This is a very pivotal and critical time in my life. Can anyone give me advice?

sunsoke

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So my hairline has been receding since I was 16. I'm now 24 and have reached the stage of hair loss in what I would consider a late Norwood Class II, beginning Norwood class III. Although not visible to the naked eye, my vertex and top are just beginning to thin and is clear under intense bright light. My temples are fully receded and my middle frontal have begun thinning.


I've been depressed and riddled with anxiety attacks over the years because of my condition. When I was 20, it was so bad that I failed an entire semester of college courses. It was then that I decided to become proactive and have been on a daily regimen of minoxidil and propecia since. It saved a good deal of my hair, my self esteem went up and I was even able to save the damage of my classes. I'm proud to say I'll be graduating with a degree in engineering next month.

In the past few months however, the drugs have indeed begun losing effect and since then, I've taken a serious reevaluation of my life, my thoughts and ideas. Although I'm still hurt that I'm balding, fearful of how I'll look and how others will treat me in the future, I'm not as devastated about it as I once was.

I'm posting this today to ask you guys for advice and feedback. I trust you all more than others on the internet who would pray on my vulnerability in the fact that we are all brothers, united in the struggle dealing with hair loss. I've attached some pics of myself at different views (Top, frontal underneath light, side, hair held back, etc). I apologize if the photos do not provide enough justification in the severity of my claimed hair loss description. The camera is low quality and the lighting is not as bright.

1) I'd like to know if based on the photos of myself, whether it appears that I may have a decent shaped head for shaving. I feel like my features are soft and my face is oval so I'm worried I may not pull it off. You never really realize how well your hair frames your face until it starts going. Do I have what it takes to pull off a bald badass look? Or a sexy bald look? Or do I at least have what it takes to look decent with a shaved head? I'd like to think I have a handsome face with or without hair but I might just be in denial. Otherwise, would I be better off with a wig or hell, even a cap? If needed, I can try taking more photos of my head later.

2) Based on my photos, would now be a good time to begin shaving my head or am I able to continue having hair at that length with my current level of hairline recession. I'm very horrible at observations and I honestly can't tell from looking at my own reflection. Or perhaps I should keep it short to a #1 or #2 on the buzzer?

3) Not a very serious question, but should someone like me consider a hair transplant in the long run? I personally considered it during my early years of college with the "I'm gonna get it all back once I have a job with money" mentality. Today, not so much because I don't know if I may end up a NWVII especially if I'm 24 and at a NWIII now. I heard early this year that scientists have successfully cloned the dermal papillae though not the epithelial cells required for a potential cure in baldness. I'd like to believe that hair follicle neogenesis will be available within 5-10 years, but I'd rather not waste my life on 'hope' and try to accept myself with a shaved head.

I'd really appreciate honest genuine feedback and thank you for reading my post. If you guys need support, especially you guys going through this around my age, you can always PM me. Thank you.
 

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Diffuser44

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http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B000JNQSIQ/ref=oh_details_o02_s00_i00?ie=UTF8&psc=1

Order this razor. Shave it off with the lowest setting. Your hair will grow back if you don't like. If you like it, you will know that some day you can handle your heads shape and go bald easily. If you don't like it. Consider a hair loss regimen to temporarily stop your hair from falling out. Also, it gives you a chance to see what people say on how you look with a shaved head. I shaved my head once and I got comments that I had a good shaped head. Then again, because I'm so pale, and have very light eyebrows, I was also told I look like a Kemo patient haha.
 

SayifDoit

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I actually really like your hair mate, If I saw you from across the street or even got right up next to you; I wouldn't honestly notice you were loosing your hair. Pre-recession you must have had a really small forehead(you still do kinda), am I right? I wouldn't bother shaving it all off just yet, I can understand though how you're not happy with it, I'm personally pissed and can't stand to look at my own hair without noticing the lack of temples god...
Try getting on some hair treatment products.
I always recommend propecia, low dosage, if you experience side effects get off it. If that doesn't work their always alternatives down the road if you are willing to go the extra mile. Minoxidil will create the illusion of restoration of your hair temporarily for a couple years and I think it can help with regrowth marginally, in conjunction with propecia; although I personally think it's a waste of time, but if you want results fast minoxidil is your best bet.
The big three.
Nizoral, Propecia and Minoxidil.
Look them up, I personally dig a medium shaven head but man the thought of slick baldness is disgusting.
 

Notcoolanymore

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I am not saying that you do not have any hair loss, but you are nowhere close to needing to make a decision on whether to shave or not. Maybe I am unable to tell because of the pics, but it looks like your hair loss is minimal at worst.

Maybe if you had facial hair my opinion would be different, but I don't think the shaved look is for you. Unfortunately most guys are unable to pull of the look.
 

DoctorHouse

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Agree with Notcoolanymore.
 

sunsoke

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Thanks for the feedback guys. From what I gathered, the key points are:

-No need to shave quite yet (you're not in the thin and gross state), buzz it shorter if you want to see if the shaved look would be good on you.
-Having facial hair may help, but most guys can't pull off the shaved look (in which case, I'm screwed) and finally,
-get better photos (which I intend to once I get my hands on a better quality camera).

The feedback definitely helped. I understand the need for better photos, so I'll get on that as soon as I can.
 

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Honestly bro if you think about shaving your head to know how it would look.. I would advise you to do it!

Back in January, I was so concerned with my hair (almost had the same length as you) that I shaved it with my electric razor (not a good idea, it took me two hours haha).
I did not regret it! I realized that I look good and that my skull has a good shape. I also remember sending a picture to my girlfriend (she was on a trip). She called me right away asking why the **** did I shave my head but just after, she said that it looked good (felt great to hear that).
Of course I was scared to go out like this at first but after a few times it felt normal and I didn't feel like everyone was looking at me.
Moreover, for two months I did not think about my hair loss issue at all (awesome!). You also don't find any hair even one month or two months after so it feels good!

Btw congratulations for graduating! :beer:
 
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