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[sunchyme1]

either way, has to be rare as f***

how weird would it be for your mum to be taller than u lol

 

[Afro_Vacancy]

A third of the OkCupid ladies I messaged on Sunday has emailed me back, I'm surprised. That's 3/10 since I restarted using the service on January 4th. With two of them, I'm having extended conversations, I'll try and convert to numbers and dates in the next couple days.

 

[doubleindemnity]

buzz or shave is fine. but keep it very short whatever the f*** u do. DO NOT grow it out as long as u did in the photos u posted. that sh*t is pathetic lol. u will not get any dates with those gay little hairs coming out of your head. keep it short and smart.

maybe you just havent looked into all this too much...but the fact your a dark skinned is a huge f*****g plus when it comes to losing ur hair. honestly, if i was black i wouldnt give a sh*t. in between black and white gets abit tricky, but your dark enough to look ok balding.

buzz it, look into treatments/hair transplants if you want and work on some other things to balance it out. work out...you dont have to be huge, just filled out. it makes a huge difference

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The guy in that picture has a solid head of hair. Ok I'll buzz and wear a short beard like that picture. But, brown skin looks good bald. Yellow doesn't. Mine is closer to yellow. Interestingly, it would be a more desirable skin tone than brown if I were a NW1. I work out already but just for the pleasure; I don't enjoy bodybuilding overall. I'm in better shape than most guys of my ethnicity, but those things only matter if your norwood is below 3.

A third of the OkCupid ladies I messaged on Sunday has emailed me back, I'm surprised. That's 3/10 since I restarted using the service on January 4th. With two of them, I'm having extended conversations, I'll try and convert to numbers and dates in the next couple days.

Don't get excited. People on there give out their number easily but stop responding to your phone messages as soon as you ask to meet. It has happened with 3 phone numbers for me.

 

[sunchyme1]

The guy in that picture has a solid head of hair. Ok I'll buzz and wear a short beard like that picture. But, brown skin looks good bald. Yellow doesn't. Mine is closer to yellow. Interestingly, it would be a more desirable skin tone than brown if I were a NW1. I work out already but just for the pleasure; I don't enjoy bodybuilding overall. I'm in better shape than most guys of my ethnicity, but those things only matter if your norwood is below 3.

i wasnt really posting him because of his hair, i did it for the body. my point was you dont need to huge just because your balding. just more athletic. that guy was balding btw, but he still had okish hair on top still at that time. hes a nw7 now.

anyway, to me this is the kind of look balding guys should go for. obviously that guy is f*****g gorgeous and isnt typical. but everything else is on point. kept his hair really short, has a bit of tan, nice clothes and well built.

im not sure what can be done to help your yellow skin lol. maybe there are some supplements out there. im sure you can do something mate

if you already workout then great. just keep the hair short and you will look 1000 times better.

good luck with the dating!

 

[doubleindemnity]

i wasnt really posting him because of his hair, i did it for the body. my point was you dont need to huge just because your balding. just more athletic. that guy was balding btw, but he still had okish hair on top still at that time. hes a nw7 now.

anyway, to me this is the kind of look balding guys should go for. obviously that guy is f*****g gorgeous and isnt typical. but everything else is on point. kept his hair really short, has a bit of tan, nice clothes and well built.

im not sure what can be done to help your yellow skin lol. maybe there are some supplements out there. im sure you can do something mate

if you already workout then great. just keep the hair short and you will look 1000 times better.

good luck with the dating!

Yes he is gorgeous. But he's not well built. Look at his small shoulders and neck. He's skinny with clothes on; maybe he is ripped underneath. Ljunberg, right? Still, he looks quite a bit worse in a more recent picture where his hairline is disappearing. The NW3 guys on here wouldn't understand; they can achieve that look by buzzing.

I'm going to take your advice but I still believe that no hairline (which is in my near future) turns you from balding and rugged to bald loser. See recent pictures of Statham for an example. How do I get good dating photos taken? I'd need spray tan if I wanted to get darker. That's what Neil Strauss used.

 

[sunchyme1]

Yes he is gorgeous. But he's not well built. Look at his small shoulders and neck. He's skinny with clothes on; maybe he is ripped underneath. Ljunberg, right? Still, he looks quite a bit worse in a more recent picture where his hairline is disappearing. The NW3 guys on here wouldn't understand; they can achieve that look by buzzing.

I'm going to take your advice but I still believe that no hairline (which is in my near future) turns you from balding and rugged to bald loser. See recent pictures of Statham for an example. How do I get good dating photos taken? I'd need spray tan if I wanted to get darker. That's what Neil Strauss used.

yes its ljurnberg. no hes not huge like a bodybuilder. hes athletic. anyway, the point was you dont have to become huge once you start balding like a lot people suggest. he has a good athleitc build imo. what you dont want is to be skinny and bald

he looks worse now because hes 40 years old and nw7 lol.

i no what your saying about the hairline, it does make a huge difference. my point when you posted your pictures up was that your need to keep it short now. buzz or shave. it doesnt matter. growing it out now is not an option, youve lost too much. if you still have a hairline you want to see. then sure just buzz it. forgot the clean shave until youve no hair left on top.

are you on meds? they will help with some regrowth. min should def help your hair thicken up and improve the appearance of a hairline

i dont understand what your saying about photos? just take some on your phone man and upload them lol

i didnt say you need to go darker. but you said you were yellowish? you want to look more normal brown color? i dont know how to help, but others can. there must supplement u could use

 

[Afro_Vacancy]

A woman my dad's cousin tried to fix me up with has turned me down. We tried to meet earlier but we had conflicting travel schedules due to new year's, etc.

David! Happy New Year!

Your life sounds incredible, and I can only imagine it feels wonderful to be in such high demand.

It would be a pleasure to meet you, too, however I recently started seeing someone and would like to see where it goes.

I've really enjoyed our emails, and it's clear you're wonderful.

Best of luck with your trip to LA & [Redacted]!

Warmly,
[Redacted]

Well, that closes that story. I wish I could be oblivious and just move on. But in the back of my mind, it's "She looked me on facebook and didn't like my photos, she's letting me off easy".

Insecurity can be a cognitive tax.

 

[sunchyme1]

A woman my dad's cousin tried to fix me up with has turned me down. We tried to meet earlier but we had conflicting travel schedules due to new year's, etc.

David! Happy New Year!

Your life sounds incredible, and I can only imagine it feels wonderful to be in such high demand.

It would be a pleasure to meet you, too, however I recently started seeing someone and would like to see where it goes.

I've really enjoyed our emails, and it's clear you're wonderful.

Best of luck with your trip to LA & [Redacted]!

Warmly,
[Redacted]

Well, that closes that story. I wish I could be oblivious and just move on. But in the back of my mind, it's "She looked me on facebook and didn't like my photos, she's letting me off easy".

Insecurity can be a cognitive tax.

david do u like the way you look? or do u want to change and improve yourself?

if your happy with your looks, your never gonna get hot chicks man. i dont mean to offend, i am just saying with the way girls see you now, you are average at best. and youll have to settle for that

but like we all have suggested you have massive f*****g potential to improve yourself.

honestly man, i would stop with all this dating bs for now. its f*****g brutal. and spend the time trying to improve your looks, if that is indeed what you want.

you could easily jump a few points man if you tried. all these losers your getting matched with and woman turning you down is f*****g brutal. waste of time.

 

[CopeForLife]

I've really enjoyed our emails, and it's clear you're wonderful.

 

[Afro_Vacancy]

david do u like the way you look? or do u want to change and improve yourself?

if your happy with your looks, your never gonna get hot chicks man. i dont mean to offend, i am just saying with the way girls see you now, you are average at best. and youll have to settle for that

but like we all have suggested you have massive f*****g potential to improve yourself.

honestly man, i would stop with all this dating bs for now. its f*****g brutal. and spend the time trying to improve your looks, if that is indeed what you want.

you could easily jump a few points man if you tried. all these losers your getting matched with and woman turning you down is f*****g brutal. waste of time.

I'm not expecting to get married within 3 months.

Part of the reason to date is that I'm an inexperienced 33 year-old. Personality matters within the relationships, to be less socially awkward and desperate, for the relationship to succeed and be worthwhile, for the ability to read signs, for the ability to go after the appropriate women, and to capitalize when the opportunity is there.

I'd like to improve my looks but right now I'm totally lacking motivation. I need to do something, anything, to overcome lethargy/depression.

 

[sunchyme1]

I'm not expecting to get married within 3 months.

Part of the reason to date is that I'm an inexperienced 33 year-old. Personality matters within the relationships, to be less socially awkward and desperate, for the relationship to succeed and be worthwhile, for the ability to read signs, for the ability to go after the appropriate women, and to capitalize when the opportunity is there.

I'd like to improve my looks but right now I'm totally lacking motivation. I need to do something, anything, to overcome lethargy/depression.

actually sorry mate i just remembered a previous post explaining why you were going on these dates. im not following every single post here...

i was just thinking about it purely from a looks pov....your getting sh*t matches and women turning you down. this would obviously change if you improved your appearance

well going to the gym and getting fit in general with help with both your appearance and depression. it f*****g crushes my depression

 

[Afro_Vacancy]

actually sorry mate i just remembered a previous post explaining why you were going on these dates. im not following every single post here...

i was just thinking about it purely from a looks pov....your getting sh*t matches and women turning you down. this would obviously change if you improved your appearance

well going to the gym and getting fit in general with help with both your appearance and depression. it f*****g crushes my depression

I can't go to the gym due to a hernia. Surgery is next months, then I have to wait six weeks to exercise.

f*** my life.

Either way, if you want until the right woman to get experience, you may very well alienate this right woman due to inexperience.

 

[Notcoolanymore]

Your life sounds incredible, and I can only imagine it feels wonderful to be in such high demand.

I could be wrong, but this totally sounds like a backhanded compliment. She probably thought you were full of yourself based on your previous communication. To put it simply. This was diss.

It would be a pleasure to meet you, too, however I recently started seeing someone and would like to see where it goes.

This is another classic line. The "I already have a boyfriend" line. I guarantee she doesn't have a boyfriend or anything even close. Wouldn't be surprised if she is a few hours away from having a one night stand as I am writing this.

 

[Notcoolanymore]

I can't go to the gym due to a hernia.

You can't do anything? You don't have to go all hard core to start off. What about push ups, pull ups, seated curls?

 

[sunchyme1]

I could be wrong, but this totally sounds like a backhanded compliment. She probably thought you were full of yourself based on your previous communication. To put it simply. This was diss.

lol no it wasnt a diss mate. she was just being nice. she may have thought he was full of himself but she wouldnt have said that in an f*****g email before they even met lol

This is another classic line. The "I already have a boyfriend" line. I guarantee she doesn't have a boyfriend or anything even close. Wouldn't be surprised if she is a few hours away from having a one night stand as I am writing this.

this however is definately bullshit.

 

[Afro_Vacancy]

I could be wrong, but this totally sounds like a backhanded compliment. She probably thought you were full of yourself based on your previous communication. To put it simply. This was diss.



This is another classic line. The "I already have a boyfriend" line. I guarantee she doesn't have a boyfriend or anything even close. Wouldn't be surprised if she is a few hours away from having a one night stand as I am writing this.

May or may not be. No idea. The worries of not knowing what women really mean are a product of having been misled which is a product of not having been good enough.

A friend of mine, h's good looking, so he can drink the kool aid of delusion. A while back he was at the checkout counter at the grocery store and a woman started talking to him, he interpreted it as she saw the mushrooms (or whatever) in his shopping cart, saw that he must be a good cook, and thus wanted to over to his house and have sex with him to enjoy his great cooking. Ergo, he's a great cook he's awesome he's got so much game and women love him because of his game. Must be nice to swim in a sea of positive reinforcement.

I didn't tell him as I don't have the energy to argue with everything. Probably she saw that he was good-looing, and used the mushrooms in his shopping cart to break the ice.

 

[Baldhurts]

David? What do you look like? I'm just curious.

 

[Afro_Vacancy]

David? What do you look like? I'm just curious.

 

[Baldhurts]

I don't think there's anything wrong with you on why women wouldn't be interested

 

[CopeForLife]

I can't go to the gym due to a hernia. Surgery is next months, then I have to wait six weeks to exercise.

f*** my life.

Either way, if you want until the right woman to get experience, you may very well alienate this right woman due to inexperience.

I want to deliver a flash news to you – gym doesn't help you get close to to get laid