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[Xander94]

Women are correct, men are largely shallow.

The reason we discuss women being shallow is that there's a catharsis-like release to. It's counter-programming to the general cultural message that women are into your personality, your confidence, etc and that looks have nothing to do with it.

Then why arent we drowning in women? I'll tell you why because they want you to be famous to have money to be successful to have the perfect looks to work out and also have a perfect personality. What do men want? Just an average 6-7/10 hoe to make them happy.

 

[Afro_Vacancy]

Then why arent we drowning in women? I'll tell you why because they want you to be famous to have money to be successful to have the perfect looks to work out and also have a perfect personality. What do men want? Just an average 6-7/10 hoe to make them happy.

It may be that you're not really a 6/10 man.

It may be that you're a 6/10, but your scale is crap, and you're going after 7/10 women.

There's also orbiter theory to think about, as it provides an effective explanation.

 

[sunchyme1]

One time, around 2004, I used a swear word, and somebody said "David, I've never heard you swear before."

A few years later, in late 2007, I was seeing this girl, Jennifer. She said we're doing ok, but we could be doing better if I started swearing more. I responded along the likes of "I'll start f*****g swearing then."

In general I refrain from vulgarity as I can't straddle the divide between being normal and being an uncivilized brute. It's a fine line and a subtle distinction.

So I end up coming off as formal.

f*** THAT!

 

[Xander94]

It may be that you're not really a 6/10 man.

It may be that you're a 6/10, but your scale is crap, and you're going after 7/10 women.

There's also orbiter theory to think about, as it provides an effective explanation.

There have been women who almost seemed obsessed with me but never showed true romantic affection. I don't know maybe it's because I'm too scary I have a scary dark hair thick eyebrows appearance and am reserved in my dealings with women and people in general I don't like to be too exposed afraid I will fail.

 

[Patrick_Bateman]

There have been women who almost seemed obsessed with me but never showed true romantic affection. I don't know maybe it's because I'm too scary I have a scary dark hair thick eyebrows appearance and am reserved in my dealings with women and people in general I don't like to be too exposed afraid I will fail.

b****s love thick eyebrows

 

[Wanheda]

b****s love thick eyebrows

Thick eyebrows are definitely the 'in thing' nowadays so no surprise there lol

 

[Afro_Vacancy]

b****s love thick eyebrows

 

[Wanheda]

Unibrow...oh yeah

 

[CopeForLife]

some photos are more feminine then others i don't know if its the photographs or where she was in transition. Some are her as a boy early on.

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she misses a blue eyes

8.5/10 now

 

[EvilLocks]

That guy's got more hair on his brow(s) than I do on my head... Fck this lol

 

[CopeForLife]

I have even thicker. Need to shave them a bit. But eventually looks decently.

 

[hairblues]

she misses a blue eyes

8.5/10 now

yeah i noticed some pics her eyes are blue some brown i guess she wears collar contacts.

 

[SmoothSailing]

Spending time with people you don't even like just to get a free meal seems insane.

Just a matter of time before we see the first dinner-wh*** meets player rom-com I suppose.

Well you see they tell themselves their 'giving him a chance' and that they might be persuaded if he's charismatic and funny enough.

So I wouldn't say that she didn't like my company, just that she never seriously gave any thought to being with me.

Sometimes I imagine what life would be like if I had girls throwing themselves at me (like guys throw themselves at pretty girls), I imagine how different of a person I would be. I think this person would be much closer to these dinner-w****s. And that's why I don't necessarily think it's 'insane'. I just think it's the circumstance these people are in. Well I suppose those circumstances are kind of insane.

 

[SmoothSailing]

Trust me, they always know immediately.

And you'll quickly know if you're a yes or a no, there is no maybe with women.

I gave it some thought and I still disagree.

If you were right, I could begin every date with "let's get out of here and f***" and I'd have the same chances as I would if I courted her to the max.

This is demonstrably not true. Otherwise most guys would begin a date with this. I certainly would.

Women will know immediately whether they are willing to f*** you. But you still have to pass her other tests before you can get freaky.

 

[hairblues]

Well you see they tell themselves their 'giving him a chance' and that they might be persuaded if he's charismatic and funny enough.

So I wouldn't say that she didn't like my company, just that she never seriously gave any thought to being with me.

Sometimes I imagine what life would be like if I had girls throwing themselves at me (like guys throw themselves at pretty girls), I imagine how different of a person I would be. I think this person would be much closer to these dinner-w****s. And that's why I don't necessarily think it's 'insane'. I just think it's the circumstance these people are in. Well I suppose those circumstances are kind of insane.

No i know women who actually use men for gains. I don't know how men don't spot them early on. I feel sorry for them.

In addition to dinners, shows etc.

I have known women who are not sleeping with the men get cars, (2 to be exact neither car anything fantastic but STILL f*****g cars but no sex just 'possible' sex) i have known women to go on vacation with men..I have one friend who took her sister on vacation to be a 'chaperone' because she had NO intention of sleeping with him..I have friends who have gone shopping on mens tab...
I have had friends invite me and other friends and the guy picked up bill.
i was sleeping with a woman who used her BF AMEX to wine and dine ME and take me to The Mercer ($400 a night hotel) to have sex.

I mean it happens.. some women are crafty b****s. Not going to lie.

Personally i never had need of a mans money and i never felt comfortable taking from someone who i am not interested in.

I don't even want to have a conversation with someone who is 'into' me if i am not into them.

 

[hairblues]

I gave it some thought and I still disagree.

If you were right, I could begin every date with "let's get out of here and f***" and I'd have the same chances as I would if I courted her to the max.

This is demonstrably not true. Otherwise most guys would begin a date with this. I certainly would.

Women will know immediately whether they are willing to f*** you. But you still have to pass her other tests before you can get freaky.

yeah it would be really weird and disrespectful for a guy to say that at beginning or even at the end of a date LOL

The great white polar bear is right on some things but wrong on others.

 

[Patrick_Bateman]

I gave it some thought and I still disagree.

If you were right, I could begin every date with "let's get out of here and f***" and I'd have the same chances as I would if I courted her to the max.

This is demonstrably not true. Otherwise most guys would begin a date with this. I certainly would.

Women will know immediately whether they are willing to f*** you. But you still have to pass her other tests before you can get freaky.

You can't convince women to sleep with you, but you can convince them NOT to.

 

[hairblues]

You can't convince women to sleep with you, but you can convince them NOT to.

not true i have slept with men that in beginning i was in my head 'i don't think so'

and over the course of spending a bit of time i found myself turned on by them.

 

[pjhair]

not true i have slept with men that in beginning i was in my head 'i don't think so'

and over the course of spending a bit of time i found myself turned on by them.

Yes that can and does happen very often. But they must have acceptable level of looks and other important traits.

 

[Afro_Vacancy]

There's a website called "Miss Travel", where an attractive woman can propose a travel plan she'd like to go on, and men from around the world can volounteer to pay for her, along with the possibility of sex. She might say I'd like a four week tour of South America, with a lot of gourmet food and wine and first class plane tickets, or something like that.

A friend of mine almost used, she was 44 and a 26 year old guy offered to pay for her trip, that's where I heard of it. That was before we met. She had feelings for me too but for obvious reasons I did not pursue.

Another one is seekingarrangement.com, where a sugarbaby might ask for an allowance of $10,000/month from a sugar daddy in exchange for occasional possible sex. It's somewhat competitive apparently, the clip I saw on youtube said that there are more sugarbabies than sugar daddies.

It was very disturbing, some men will pay average women a few hundred dollars for the privilege of coming to talk to them a little bit at the airport.