Tinder 10/10 Male Experiment

[buckthorn]

I think Norwood One was referring to what a lame attempted insult I made, but I wasn't really insulting or anything.

Ah **** it, it's all mixed up.

hahaha... it's all good h.i., I know you're a good dude from your posts. No worries. :band:

 

[shookwun]

I think it's more possible for men and women to remain friends after they've had a sexual relationship and it was an amicable split. Would you agree?

I'm sure she left with a smile on her face (I remember your comment in the penis thread--lol!).

Absolutely.

Once you had sexual relations with a women, and that tension is off the table everything is much more natural, and casual. Don't have those hidden, and repressed feelings.

I actually have female friends back home that I'm rely close with. But like anything we messed around, and had attraction for one another. We actively see each other when I get back into a town, not everything is sexual but knowing that we can play while being a genuine friend is what makes it rewarding.

 

[garyhary]

It's important as a women to remind men of their place, and where this is all going. A lot of the time if one of the sexes aren't straight the point, that typically the men in most cases will linger around until something happens.

That whole text of 'friends, and nothing more' 'we aren't going to have sex, just friends' is a game changer.



She didn't text that often, but keep in mind we were with one another for a good five hours lol. I dont mind every hour or so .. getting back at someone.

What would be if I just want to hang out (or linger around) with some women because I feel somehow attracted to them and feel hooked already by just hanging around with them but besides I am not so interested in them sexually because I am in a stable relationship I am totally satisfied with and I know that I will not be happy if I would have a sex with any other women. (After all, sex just becomes sex after you did it a certain amount of your time and you feel that it would not make a big difference and would not bring you more excitement if you do it with anybody else than your spouse).

I think there are also a lot of guys out there who are totally happy already being some sort of "friend" (the kind of friendship that is somehow possible between men and women who are attracted to each other) with some women they are somewhat attracted to. The sex thing would just have a lot of consequences and may screw up everything.

 

[throwaway592845]

I think there are also a lot of guys out there who are totally happy already being some sort of "friend" (the kind of friendship that is somehow possible between men and women who are attracted to each other) with some women they are somewhat attracted to. The sex thing would just have a lot of consequences and may screw up everything.

No. Deep down, they are all going through hell.

 

[shookwun]

What would be if I just want to hang out (or linger around) with some women because I feel somehow attracted to them and feel hooked already by just hanging around with them but besides I am not so interested in them sexually because I am in a stable relationship I am totally satisfied with and I know that I will not be happy if I would have a sex with any other women. (After all, sex just becomes sex after you did it a certain amount of your time and you feel that it would not make a big difference and would not bring you more excitement if you do it with anybody else than your spouse).

I think there are also a lot of guys out there who are totally happy already being some sort of "friend" (the kind of friendship that is somehow possible between men and women who are attracted to each other) with some women they are somewhat attracted to. The sex thing would just have a lot of consequences and may screw up everything.

How would you feel if the women you're seeing is hanging out with a ex partner? After all they are just friends. Cmon dude, get real. Same dudes dick she slobbed on before getting a nice nut in between her legs.

It doesn't work. If anything will create problems in a relationship. As a single person, I don't see any reason why not?

 

[kmm179]

Its hard to tell from the pics being so small but none of those girls look that good...anyone can get away with saying dumb **** to get laid by stepping your standards down.

 

[Swoop]

Its hard to tell from the pics being so small but none of those girls look that good...anyone can get away with saying dumb **** to get laid by stepping your standards down.

Important point indeed. It's easy to get women way below your level. They are just as desperate to go up the ranks as men. I have had 6 and 7's that almost begged for the D and I still have them from time to time, albeit less than a few years ago. Don't even need communicate with them. In fact they will almost hunt you pretty much. You can literally play games with them. Not talking about tinder though.

I was actually wondering if such a thing still existed in North America, but apparently it does .

 

[swingline747]

I think there are also a lot of guys out there who are totally happy already being some sort of "friend" (the kind of friendship that is somehow possible between men and women who are attracted to each other) with some women they are somewhat attracted to. The sex thing would just have a lot of consequences and may screw up everything.

I had plenty of female friends I was attracted to but never fooled around with. Ill tell you the best way to pick up girls is by having a pretty one with you already lol

 

[Afro_Vacancy]

I have had and have plenty of female friends. Sometimes there was sexual tension and usually there wasn't unless i missed it on their end. With most eomen i feel no attraction so there's no issue.

 

[parisienne]

Well do you want kids some day? .

No.

 

[buckthorn]

Well do you want kids some day? If so, at some point you'll need a man to make you pregnant and pay for stuff while you raise the kids. A "provider". Or you could go back to work and spend all the money you make on sticking the kids in childcare and be miserable away from them. Decisions.

What?? I know tons of single moms that work. Is it an ideal life, no. Is it possible, definitely. We are humans and things are never ideal. I could counter your point with, what percentage of marriages do you think are actually happy? idk... out of those that don't end in divorce, I would wager 5-10% are TRULY happy, if that. The rest are miserable. You don't need a man to make you pregnant. You need sperm. and, even without, you can take the most ethical approach to raising children and adopt. Woman or no woman, I am adopting a child in a couple years and will raise that child on my own if I have too. I own a business, but yes, I have to work and manage people... so, I will just find an awesome nanny and spend quality time with the child when I am home. so, f*ck child care. My brother sees his kid 2-3 days a week because of joint custody. He holds the greatest admiration for him. This is 2016. We don't need sh*t to accomplish what we want except for will power and resources. Real women don't need crutches such as a "provider" unless they are dealt that situation.

 

[buckthorn]

More than 80% of men say they'd like to be a father someday.

With your studies, you'll probably be making more money than the vast majority of men.

A woman cannot be in a healthy relationship with a man that earns less than her.

You'll probably also want him to be taller than you, and to have hair.

Bonne chance.

Once again, I don't think this is entirely black and white. If the man has a bad *** job (created his own business, fire fighter, cop, deep sea diver (haha), researcher, etc...) one that requires balls and intellect, the insecurity of making less money can be greatly alleviated. Plus, if the woman makes the man feel comfortable about his job, and if the man is secure as hell with himself, it's definitely doable. I understand what you're saying though. I dated a doctor, who was gorgeous and made six figures in my late twenties. I had good hair, good physique, my own business and was still insecure as f*ck. That is indeed a HARD thing for a man to conquer. I think Parisienne can find a good looking man, her height or taller, with a decent receding hair line and still be happy. compromise my friend.

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or... like I mentioned before, we can all chip in and buy an island for gourmetstylewellness.com members and other hair loss sufferers that are insecure. We can live a happy, tropical life together in insecurity and breed insecure babies who will have 100% chance of having Androgenetic Alopecia. hahaha :baaa:

 

[parisienne]

More than 80% of men say they'd like to be a father someday.

With your studies, you'll probably be making more money than the vast majority of men.

A woman cannot be in a healthy relationship with a man that earns less than her.

You'll probably also want him to be taller than you, and to have hair.

Bonne chance.

Fred, sorry if it feels rude, but I don't care what your opinion is. I'm doing whatever the **** I want with my life and so far I've been doing and feeling great. I do not need anyone's validation when it comes to my personnal happiness. If my goals don't fit your "happiness standards" and if you feel the need to write about it, it is your problem, not mine.

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Well do you want kids some day? If so, at some point you'll need a man to make you pregnant and pay for stuff while you raise the kids. A "provider". Or you could go back to work and spend all the money you make on sticking the kids in childcare and be miserable away from them. Decisions.

Plus, both parents can share the time they spend to raise their kids. It's all about balance. I think it is actually sad that a lot of kids don't build a good relationship with their father because he's "absent". Nowadays, more and more couples decide to share their parental leave. I think it is doable to have kids without sacrifying your career.

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Once again, I don't think this is entirely black and white. If the man has a bad *** job (created his own business, fire fighter, cop, deep sea diver (haha), researcher, etc...) one that requires balls and intellect, the insecurity of making less money can be greatly alleviated. Plus, if the woman makes the man feel comfortable about his job, and if the man is secure as hell with himself, it's definitely doable. I understand what you're saying though. I dated a doctor, who was gorgeous and made six figures in my late twenties. I had good hair, good physique, my own business and was still insecure as f*ck. That is indeed a HARD thing for a man to conquer. I think Parisienne can find a good looking man, her height or taller, with a decent receding hair line and still be happy. compromise my friend.

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or... like I mentioned before, we can all chip in and buy an island for gourmetstylewellness.com members and other hair loss sufferers that are insecure. We can live a happy, tropical life together in insecurity and breed insecure babies who will have 100% chance of having Androgenetic Alopecia. hahaha :baaa:

My previous relationship was based on mutual support rather than competition or something, so yep, definitely.

 

[buckthorn]

Mutual support, it usually works one way. I've had my lows, and even though my girlfriend was supportive, I know she hates me for having shown weakness.

It just doesn't work. Thanks to the knowledge we have today, with the internet and so on, we know for a fact that some things will just never work.

Like long-distance relationship, or a relationship where the woman has a higher status than the man. It's not even up for debate, that's just fact at this point.

Being a career woman is a sure recipe for ending up unhappy, or worse. We know that too. Happy women lock down good men, have children, build families.

Without exception, all women I know that made the mistake of not having children are extremely unhappy, my mother confirmed it was the case for a lot of her friends and colleagues.

It's not about getting validation from me or anyone else. I'm just sharing my observations here, not really giving you advice.

I hear those overconfident talks not based on one once of reality around me all the time:

"I'll get married, and it will work you'll see!"

"You know that in Brussels, 80% of marriages end in divorce?"

"Yeah, but I'm different man, she's not like that! We'll make it work!"

All you hear is: "Yes, I know 99.99% of the population isn't making it, and that my plans have never been shown to work in the history of mankind, but me, I'll make it!"

Of course you'll make it, you're different, you're special. You're above every other human being.

Of course you'll be happy as a "career-woman".

Of course you'll crush mad pussy as a 27 year old bald guy.

You'll make it.

Narcissism.

Fred, all you're doing is applying your own personal situation to every one else's. It's not realism, at all. It's skewed as f*ck. Sorry man, no offense.

 

[Cold Winter]

Mutual support, it usually works one way. I've had my lows, and even though my girlfriend was supportive, I know she hates me for having shown weakness.

It just doesn't work. Thanks to the knowledge we have today, with the internet and so on, we know for a fact that some things will just never work.

Like long-distance relationship, or a relationship where the woman has a higher status than the man. It's not even up for debate, that's just fact at this point.

Being a career woman is a sure recipe for ending up unhappy, or worse. We know that too. Happy women lock down good men, have children, build families.

Without exception, all women I know that made the mistake of not having children are extremely unhappy, my mother confirmed it was the case for a lot of her friends and colleagues.

It's not about getting validation from me or anyone else. I'm just sharing my observations here, not really giving you advice.

I hear those overconfident talks not based on one once of reality around me all the time:

"I'll get married, and it will work you'll see!"

"You know that in Brussels, 80% of marriages end in divorce?"

"Yeah, but I'm different man, she's not like that! We'll make it work!"

All you hear is: "Yes, I know 99.99% of the population isn't making it, and that my plans have never been shown to work in the history of mankind, but me, I'll make it!"

Of course you'll make it, you're different, you're special. You're above every other human being.

Of course you'll be happy as a "career-woman".

Of course you'll crush mad pussy as a 27 year old bald guy.

You'll make it.

Narcissism.

Sometimes I think about this. But you can't discuss it without being called a backwards hick. In the west, particularly in "socially advanced" cultures like the Europeans, Scandinavians and Japanese, where feminism is most prevalent, birth rates have plummeted terribly. To the point where it is concluded the birth rate cannot sustain a stable population. For women to start competing for careers and doing away with marriage, it almost always means the death of birth rates, and by extension, the death of a nation. Meanwhile, in third worlds like in the Middle-East, Africa, Mexico, where women maintain their traditional roles, the birth rates are thriving despite the poverty.

Look at what France did, and Germany - these places have resorted to importing 3rd world Muslims BECAUSE their birth rates are dangerously low. So my question is, when does it end? Assuming they succeed in westernizing/feminizing these newcomers (which we all know they won't), then their birth rates will plummet as well as women leave their traditional, maternal roles. And then they will have to import more 3rd-worlders, whose apparent backwards practices are the only thing saving this "advanced" society. It's either that, or the 3rd-worlers will not change, but instead they will breed out the advanced culture and overtake the laws of the country itself, possibly regressing back a century. And so it will be a cycle.

What I mean to say is, I am starting to believe feminism could possibly be the death of a nation. I am not saying that to be an assh*le, but you cannot deny it kills the birth rates. In the US, the least advanced cultures like those within black ghettos and the south of the US (Hispanic dominated) reproduce the most. European Whites, meanwhile, who's women are undoubtedly more in touch with feminism, have dangerously low birth rates. And Japan, look at Japan. They have feminism, but they do not like immigration. So they are a dying nation, and everyone is witness.

 

[parisienne]

@Fred : Oh really ? Interesting.
Haha but no seriously I learnt a lot with this thread. It actually gave me some motivation to work ten times harder. Not because I want to come back here 10 years later to tell you guys I'm happy I made it, but rather because it will be hard to concentrate if people do throw bull**** all over my face each time I express some ambition for the sole reason I have a vagina.

 

[parisienne]

Oh please stop about the white knitting bull****.
If any guy agrees with me he's called a white knight. That would not happen if I was a guy huh ? If I was a guy it would just be called "sharing the same opinion".

 

[buckthorn]

My own situation? I'd better not do that since my situation is absolutely unique.

I'm not offended. White-knighting is only natural, I know it's hard to fight it off.

How am I "white knighting"?? lol.. I think I am just naturally a white knight then haha... I am just saying that you are stating your perception as fact. You have no scientific evidence to prove these behavioral theories. I want to see specific data linking bald people to all the things that you state, before you state them as fact. In your very conclusive facts about baldness and happiness, you reference nothing to substantiate them, except your own feelings. I can just as easily say right now that bald people are happier in marriages because they have found an authentic woman who accepts them for who they are. Did you know that bald marriages never fail? That bald people have become stronger intellectually and emotionally, solely because balding has taught them the great importance of working on other areas of their life... sounds kinda reasonable?? well, it's all just anecdotal bullsh*t I just made up.

 

[jd_uk]

Oh please stop about the white knitting bull****.
If any guy agrees with me he's called a white knight. That would not happen if I was a guy huh ? If I was a guy it would just be called "sharing the same opinion".

Not read any of this thread recently but great point.

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How am I "white knighting"?? lol.. I think I am just naturally a white knight then haha... I am just saying that you are stating your perception as fact. You have no scientific evidence to prove these behavioral theories. I want to see specific data linking bald people to all the things that you state, before you state them as fact. In your very conclusive facts about baldness and happiness, you reference nothing to substantiate them, except your own feelings. I can just as easily say right now that bald people are happier in marriages because they have found an authentic woman who accepts them for who they are. Did you know that bald marriages never fail? That bald people have become stronger intellectually and emotionally, solely because balding has taught them the great importance of working on other areas of their life... sounds kinda reasonable?? well, it's all just anecdotal bullsh*t I just made up.

Good post

 

[parisienne]

Well you're clearly much smarter than me and probably most other people on this forum with your education.

I was really just talking about the choices we all have to make in life. If you don't want kids of course you'll be successful in your career.

In fact women who never have kids have the highest salaries if you do a google search so I have no doubt with your education and ambition not to have kids you will be very successful. Didn't meant to sound judgemental at all.

Cocohot I'm sorry that was not especially applying to you (maybe just for the "would you rather be miserable and pay for childcare" part) but rather at most posters that replied earlier, I have read your previous posts and I know you were just talking. So, about sharing the parental leave, I invite you to read about the situation in Sweden, in which more and more fathers do take part in their children's education jsut as much as the mothers.