BrightonBaldy
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i think the biggest hurdle most of the extreme users on here need to get over quickly is the seemingly desperate nature of their posts when it comes to attraction/women.
im not going to totally dismiss what it is they want from life just because i dont share the need for a relationship, im not going to pretend to be too cool for women either, i genuinely think im better off on my own just now but i could meet somebody anytime who could change my mind.
what i do want to know is why sone on here are so desperate for a relationship? why the urgency? it reads to me as though social status is the motivation, which is the same reason most women wont commit to a bald guy.
ive said this before but women will go out with anyone if they think their friends will fancy the guy too, regardless of how much of a dick they could be. most women dont even realise its the perceived social status of having a rich or good looking man they are attracted to, as the emotions are identical to those she'd feel meeting somebody she had real chemistry with. if a woman thinks her friends wont like a bald guy then she wont, even if hes a perfect match otherwise.
i think its the same for alot of guys on here, most dont have a bloody clue what it is they want from a woman besides all the cliches like companionship, love etc words that in reality have no tangible markers you can point to a woman and say 'she can provide this and that', its all a bit vague.
those who go on about getting pussy or easy rides are 100% doing sofor social recognition, physiologically theres little nore a woman can do for you that your hand or a sex toy couldnt.
we all need to stop trying to live lives for other people, none of us should need social respect.
i feel like im getting there, im financially independent, emotionally independent and id like to think im getting closer to being socially independent aswell. when it comes to my work, free time, expectations etc i feel no peer pressure, theres nothing i need that i cant provide for myself, so how could bringing a woman into my life possibly be anything but a drain?
im no example to anyone btw, maybe im wrong and theres something missing from your life that only a woman can replace.
im not going to totally dismiss what it is they want from life just because i dont share the need for a relationship, im not going to pretend to be too cool for women either, i genuinely think im better off on my own just now but i could meet somebody anytime who could change my mind.
what i do want to know is why sone on here are so desperate for a relationship? why the urgency? it reads to me as though social status is the motivation, which is the same reason most women wont commit to a bald guy.
ive said this before but women will go out with anyone if they think their friends will fancy the guy too, regardless of how much of a dick they could be. most women dont even realise its the perceived social status of having a rich or good looking man they are attracted to, as the emotions are identical to those she'd feel meeting somebody she had real chemistry with. if a woman thinks her friends wont like a bald guy then she wont, even if hes a perfect match otherwise.
i think its the same for alot of guys on here, most dont have a bloody clue what it is they want from a woman besides all the cliches like companionship, love etc words that in reality have no tangible markers you can point to a woman and say 'she can provide this and that', its all a bit vague.
those who go on about getting pussy or easy rides are 100% doing sofor social recognition, physiologically theres little nore a woman can do for you that your hand or a sex toy couldnt.
we all need to stop trying to live lives for other people, none of us should need social respect.
i feel like im getting there, im financially independent, emotionally independent and id like to think im getting closer to being socially independent aswell. when it comes to my work, free time, expectations etc i feel no peer pressure, theres nothing i need that i cant provide for myself, so how could bringing a woman into my life possibly be anything but a drain?
im no example to anyone btw, maybe im wrong and theres something missing from your life that only a woman can replace.
