Thread of women commenting negatively on baldness

[I.D WALKER]

I emphatically agree with you Swing and with that I certainly appreciate your openness and sincerity. Our value systems are uniquely our own. Your perspective has reminded me that there are other orbiting worlds revolving outside my own, although wrought with their own special challenges, thriving and surviving all the same .Everyday I make my own subjective assessments about the small circle of people I am involved with or encounter based on the filtered data collected through the remembered experience(es) and from my own observations and already preconceived notions about what drives the human race. If I were to harshly judge(arrogance) others based on my own limited scope of understanding(ignorance)would simply prove how poor and small minded I am as a person. Our life is our own and the choices we make and the people we influence(consciously/subconsciously) visa versa are the forces that help define our character. Thanx again for sharing.

 

[hellouser]

Too bad you deleted it swingline. It had a great line: you can't put your own "greatest returns for investment" into the mind of another person. I paraphrased it a little but still.

Some people will work hard in a job they hate all their life, because they think it's the right thing to do and their efforts were worth it.

Some people will become obsessed with bodybuilding and spend a lot of time, energy and money to have the perfect body, because they think it's the right thing to do.

And so on.

Here's something to think about:

Wanting hair and fixing it when your bald/balding is considered vanity. But spending hours a day on bodybuilding ISN'T vanity?

 

[swingline747]

Too bad you deleted it swingline. It had a great line: you can't put your own "greatest returns for investment" into the mind of another person. I paraphrased it a little but still.

Some people will work hard in a job they hate all their life, because they think it's the right thing to do and their efforts were worth it.

Some people will become obsessed with bodybuilding and spend a lot of time, energy and money to have the perfect body, because they think it's the right thing to do.

And so on.

yeah sorry it went from something meant to think about into just a plain ol self pity rant then went WAY off course.

Thanks

sort of wished I saved it.

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Here's something to think about:

Wanting hair and fixing it when your bald/balding is considered vanity. But spending hours a day on bodybuilding ISN'T vanity?

and actually to someone who DOESNT work out then yes you are vain.... you are always the most negative thing to someone who is the opposite. I work out, those who dont are lazy (not always but you get my point), to them Im overly vain.

 

[hellouser]

and actually to someone who DOESNT work out then yes you are vain.... you are always the most negative thing to someone who is the opposite. I work out, those who dont are lazy (not always but you get my point), to them Im overly vain.

The problem with people that ridicule men for wanting their hair with the 'vanity' claim is that its total bullsh*t. Vanity is trying to obtain something you never had...

ALL OF US here on the forums want to keep what we've always HAD. I dont care for botox for a face i never had, or getting a ripped body I never had, etc. I want to KEEP my identity.

People out there are so fvcking stupid to peg a depressed balding man as vain. If it wasn't anything to be vain about, then why the fvck are balding men looked at with disgust?

 

[hellouser]

True. It's the same with other diseases people would be considered vain to care about.

Like acne for example, that person once had a face that wasn't riddled with pimples and just wants that back. It's not something that person's never had.

Also, a woman wanting her hair back isn't considered vain. But for a man, it's just pathetic and desperate. Man all that feminism didn't do any good for balding guys.

If it's equality they want, why don't we treat women the same way about THEIR hair loss? Oh hell no! It's not acceptable to demonize balding women... but it IS acceptable to demonize balding men!

Way too many feminists treat their cause like a fvcking buffet... 'Equal pay, I'll take that... Women and children first, I'll take that....' But as soon as they gotta do something a guy does, like going down with a sinking ship its 'Oh I'm just a girl, I wanna go play jumprope!'

I've always felt that if balding were to affect women in the numbers that it does to men and to the same horseshoe pattern degree, we'd have baldness figured out DECADES AGO. But it hasn't because Fred Hirsch's Positional Good theory has to stay in effect to give men and women WITH hair relevance to their own satisfaction and superiority over those without, making us ultimately LOWER forms of a social class because otherwise they'd have no idea how or why they are in a higher standing.

I fvcking DESPISE society.

 

[CaptainForehead]

Also, a woman wanting her hair back isn't considered vain. But for a man, it's just pathetic and desperate. Man all that feminism didn't do any good for balding guys.



This is from a feminist blog. So if we don't shave, we are desperate, and if we shave, we are desperate too! That's why you must never listen to what women say.

I've been reading some "Game" blogs. I like this one (sample): http://alphagameplan.blogspot.ca/2011/04/women-dont-cut-your-damn-hair.html

Strongly anti-feminist. He presents some good arguments and exposes the hypocrisy of women. Goof for getting your testosterone level up.

 

[hellouser]

I've been reading some "Game" blogs. I like this one (sample): http://alphagameplan.blogspot.ca/2011/04/women-dont-cut-your-damn-hair.html

Strongly anti-feminist. He presents some good arguments and exposes the hypocrisy of women. Goof for getting your testosterone level up.

Here's a ridiculously stupid comment left on that page:

WOW what a massive bunch of ignorant males. I'm sat here hazarding a guess that as you are so direct, arrogant and aggressive of your views regarding short hair that you are social insignificant, balding, unattractive men.You are also attractively shallow. If cutting my hair short means I would NEVER end up with a man like you I may just shave my head tomorrow.As far as I was concerned Frankie Sanford has been voted as one of the sexiest women of 2010 and probably will be voted as such again for 2011.

Grow up!

So a guy doesn't like women with short hair and this b**ch goes out to perpetuate the demonization of bald men? Ridiculous.

 

[Deadman1]

Again people are trying to derail this thread so once again I have to put it back on topic.

Found on message boards:

"I don't find bald men attractive AT ALL. It doesn't mean I hate them as people. I just find them very unattractive."

"I really don't find bald guys to be attractive in the slightest. I don't despise guys that are bald, I just don't find them to be attractive."

"this girl,a friend of mine and also one that's romantically interested in me told me this: " don't even think about shaving your head, i hate baldies"

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"I don't hate any bald guys. I'm just not attracted to any. To me, that's not romantic."

"My boyfriend and I are both in our twenties and he is going bald. i am having a difficult time adjusting to it as I am just not attracted to bald men. We have been together for 5 years, and while I do love him, it's making me see him in a completely different light. I just can't imagine myself married to a bald man. I know how shallow it seems, but no matter how hard I try I can't get used to it, and it's affecting my sexual and physical attraction to him. I have explained how I feel to him, but neither he nor I know what to do to fix this. I am just so frustrated at myself and this situation, and I really want to change how I feel but I can't seem to. Should I end our relationship over this, or is there something I can do to fix this?

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[hellouser]

^You need to post the source of each of those comments.

 

[Deadman1]

^You need to post the source of each of those comments.

Not necessary. I don't have the time to make them up and type them out. Much quicker to search and cut and paste . Plug them into a search engine if you want the source.

 

[hellouser]

Not necessary. I don't have the time to make them up and type them out. Much quicker to search and cut and paste . Plug them into a search engine if you want the source.

Look into SEO practices. This thread would get more views if you sourced it. Essentially we need to have a community effort into brining awareness in the sh*tstorm that bald men get from people privileged with hair.

 

[I.D WALKER]

If we as members here need to be continually reminded about how our own baldness is negatively perceived by the women in society then a group buy 'script for Aricept is long past overdue.

 

[uncomfortable man]

If we as members here need to be continually reminded about how our own baldness is negatively perceived by the women in society then a group buy 'script for Aricept is long past overdue.

What does that mean?

I think threads like this are self- flogging, however I must comment...I find it interesting the language the women use like,"It's not like they're bad people. I just don't find them attractive." because these women are guilty of ascribing positve traits to beauty so in essence attractive people are their very definition of "good people". To them, if you aren't attractive you aren't a worthwhile human being. Superficiality prevails.

 

[I.D WALKER]

Aricept(donepezil) is used to treat mild to moderate dementia caused by Alzheimer's Disease.

 

[uncomfortable man]

I would like to see an open round table disscussion between the beleaguered bald men and their anti-bald women oppressors. Televised. Certainly then these shallow self-richeous women would be exposed as the female shovenistic pigs they are!

 

[CaptainForehead]

I think threads like this are self- flogging, however I must comment...I find it interesting the language the women use like,"It's not like they're bad people. I just don't find them attractive." because these women are guilty of ascribing positve traits to beauty so in essence attractive people are their very definition of "good people". To them, if you aren't attractive you aren't a worthwhile human being. Superficiality prevails.

Not true. Women are looking to sleep with *the best* men. So even if you are a good fella, you may be SOL if there are "better" men available. Hypergamy and all.
They are saying that *the best* people are ones who are pretty (and perhaps who have other qualities).

 

[ghg]

and actually to someone who DOESNT work out then yes you are vain.... you are always the most negative thing to someone who is the opposite. I work out, those who dont are lazy (not always but you get my point), to them Im overly vain.

Yeah I've noticed this to be true. I, who work out pretty sparingly but more than most, am "HC on jogging". Infact I jog when I feel like it but usually like a 10 km jog once a week max. To some that is HC, can you believe it!? Ppl exaggerate and try to create confrontations on everything. Sarcasm and being overly witty are diseases of today. Like, for real, you know.

 

[swingline747]

Sarcasm and being overly witty are diseases of today.

well of that we are all guilty... but Im just a jerk.

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Not true. Women are looking to sleep with *the best* men. So even if you are a good fella, you may be SOL if there are "better" men available. Hypergamy and all.
They are saying that *the best* people are ones who are pretty (and perhaps who have other qualities).

but remember cash trumps all. Difference if you are really good looking women will sleep with you for free, if you are rich you better pay up. Just do like me and make a fake bank statement saying you are a millionaire and leave it on your kitchen counter. Then bring a girl to your house and walk away and let her secretly look at it. See how fast those pants come off lol.

Unfortunately I live in an area thats very hard to get ahead in. I live in the 4th largest welfare state in my country, CT. So I work hard enough to not need the welfare but dont make enough to not have to pay into the system like the really wealthy here do.
My income goes to paying for the lazy who leech off a system, and probably have nice thick heads of hair from being so relaxed and not having to work.

 

[hellouser]

You live in a fantasy world swingline. You really think that if you had model looks and a lot of money, girls would fall into your arms?

They do, lol.

Years back I remember when I used to work in retail (college days of course) one of my coworkers was basically an Abercrombie looking model, a guy; full head of hear too, ripped body and a 'gentlemans' smile that women love. I specifically remember on one occasion where he came back from his lunch break at the mall's cafeteria and started telling me some random hot girl just sat right next to him just to talk to him... and the tables were all single, for 2 people only, so you KNOW she made an effort just to pick him up. God I wish I had that luck. A couple days later he was telling me how he's single and he doesnt have GAME. I bitched him out telling him he doesnt need game, girls just COME to him! But you know what's funny? Every girl at work was foaming at the mouth when they saw him on the first day at work, but nearly all said that once he opened his mouth it was an instant turn off.

He's a really nice guy though, far from an a**h** that would make him a bad guy in a relationship but perhaps his personality is that of a fish that turns women off... at least I've got that covered for myself, I'm pretty eccentric/animated in person.

 

[swingline747]

You live in a fantasy world swingline. You really think that if you had model looks and a lot of money, girls would fall into your arms?

Good looks and wealth will never compensate for being socially inept.

There is always a sense of that sarcasm "ghg" mentioned in any post i write.

But also in the ol USA yes money trumps ALL.... look at all the fugly rich guys with hot young pieces. Yes they are only with them for the money (maybe at first) but really a girls is always only with you for some reason. So if you are looking for a wife, then no a trick like the fake bank statement prob wont work. If you just want to score and get teh right girl of course it would work.

As for hellhouser. Yes I used to pull that when I was younger. Girls would constantly come up to me and flirt. I was more fortunate to have the gift of gab and be a great con tho as well. Now, not happening.