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[Dench57]

Both could f*** 19-20 yr olds with no effort.

So could you if you overcame your anxiety

I've never experienced true social anxiety, and certainly nothing on the level you've described. I imagine it's incredibly hard. But it's still within your control. Having a f*****g hideous face is not in someone's control. You're above average looking and I'm not buying your reverse coping and LDAR attitude. Do yourself a favour and stop indulging in the circle-jerk of misogny on here, seek professional help for your anxiety, maybe take some anti-anxiety meds and

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put penis in woman

 

[hairblues]

So could you if you overcame your anxiety

I've never experienced true social anxiety, and certainly nothing on the level you've described. I imagine it's incredibly hard. But it's still within your control. Have a f*****g hideous face is not in someone's control. You're above average looking and I'm not buying your reverse coping and LDAR attitude. Do yourself a favour and stop indulging in the circle-jerk of misogny on here, seek professional help for your anxiety, maybe take some anti-anxiety meds and

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put penis in woman

Mic-drop

 

[shookwun]

I'm not int androgynes men and thats how i see really 'pretty' men.

Wot


this is what an androgynous man looks like

Ian has a very masculine appearance.

I'm not int androgynes men and thats how i see really 'pretty' men.

I'm not int androgynes men and thats how i see really 'pretty' men.

 

[DoctorHouse]

I like JDM great actor.

He was on Supernatural many years ago as the the boys' father and he was great on that show. I thought he was one of the coolest dad's to have.

 

[Baldhurts]

So could you if you overcame your anxiety

I've never experienced true social anxiety, and certainly nothing on the level you've described. I imagine it's incredibly hard. But it's still within your control. Have a f*****g hideous face is not in someone's control. You're above average looking and I'm not buying your reverse coping and LDAR attitude. Do yourself a favour and stop indulging in the circle-jerk of misogny on here, seek professional help for your anxiety, maybe take some anti-anxiety meds and

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put penis in woman

Maybe you don't get it dench. It's not about being just above average looking or average anymore. Now, today in 2017 it's about being the total package. Very good income, looks, nice whip, able to travel etc.. I'm fucked until I get help. Do you almost piss your pants when you have to go up to a broad at a coffee shop or order your coffee? I do. I can't leave the house. I'm scared to be outside and in the public.

 

[Afro_Vacancy]

Best genetics.


this guy has ever single slayer feature. Masculine, and low set eyes/brows

Slayer jaw, and chin.


I can't get over how insane tier his eyes are.

Yeah he looks incredible. He had a modelling career when he was young, then a middling acting career. But he's still gotten to have relationships with Nina Dobrev, Nikki Reed, and god knows who else.

I am insanely jealous.

 

[DoctorHouse]

Best genetics.


this guy has ever single slayer feature. Masculine, and low set eyes/brows

Slayer jaw, and chin.


I can't get over how insane tier his eyes are.

Shook, what's your opinion on Keanu Reeves looks either when he was your age or even now.

 

[hairblues]

Wot


this is what an androgynous man looks like

Ian has a very masculine appearance.

i don't like 'pretty' Ian to me is pretty

I have seen him over the years he always looked more like a model to me than an actor.

nothing wrong with him but he don't give me same 'feels' as someone like Tom Hardy or young Viggo Mortensen

 

[DoctorHouse]

Yeah he looks incredible. He had a modelling career when he was young, then a middling acting career. But he's still gotten to have relationships with Nina Dobrev, Nikki Reed, and god knows who else.

I am insanely jealous.

Rob Lowe tier

 

[Baldhurts]

Yeah he looks incredible. He had a modelling career when he was young, then a middling acting career. But he's still gotten to have relationships with Nina Dobrev, Nikki Reed, and god knows who else.

I am insanely jealous.

Last time I went out I saw men in the bar that looked like this, not as the same as him but similar. It was like they were cloning themselves and all were 6'3" and taller.. f*** I need to move away from the city.

 

[Dench57]

I am so tired of having anxiety, it's ruining my f*****g life.


when I feel bad i try to avoid people that I other wise talk to. Get nervous around people for no reason, and my brain over analyzes simple situations. I always the think the worst of situations for no reason, and think I am in trouble.


I pretend I dont care about women when inf act it's killing me on the inside. Women lose interest in me because they think I dont care.


When In reality I want them, but I can't be with them because I am cognitively fucked in my head.


It's bullshit, I see average, and ugly guys landing babes all the time because they are not living behind anxiety, and depression like I do.

Looking forward to seeing a psychiatrist soon.


I don't even hang out with anyone, and when people come back into my life I dont have the energy to see them. I play video games all day, work out, and focus on my career.

Where do you think your anxiety stems from? I think the place you're in right now mirrors mine quite closely and I've often found myself agreeing completely with your more self-reflective posts. I have no interest in pursuing women, dating, expending the effort, because I don't feel content and happy within myself. I get laid just enough to sate the primal need for intimacy. I know I can get it, as do you. That knowledge right there is a word you use often - privilege. Privilege that our looks enabled to us have these experiences. But I have no desire to pursue these hook ups, to let someone else into my life until I'm happy with who I am. I've experienced it before so I know it's attainable - that's what separates our experience from a true incel. For me this comes mainly from a myriad of physical pain problems, scalp inflammation and deteriorating hair. Loss of control basically. I think control is everything. For you the reasons may be more complex. I hope your next transplant gives you some semblance of peace. I'm pretty sure we feel the same thing, as do others on here - when we know we look good, we feel good. That's where our confidence stems from. When I feel good I don't give a f*** about anything, I'm living on godmode and my self-belief is so high I think I can take on the world. Cracking jokes, being charismatic, humorous and affable. Fun to be around. Without that confidence I'm an introverted shell. That feeling is priceless and I'll do everything within my power to reattain it. With that power, everything else falls into place.

 

[shookwun]

Shook, what's your opinion on Keanu Reeves looks either when he was your age or even now.

Aged very well.



However we don't know if they have had face lifts, Botox and fillers. Either way, whatever makes you look your best!

 

[Afro_Vacancy]

I am so tired of having anxiety, it's ruining my f*****g life.


when I feel bad i try to avoid people that I other wise talk to. Get nervous around people for no reason, and my brain over analyzes simple situations. I always the think the worst of situations for no reason, and think I am in trouble.


I pretend I dont care about women when inf act it's killing me on the inside. Women lose interest in me because they think I dont care.


When In reality I want them, but I can't be with them because I am cognitively fucked in my head.


It's bullshit, I see average, and ugly guys landing babes all the time because they are not living behind anxiety, and depression like I do.

Looking forward to seeing a psychiatrist soon.


I don't even hang out with anyone, and when people come back into my life I dont have the energy to see them. I play video games all day, work out, and focus on my career.

You've been a huge help to many people on this forum.

If you ever plan on attacking your social anxiety in a very aggressive manner, I hope you feel free to discuss it with some people here.

 

[hairblues]

no one as cool hot and sexy as this guy

i drool over him my whole life.

 

[DoctorHouse]

Where do you think your anxiety stems from? I think the place you're in right now mirrors mine quite closely - I have no interest in pursuing women, dating, expending the effort, because I don't feel content and happy within myself. I know I can get it, as do you. But I have no desire to let someone else into my life until I'm happy with who I am. For me this comes mainly from chronic pain conditions, scalp inflammation and deteriorating hair. Loss of control basically. I think control is everything. For you the reasons may be more complex. I hope your next transplant gives you some semblance of peace. I'm pretty sure we feel the same thing, as do others on here - when we know we look good, we feel good. That's where our confidence stems from. When I feel good I don't give a f*** about anything and think I can take on the world. That feeling is priceless and I'll do everything within my power to reattain it. With that power, everything else falls into place.

Dench, you have a great "package". And I am not talking about your pee pee. You have such a great funny wit and at the same time you can be deep and serious. I am struggling with this same issue in your post STILL at middle age. I was worse when I was your age. I regress too. Great post, was my take home message.

 

[Dench57]

Steve McQueen is possibly the GOAT

Cool personified

@CopeForLife even better than Jon

 

[Dench57]

Dench, you have a great "package"

that's what she said

EDIT: sorry didn't read the rest of your post because that one was just set up to be knocked out of the park. Thank you.

 

[hairblues]

Rob Lowe tier

exactly and of the Outsider crew Matt Dillon was my pic


THIS...

Over there two (before Teeth and nose job for Tom)

 

[hairblues]

Steve McQueen is possibly the GOAT

Cool personified

@CopeForLife even better than Jon

when men who are fit say they don't know how to dress or style themselves.

i say study old pics of Steve Mcqueen he was classy sexy and still manly in his style.

 

[Dench57]

Rob Lowe is a bit too pretty. Unsettling how he hasn't aged. Tom Cruise is a sub-6footcel. Guys like McQueen, Brando, even old school stars like Gregory Peck are so iconic it elevates them to a higher existence. Perhaps it's the nostalgia-tinted goggles of what a true gentleman should be. Daniel Day Lewis also has that intangible charm. All the women in my family love that guy for some reason.