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[sunchyme1]

"We good-looking, tall, fullhead gymcels".

 

[Afro_Vacancy]

I forgot to say, I signed up for a speed dating event on January 22nd, I hope a lot of people show up lol.

 

[sunchyme1]

I forgot to say, I signed up for a speed dating event on January 22nd, I hope a lot of people show up lol.

im there

 

[EvilLocks]

One of my closest friend's current girlfriend -- they met off PoF -- says that the most important thing to her was how a guy dresses and whether or not he's read her profile and that his message to her is indicative of such. I didn't argue the point with her, but I don't believe her. I think that's the narrative of the world she believes, and that there's more going on in her subconscious that she's not aware of or not acknowledging.

The most recent beautiful woman I went on a date with, I asked her what she liked about my profile, she gave me a really heartwarming answer (lol). She said she liked that I actually have a profile and that I wrote her a message based on what she wrote. I honestly think that these are just narratives women convince themselves of.

She probably liked your looks

 

[shookwun]

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Not me.

For me, it's an area of time, and reflection. Where I can admire myself without repercussion

Sorta like arnold in this pumping iron scene explaining the pump, blood, and rush

Just admiring his muscles.

Focus on this video, it's surreal. Puts me in a state of trance

 

[SmoothSailing]

Good initiative! It's always a good idea to explore other options to meet girls.

I only went to a speed dating event once but it was for Muslims.

A lot of decent-looking girls but very few decent-looking guys.

Most of them were fat balding slobs. I could immediately see that they had 0 chance.

Seems like a win.

If I went to one here I'd expect fat old or ugly women with a few 'average' girls who probably came for the laugh.

Although I've never even heard of them here, think it wouldn't go down to well.

Alcohol would be key.

 

[Afro_Vacancy]

I went to speed dating once before, but it happened to be right after I met a girl.

I matched up with one Norwegian exchange student but pursued nothing.

It was organized by the psychology department, they were studying us, so I got paid in the form of free movie tickets and an Amazon certificate.

It was very exhausting to interview 25 women over three hours.

 

[Exodus2011]

pursued nothing? no motivation to do go on these dates?

why arent you excited for these women? are they nor good enough?

 

[shookwun]

I can't see any hot chicks attending a speed dating session.

correct me if I am wrong.


Couldn't they just simplify there means of meeting men through social circles, school, work and tinder?

 

[Afro_Vacancy]

pursued nothing? no motivation to do go on these dates?

why arent you excited for these women? are they nor good enough?

I'm unexcited for life in general, but maybe if I accumulate a few minor wins I'll feel better.

 

[shookwun]

I'm unexcited for life in general, but maybe if I accumulate a few minor wins I'll feel better.

I think a business trip to Thailand might help reboot you towards the right direction.


Go get laid with a bunch of hookers, get obnoxiously drunk at a full moon party, and get a blowjob by a tranny before blacking out on a beach.


Then come back to your mother land.

 

[sunchyme1]

Good initiative! It's always a good idea to explore other options to meet girls.

I only went to a speed dating event once but it was for Muslims.

A lot of decent-looking girls but very few decent-looking guys.

Most of them were fat balding slobs. I could immediately see that they had 0 chance.

well that must have been pretty f*****g odd

why the hell did you go to a muslim speed dating event?

 

[tellersquill]

It's as if we live in a world which is 80% men. How can women keep multiple guys on hold?

Its not like that.

Say if you sleep around these next few months with 5 women - if you had a good time with them then you now have five numbers in your phone. Even if you had a 6 month relationship after the flings and then it ended -- if you messaged each woman then one would bound to be up for sex.

The more you sleep around the easier it is to find people to hook up with as you have more connections

 

[shookwun]

Its not like that.

Say if you sleep around these next few months with 5 women - if you had a good time with them then you now have five numbers in your phone. Even if you had a 6 month relationship after the flings and then it ended -- if you messaged each woman then one would bound to be up for sex.

The more you sleep around the easier it is to find people to hook up with as you have more connections

Most connections burn out.

Not sure where you're going with this.

A lot of people fade out.

You make it sound like once you have a chick that you slay, it's an easy text to meet up again. I have had numerous amounts of fwbs, and odd shots where you see each other for a few weeks - month. They die out, most women are looking for more.

 

[shookwun]

Out of the 31 girls I've slept with in my life, I have... 5 numbers left.

And out of those 5 numbers, it would be awkward as f*** to contact most of them.

I find it a bit pathetic to ask an ex fling/f*** buddy for sex, but maybe that's just me.

I operate like this: if it doesn't feel right, I just won't do it. It feels like begging to me.

Do you actually message old FB's asking for sex? Does that even work well for those who try this?

He's talking out of his bleached corn hole.

Most of these connections burn out, as I mentioned in the post above.


LIke yourself, I tend to ghost, and not contact again.


It would be different if I was in the big city again, because they would actually be my social friends, and fwb partners.


Where I am, it was strictly sex... didn't do much outside of that. SO the possibility of reconnecting, and not realy having deep connection, most of them wont bother meeting again

 

[tellersquill]

Out of the 31 girls I've slept with in my life, I have... 5 numbers left.

And out of those 5 numbers, it would be awkward as f*** to contact most of them.

I find it a bit pathetic to ask an ex fling/f*** buddy for sex, but maybe that's just me.

I operate like this: if it doesn't feel right, I just won't do it. It feels like begging to me.

Do you actually message old FB's asking for sex? Does that even work well for those who try this?

Haha no I wouldn't do it like that!

If I cant be bothered to go back on tinder I just message them and say 'how's it going?' and then I start a chat with them and test the waters.

Old FBs contact me from time to time and do the same.

 

[tellersquill]

He's talking out of his bleached corn hole.

Most of these connections burn out, as I mentioned in the post above.


LIke yourself, I tend to ghost, and not contact again.


It would be different if I was in the big city again, because they would actually be my social friends, and fwb partners.


Where I am, it was strictly sex... didn't do much outside of that. SO the possibility of reconnecting, and not realy having deep connection, most of them wont bother meeting again

Dude, never ghost - they will hate you for that.

I always tell them that I'm not ready for anything serious so I better leave before I end up getting close.

 

[shookwun]

Dude, never ghost - they will hate you for that.

I always tell them that I'm not ready for anything serious so I better leave before I end up getting close.

Haha no I wouldn't do it like that!

If I cant be bothered to go back on tinder I just message them and say 'how's it going?' and then I start a chat with them and test the waters.

Old FBs contact me from time to time and do the same.

That's what facebook is good for, but I dont text old girls.


facebook is good in the sense that she can take a look at your profile to re familiarize herself with you, and look back on old memories.


But random texting a girl 6 months to a 1 year later is awkward, and I can't be bothered. She has nothing to visualize to, and in mosts cases is just a wall of text

 

[tellersquill]

That's what facebook is good for, but I dont text old girls.


facebook is good in the sense that she can take a look at your profile to re familiarize herself with you, and look back on old memories.


But random texting a girl 6 months to a 1 year later is awkward, and I can't be bothered. She has nothing to visualize to, and in mosts cases is just a wall of text

I've had it twice when its been more than a year.

One time she just announced she'd broken up with her BF - two days later I ask if she would like to talk about it - turns out we did, but only after we fucked.

I'm still friends with her now (well facebook friends)

 

[hairblues]

I can't see any hot chicks attending a speed dating session.

correct me if I am wrong.


Couldn't they just simplify there means of meeting men through social circles, school, work and tinder?

I think it depends where you live. NY for example can be very isolating especially for people who first move here.

In NY a lot of these things are popular.

Also on the Meetup website there is a lot of things for single people and people who just moved and dont know anyone.

There is even dating organizations for people who have a Masters degree on Meetup, or similar professions.