and have found success my whole life doing this. I've also picked up in San Francisco and Seattle. From what I've heard, the East Coast of the US (NYC, Washington DC) as well as Canada (Toronto) are notoriously hard for pick up. Supposedly Toronto is worse than any European city. I find these statements dubious at best.

Also, for you Fred, as a white man, you are fetishized in places like Brazil, Colombia, East Asia, and Africa. If you visited those places, you would pick up and bang at will. In Belgium I'm sure you blend in to easily.

And as for your hair, here's a bald man picking up in the hardest city in the world to pick up, Toronto.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NPe-gmWJApQ

 

[swingline747]

While I grant you that American men are generally more assertive and likely to hit on women on the street, I don't think that necessarily means that European women are less receptive to being picked up. In fact, while it happens less often to them, they may actually enjoy the novelty of it, where as American women are so used to it that being picked up in public is less impressive to them. I live in Los Angeles, and have found success my whole life doing this. I've also picked up in San Francisco and Seattle. From what I've heard, the East Coast of the US (NYC, Washington DC) as well as Canada (Toronto) are notoriously hard for pick up. Supposedly Toronto is worse than any European city. I find these statements dubious at best.

Also, for you Fred, as a white man, you are fetishized in places like Brazil, Colombia, East Asia, and Africa. If you visited those places, you would pick up and bang at will. In Belgium I'm sure you blend in to easily.

And as for your hair, here's a bald man picking up in the hardest city in the world to pick up, Toronto.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NPe-gmWJApQ

The East Coast is HELL.....

The women here are so uppety or WAY ghetto, barely any in between.

Ive ALWAYS wanted to go hit like Brazil Columbia or Argentina.... supposedly the gamble of "accidentally" picking up a ladyboy tranny is pretty high but I will take my chances lol. Oh and being killed by kidnapper gang members of course to. Went to DR once and seriously as a white guy you could clean up hard. You wouldn't even have to leave the resort.

 

[Billygekko]

While I grant you that American men are generally more assertive and likely to hit on women on the street, I don't think that necessarily means that European women are less receptive to being picked up. In fact, while it happens less often to them, they may actually enjoy the novelty of it, where as American women are so used to it that being picked up in public is less impressive to them. I live in Los Angeles, and have found success my whole life doing this. I've also picked up in San Francisco and Seattle. From what I've heard, the East Coast of the US (NYC, Washington DC) as well as Canada (Toronto) are notoriously hard for pick up. Supposedly Toronto is worse than any European city. I find these statements dubious at best.

Also, for you Fred, as a white man, you are fetishized in places like Brazil, Colombia, East Asia, and Africa. If you visited those places, you would pick up and bang at will. In Belgium I'm sure you blend in to easily.

And as for your hair, here's a bald man picking up in the hardest city in the world to pick up, Toronto.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NPe-gmWJApQ

Toronto to is the hardest city in the world to pick up ?? Really ???

 

[templerecess]

The East Coast is HELL.....

The women here are so uppety or WAY ghetto, barely any in between.

Ive ALWAYS wanted to go hit like Brazil Columbia or Argentina.... supposedly the gamble of "accidentally" picking up a ladyboy tranny is pretty high but I will take my chances lol. Oh and being killed by kidnapper gang members of course to. Went to DR once and seriously as a white guy you could clean up hard. You wouldn't even have to leave the resort.

Yeah dude, I just don't understand women in the Northeast. It's either complete trash or complete prude. West coast women are so much more easy going. And as a white guy, you'll be surrounded by thirsty women in Brazil and Colombia. It's ridiculous, I doubt you'd ever want to come home.

Toronto to is the hardest city in the world to pick up ?? Really ???

Toronto is the worst city in the world for single, heterosexual men. This fact has been well documented since around the mid 2000s. 1) Male to female ratio is ridiculously bad for men 2) It is the world capital of SJW/Feminist/Tumblr/Fat activist movement. Women are generally uglier, louder, more annoying, and more insufferably liberal than anywhere else 3) Toronto is notorious for women cockblocking their friends 4) Horrible weather. Difficult to stop women you see on the street when it's cold as balls. (Lucky for me in L.A., women are more than happy to talk with you oustide in the sun).

http://www.rooshv.com/15-reasons-why-toronto-is-the-worst-city-in-north-america-for-men

 

[hellouser]

As someone who's live in Toronto, studied in Toronto, partied in Toronto, etc. for the last 12 years... I can confidently say that Toronto really is that much of a shit hole. But on the topic of women... yes, it REALLY IS that bad;

[video=youtube;FoS8bA_Tb8E]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FoS8bA_Tb8E[/video]

Here's a list from Roosh of why Toronto sucks:

http://www.rooshv.com/15-reasons-why-toronto-is-the-worst-city-in-north-america-for-men

Even news sources from Toronto agree:

http://www.thegridto.com/index.html?p=123263.html

I made a comment on that article as well;

Toronto women are as cold as the weather.

I’ve been all over the world too, so I can make a fair comparison between Toronto and cities in USA, Mexico, Cuba, France, Germany, Poland, Norway, Turkey, Italy…. but by far the most welcoming women (and people in general) I’ve ever come across have been in Greece. You don’t need a ‘wingman’ or be worried about going to a party solo because everyone makes the effort to bring you into the conversation and make you part of the social circle. Too many times have I been at parties in Toronto where I only got to talk to a handful of people out of many. The women here are incredibly full of themselves. Not one of them born whose a**h** wouldn’t pucker up tighter than a snare drum when you ask them for a conversation.
The comments in this article are amazing too, so many offended women simply by other men glancing at them. Its no wonder you see so many Toronto women wear gigantic sunglasses and headphones staring at the ground when walking in city streets, isolating themselves from everything around them… including themselves. They’re not approachable, and if you do happen to approach them, you can bet both your testicles that their attitude will be ‘impress me or move along’ Perhaps its the mens fault here too though? So many, or too many in fact, pseudo alpha-male losers bringing out the worst in women? Both sexes in Toronto are hell-bent on destroying eachother.
Toronto is the worlds smallest big city I’ve ever been to. This place is highly overrated and I don’t blame anyone from Montreal or the West Coast talking down Toronto, this city deserves the scrutiny.

If anyone disagrees, then answer me this: Have you ever heard of anyone saying 'I want to go to Toronto on vacation.' ? The answer is no. That's because the people in it are scum and the city itself hasnt got much to offer.

 

[uncomfortable man]

(Lucky for me in L.A., women are more than happy to talk with you oustide in the sun).

Lucky for you you have hair. Toronto, michigan, east berlin or california doesnt matter as long as you are bald you will not be recieved kindly or accepted all together. And send a bald white guy down to brazil or any of those south american countries and guess what? More rejection.

 

[swingline747]

Lucky for you you have hair. Toronto, michigan, east berlin or california doesnt matter as long as you are bald you will not be recieved kindly or accepted all together. And send a bald white guy down to brazil or any of those south american countries and guess what? More rejection.

Not rejection, but you better be more aware of WHY the ladies find you attractive.....

its green and a card

 

[templerecess]

If anyone disagrees, then answer me this: Have you ever heard of anyone saying 'I want to go to Toronto on vacation.' ? The answer is no. That's because the people in it are scum and the city itself hasnt got much to offer.

Can't say I disagree. I visited Niagara Falls, Ontario once and decided to drive on up to Toronto just to see what it was like. This was circa 2011. I didn't flirt with any women, but I did get about 5 hours around the city center to see what kind of women/people/food it had. Toronto has a high concentration of unattractive women for such a large city. For a city which fancies itself as New York's rival, one would expect for it to deliver in the looks department. Even the cities I've visited in fat-*** Texas had better looking women (Dallas/Houston). For a city that so proudly boasts about its diversity, it was striking to see the homogeneity. All white women were obviously dressed in westernized clothing and fashion, as is to be expected. But additionally, all non-white women were dressed in westernized clothing, with coffee and a smartphone in tow. What's more is that minority women tried to OVEREMPHASIZE their "western" sensibilities and fashion tastes. Large sunglasses, flat ironed hair, that "oh god I seriously do not want anyone to talk to me" look. How is that diversity?

We Americans don't often rank Canadian cities high on our "places to visit" priority list, but when we do, it's Montreal, Quebec City, and Vancouver.

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Lucky for you you have hair. Toronto, michigan, east berlin or california doesnt matter as long as you are bald you will not be recieved kindly or accepted all together. And send a bald white guy down to brazil or any of those south american countries and guess what? More rejection.

Haha I think the importance of hair is a bit overstated, but you are right that having hair helps. Look I'm hispanic (with some North African heritage as well), so when I go to South America it's no easier for me to pick up women than it is in L.A. I look like everyone else in South America, so I don't really get an "ohhh he's exotic" advantage, (until they see my American passport then it's cake). For you white guys (especially with blonde hair/blue eyes), you do get that "ohhh he's exotic" advantage. Those baby blues are fetishized down there. I've heard that guys like me would get analogous treatment in some European/Scandinavian countries. I've not yet tested this out, but I hope to one day.

So send a bald white guy down to Rio de Janeiro or Medellin, and he'll have a FAR easier time getting laid than a bald white guy in Chicago or Phoenix.

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Not rejection, but you better be more aware of WHY the ladies find you attractive.....

its green and a card

This guy gets it. But I would also add that, culturally, it's seen to them as a major life achievement to snag them a white boy, especially for marriage/babies.

 

[swingline747]

Can't say I disagree. I visited Niagara Falls, Ontario once and decided to drive on up to Toronto just to see what it was like. This was circa 2011. I didn't flirt with any women, but I did get about 5 hours around the city center to see what kind of women/people/food it had. Toronto has a high concentration of unattractive women for such a large city. For a city which fancies itself as New York's rival, one would expect for it to deliver in the looks department. Even the cities I've visited in fat-*** Texas had better looking women (Dallas/Houston). For a city that so proudly boasts about its diversity, it was striking to see the homogeneity. All white women were obviously dressed in westernized clothing and fashion, as is to be expected. But additionally, all non-white women were dressed in westernized clothing, with coffee and a smartphone in tow. What's more is that minority women tried to OVEREMPHASIZE their "western" sensibilities and fashion tastes. Large sunglasses, flat ironed hair, that "oh god I seriously do not want anyone to talk to me" look. How is that diversity?

We Americans don't often rank Canadian cities high on our "places to visit" priority list, but when we do, it's Montreal, Quebec City, and Vancouver.

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Haha I think the importance of hair is a bit overstated, but you are right that having hair helps. Look I'm hispanic (with some North African heritage as well), so when I go to South America it's no easier for me to pick up women than it is in L.A. I look like everyone else in South America, so I don't really get an "ohhh he's exotic" advantage, (until they see my American passport then it's cake). For you white guys (especially with blonde hair/blue eyes), you do get that "ohhh he's exotic" advantage. Those baby blues are fetishized down there. I've heard that guys like me would get analogous treatment in some European/Scandinavian countries. I've not yet tested this out, but I hope to one day.

So send a bald white guy down to Rio de Janeiro or Medellin, and he'll have a FAR easier time getting laid than a bald white guy in Chicago or Phoenix.

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This guy gets it. But I would also add that, culturally, it's seen to them as a major life achievement to snag them a white boy, especially for marriage/babies.

Listen I wouldnt be venturing down there for the whys or hows... or even a wife to bring home, just to indulge a bit!

 

[billybob mcdougal]

Not rejection, but you better be more aware of WHY the ladies find you attractive.....

its green and a card

Nah bro, I get loads of "chicks", and I am a repulsive maggot, and I don't even make the effort. Women come on to me. Imagine if I had hair and designer stubble, I would clean up.