What if you already peaked in life?

[Feelsbadman]

It seems a lot of guys get their first girlfriend when they are young and then they break up and then find a better girlfriend because they improved but waht if the opposite like my situation

had social anxiety so barely ever interacted with girls, years spent in the gym and working on myself lead me to a gf and it was amazing and the sex was great but that was my peak, since then ive declined so i cant get a new better gf because i already peaked? what now?

 

[20YearsOnFin]

what now?

Spend the next 10 years on gourmetstylewellness.com going round in circles.

 

[Feelsbadman]

no troll responses thanks

 

[20YearsOnFin]

no troll responses thanks

You have a defeatist outlook on life, you are looking for problems where they do not exist

 

[20YearsOnFin]

had social anxiety so barely ever interacted with girls, years spent in the gym and working on myself lead me to a gf and it was amazing and the sex was great but that was my peak, since then ive declined so i cant get a new better gf because i already peaked? what now?

Seeing as you just quoted Agassi in the other thread............Do you think he cared if statistically he had already peaked or do you think he kept on trying to win year in and year out regardless?

 

[Feelsbadman]

You have a defeatist outlook on life, you are looking for problems where they do not exist

problem i already peaked in life and had a gf and sex now i cant get anything
solution?

 

[Feelsbadman]

Seeing as you just quoted Agassi in the other thread............Do you think he cared if statistically he had already peaked or do you think he kept on trying to win year on and year out regardless.

how do you know? maybe he did carE?

 

[20YearsOnFin]

how do you know?

Because he kept competing, he didn't just say ''Im not as good as I used to be anymore, im going to go and hide in the basement''

 

[20YearsOnFin]

gf and sex

How can you rank having 1 Gf and bit sex as a peak of someone's life?

 

[20YearsOnFin]

This is Sir Ranulph Fiennes, do you think his peak in life was banging his first gf?

 

[Feelsbadman]

Because he kept competing, he didn't just say ''Im not as good as I used to be anymore, im going to go and hide in the basement''

but maybe he felt depressed because he wasn't as good as he used to be?

 

[20YearsOnFin]

but maybe he felt depressed because he wasn't as good as he used to be?

Nobody can expect to be as good as they were yesterday you can only be as good as you are today.

 

[Feelsbadman]

Nobody can expect to be as good as they were yesterday you can only be as good as you are today.

ok so how can i cope that i peaked?

 

[20YearsOnFin]

ok so how can i cope that i peaked?

Read a book about rational or positive thinking

 

[Feelsbadman]

any other answers?

 

[Oknow]

Nobody can expect to be as good as they were yesterday you can only be as good as you are today.

deep

 

[Feelsbadman]

deep

huge

 

[vondoom]

cope^^

 

[Norwoody]

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